you are by what you are studying?
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Originally posted by KendrickD:
In actual fact i think that we over focused ts's friend's comment. And singled it out for subjection. For every product there must be a cause as well as a process. A chain of events would lead up to this 'incident'.Eg, Maybe ts's friend was pissed cause he really liked science, envy? Why were you guys talking about oxygen tanks? Was your friend a professional diver? Is your friend an ego kia? How was your sentence phrased when you said that? What was the tone of your friend's when he made his reply ? Are your friends the 'omg- got problem i better stfu and do myshit' type ?
A few pointers to consider, anyway i over analysed it haha, i'm guessing you're stressed over your studies? anyway its already over so, just forget it liao la haha.
bo liao > i just watched gran torino, very touching, recommended. Cheers
actually, i cannot remember the actual content of the joke... just that i remember the last thing is about oxygen tank... nope, tt friend is sign on one... not do science one... nvm la, u r right, just let it be lor... i too stressed over studies liao... i do science becos i love it... not becos for the sake of money alone... lol
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LOL
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you can crack jokes about your arse while your friends are not allowed to crack jokes about your studies. ook i get it.
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who the hell farts oxygen?
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Originally posted by Zweiz:
you can crack jokes about your arse while your friends are not allowed to crack jokes about your studies. ook i get it.
First, you two need to get this right... what i meant is you are who you are by what you are actually studying? if you cannot get it right, then there is nothing i can correct yr mind... what i am asking everyone here is that if you r studying this particular subject, you cannot joke about it at all? tt is what i am pissed off about... becos tt is not the first time this incident happen... whatever i do something, they will relate it back to the fact tt i am studying science as if it is a big deal to begin with... like i cannot do it wrong becos i am studying science... many times i went: wtf... afterall, it is just a subject, why always harp on it even though i am not even bragging "hey i am studying science i am great"
To pedobear, you have to read the thing again and again... i am saying that in the amidst of a" joking session"...
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TS...just ignore yr friend if your friend cannot take jokes.
I do have friends like yours, crack a joke and get told off.
After that, I never joke in front of her.
In fact, never even want to go our with her (a group), it really spoilt the happy mood.
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Originally posted by blurking123:
First, you two need to get this right... what i meant is you are who you are by what you are actually studying? if you cannot get it right, then there is nothing i can correct yr mind... what i am asking everyone here is that if you r studying this particular subject, you cannot joke about it at all? tt is what i am pissed off about... becos tt is not the first time this incident happen... whatever i do something, they will relate it back to the fact tt i am studying science as if it is a big deal to begin with... like i cannot do it wrong becos i am studying science... many times i went: wtf... afterall, it is just a subject, why always harp on it even though i am not even bragging "hey i am studying science i am great"
you can crack jokes about your anything you want including your arse while your friends are not allowed to talk about anything that pisses you off. oookk i get it.
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I dont really want to go out with someone who cannot even accept a jokes. Very self centre person.
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Originally posted by likeyou:
TS...just ignore yr friend if your friend cannot take jokes.
I do have friends like yours, crack a joke and get told off.
After that, I never joke in front of her.
In fact, never even want to go our with her (a group), it really spoilt the happy mood.
precisely! i had a friend like that too, we cracked a joke and got told off.
but he kept sticking to our group, so we kept using the same joke that pissed him off until he got the hint.
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Originally posted by Zweiz:
precisely! i had a friend like that too, we cracked a joke and got told off.
but he kept sticking to our group, so we kept using the same joke that pissed him off until he got the hint.
why dun u get what i mean? i dun mind to be made fun of... the problem is he is not even making a joke out of me... he is implying hey u study science, u shld not make stupid jokes about it at all... he is making a serious comment about me... oh well since u r the one who keep on insist that i cannot take jokes... then let it be... i dun want to degrade myself against such person... ppl has already make the effort to explain to you but you keep on insisting that i can make jokes about others but others cannot make joke out of me... alright alright, u r correct... does tt make you happy? lol
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Originally posted by Zweiz:
precisely! i had a friend like that too, we cracked a joke and got told off.
but he kept sticking to our group, so we kept using the same joke that pissed him off until he got the hint.
why dun u get what i mean? i dun mind to be made fun of... the problem is he is not even making a joke out of me... he is implying hey u study science, u shld not make stupid jokes about it at all... he is making a serious comment about me... oh well since u r the one who keep on insist that i cannot take jokes... then let it be... i dun want to degrade myself against such person... ppl has already make the effort to explain to you but you keep on insisting that i can make jokes about others but others cannot make joke out of me... alright alright, u r correct... does tt make you happy? lol
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Originally posted by Zweiz:
precisely! i had a friend like that too, we cracked a joke and got told off.
but he kept sticking to our group, so we kept using the same joke that pissed him off until he got the hint.
If my friend stick to my group, I will usually crack more jokes directly aim at him....hahaha -
can any moderator lock this topic so that i dun need to handle certain ppl like Zweiz who gets too critical? he just dun get what i mean and jump straight into conclusion.... Thank you!
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When come to joke, ones msut bear in mind that there is a limit to each person. Do not cross the line and everybody wll be happy.
Many years ago, during a company night's chill out at the bar, I was laughing at one of my colleague who is singing...and another colleague told me off saying :Stop it, dont be a clown. Pple have feeling.
From there, I woke up and think hey, why I act like that? And since that incident, I become more wary on pple and be able to hold back any jokes if pple feel uneasy or not happy.
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Originally posted by blurking123:
can any moderator lock this topic so that i dun need to handle certain ppl like Zweiz who gets too critical? he just dun get what i mean and jump straight into conclusion.... Thank you!
i want to post anonymously on a public forum and everyone must agree with me
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yeah in the past i was a very mean person who loved to be critical about everything... like how one speak, act or whatever... down to the very small things... in short being anal about everything... till one day it really pissed the lady I love a lot... I changed ever since then...
sometimes we r wary on ppl but some ppl r just insensitive to others... they love to crack personal jokes or actually attack the person in words... i learnt it from the hard way that the best way to tackle such person is to ignore... the more you confront, the more he or she likes to make a joke out of you... i think i have lost my cool ever since i have entered uni...
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Originally posted by Zweiz:
i want to post anonymously on a public forum and everyone must agree with me
lol... alright alright... u remind me of myself last time...
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Originally posted by blurking123:
lol... alright alright... u remind me of myself last time...
dude i'm describing you
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Ignored and walk away is the best option.
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Originally posted by Zweiz:
dude i'm describing you
lol okok thank you! LOL
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Originally posted by likeyou:
Ignored and walk away is the best option.
yeah, agree...