Dying doesn't solve anything for the people who are alive, but dying does solved everything for the people who have successfully committed suicide.
Got 1 solution for ts.
Call yr gf parents and tell them your daughter going to kill herself.
Let their parents handle it themselves if you are at wits end.
then the parents will call up TS's parents and start scolding them for the way their son treated her, end up TS get scolding from his parents, from her parents and from her
SG girls eat shit..........
she say she want die just let her die lo. see how far exactly can she go...
-iDF
Originally posted by Stickythumb:Help! My gf is threatening to kill herself after having frequent arguments. What should I do?
Come on, update us.
The more you tell us, the better we can tell you what you should do.
Better not tell them....end up, your gf go with one of them...many wolves here hor
Your problem would also go.
ya, end up you kill yourself...all problem solved.
You need not worry too much. I don't believe your gf will commit suicide, after all committing suicide needs a lot of courage. You may see it as a form of threatening to you, but to your gf, it is not a form of threatening to her but rather it's her way of releasing her inner pain and stress inflicted by the frequent quarrels and the unhappiness in the relationship. I could see that she felt pressurized and that she strongly feels that all these pains that she has to bear alone is driving her into the corner and hence acting negatively in this way. If you can put yourself into her shoes, talking to each other calmly and communicate properly, it'll serve to put a stop to all these strong negative reaction(s) from her. I hope my advise helps. :)
Actually she has fears.
The fear is loss of face, i.e. what will her friends think of her if she lost her bf. How will her family members feel about her when the guy dump her. That is her fear.
Also, she has "invested" her time and her feelings, which now is about to come to nought. She feel so wasted. This is another fear.
Her hope (whatever it is) could also about to be dashed.
This fear is manifested in anger, and in that anger she want to inflict the ultimate hurt on herself.
So she want to choose suicide, to escape the humiliation and she tell you so, in the hope that you would change your mind.
1 advice for the things you can do after she kill herself.
get a blow doll