How am I suppose to react t this: My son turned Gay

• Fcukpap

  22 Nov 10, 00:28

  surely u must have a heartache talk with your son when he comes back...

  however so, be mentally prepared..cos you only have 2 alternatives: either to accept or..

  listen to his inner feelings and voice first....

  listen again and again..and offer your calm advice...

  it is not morally wrong to be gay though it is socially not acceptable ...his character comes before his tendencies....you should never resort to force of will

  however the outcome, love and listen to him...

  he will respect and love you more for your acceptance and assurance

• BadzMaro

  22 Nov 10, 00:46

  Originally posted by sushinut:

  
  How is pedophilia the same as homosexuality? Pedophilia is taking advantage of children who cannot consent, being gay is between consenting adults. Also not anyone's business.

  U sure you know the true meaning of pedophillia.. or u just generalising the abusers together ? :p

   

• SinglishSpeaker

  22 Nov 10, 01:12

  lim peh ka li kong.  A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.   The other son of yours mustn't turn gay as well is the primary concern.   I have many gay friends now but I'd stay away from them as much as possible for fear of many reasonable points.   Not only many ammo gui become gay and lesbian, even many Jepun gui, Indo gui, wana gui, tn'g lang, etc. in Singapore (I wonder why all are gui except tn'g lang) also like to play play like mm sa mm si seow gui, altogether.   See how lah!  Go check with Mental Woodbridge Hospital if you couldn't afford expensive psychiatric treatment in Orchard Road.

• likeyou

  22 Nov 10, 08:29

  Ts, can undestand how being a parents fear for this for your children.

  No parents would like to have this problems.
  They prefer their children to lead normal lifes, married, have children, have their own houses and life.

  I do hope you can bring your son back home and talk to him, or bring him to see specialised docs for help....(I dont know whether this will help or not).

   

• Hwaimeng

  22 Nov 10, 09:14

  Originally posted by SinglishSpeaker:

  lim peh ka li kong.  A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.   The other son of yours mustn't turn gay as well is the primary concern.   I have many gay friends now but I'd stay away from them as much as possible for fear of many reasonable points.   Not only many ammo gui become gay and lesbian, even many Jepun gui, Indo gui, wana gui, tn'g lang, etc. in Singapore (I wonder why all are gui except tn'g lang) also like to play play like mm sa mm si seow gui, altogether.   See how lah!  Go check with Mental Woodbridge Hospital if you couldn't afford expensive psychiatric treatment in Orchard Road.

  
  power language

• PedoBear

  22 Nov 10, 13:59

  buy alot of chicken assholes for him to eat when he come back

  then say "go eat chicken assholes since you like eating assholes so much"

• Fugazzi

  22 Nov 10, 18:46

  TS,

  If you are a self-fulfilled individual (indivisible within!) the question of another being gay or being ... is no longer relevant.

  In this instance, your son is here to fulfil his  .... it is no business of me or you or anyone to moralize, circumsribe or dictate what he should be or ought to be. As long as it does not impinge or encroach on another - it is fine.

  Fixing oneself WITHIN first is essential, trying to fix'' others and derive mileage out of that is manipulation and self-serving! One is being accidental.

  PS - If your son had sought advice/opinion - a ''good'' one is allowing him to be and find out for himself, despite the dangers or the mishaps or the mistakes.

   

• PedoBear

  23 Nov 10, 01:33

  Originally posted by Fugazzi:

  TS,

  If you are a self-fulfilled individual (indivisible within!) the question of another being gay or being ... is no longer relevant.

  In this instance, your son is here to fulfil his  .... it is no business of me or you or anyone to moralize, circumsribe or dictate what he should be or ought to be. As long as it does not impinge or encroach on another - it is fine.

  Fixing oneself WITHIN first is essential, trying to fix'' others and derive mileage out of that is manipulation and self-serving! One is being accidental.

  PS - If your son had sought advice/opinion - a ''good'' one is allowing him to be and find out for himself, despite the dangers or the mishaps or the mistakes.

   

  
  i am a self-releasing individual

   i dont need anyone else

  i can achieve release just with me and my left hand

• likeyou

  23 Nov 10, 08:05

  Any news so far from TS?

  Hope all works well and his son can come back to his senses.

  We, being a parent like you, also fear for this too.

  Good Luck.

   

• angel7030

  23 Nov 10, 10:57

  Originally posted by PedoBear:

  
  i am a self-releasing individual

   i dont need anyone else

  i can achieve release just with me and my left hand

  
  i thot bear use paws, got hand meh??? i love to eat bear paw stewed with wintermelon, chinese herbs and martel

• angel7030

  23 Nov 10, 10:58

  Originally posted by likeyou:

  Any news so far from TS?

  Hope all works well and his son can come back to his senses.

  We, being a parent like you, also fear for this too.

  Good Luck.

   

  
  once a gay, forever a gay, no such thing as back to his senses one lah