Originally posted by likeyou:For me, I love to be alone.
But sometimes, I love to mix with the crowd.
Majority of the time, I am lone ranger...I dont know why.
Sounds like me.
I love to read story books, that is why I am a loner too. Most of the time. But then if I am in the crowd, I laugh and joke around.
After that , I still prefer to be alone, with my books, and drinks and .....just to be alone.
Originally posted by likeyou:I love to read story books, that is why I am a loner too. Most of the time. But then if I am in the crowd, I laugh and joke around.
After that , I still prefer to be alone, with my books, and drinks and .....just to be alone.
My inner world is a sharp contrast with how the world sees me.
Loner at heart though crowded with friends.
I enjoy non-fictional books. Books that are uplifting, motivating & inspiring.
ya, me too, i love to watch and read about uplifting stuff...especially my fronts.
I tried to be alone, but somehow, many peoples want to see me..haiz, so i need to think on how to solve a problem, i go to toilet, if not, cannot concentrate. Alone is alone, but dun end up dying alone in your house for days ya
I have been suffering from lonliness for almost 1 year too..and yes, I have plenty of friends around me. But I can't open up to them. I guess it was the special someone that I wanted to open up to rather than anyone else. But after awhile, I just chose to accept life at it is. No point being so uptight about my own emotions.
Maybe you need to open up to more trustable people.You never know you can find true friendships in them...and feel less lonely.
trustworthy people are rare nowadays....most important is how you reference yourself to the surroundings and people
frames of reference....that is....the relativity of loneliness
Trustable people can also be like your own sisters and brothers? A close aunt? There must be someone who is good with people around, whom you can connect with. Just think hard who are these people.
Originally posted by Theforumlady:Sounds like me.
sounds like me as well...
Aloneness is bliss - one is at ease with what one is being and what one does and though one may not be able to articulate it as such, it is ''nice'' feeling. A sign of healthy love for oneself and yet being porous to oneself. The approval is a bonus for such an individual. Love is out of love.
Loneliness is misery - one is at unease with what one is being, and what one does. One feels alienated, one feels neglected. One wants to be accepted, one wants to validated and yet the fear of being rejected, labelled holds one back. One awaits approval, one is dependent on other's being happy with one is beofre one feels ok. One is a persona, one has a personality.
A sign of lack of love of oneself and even when it is love it is out of fear(s)
Originally posted by kengkia:sounds like me as well...
You? Kidding? You seem like a very chatty, sociable guy in SGforum. Can't be that lonely.
Originally posted by Valencia-Ann:You? Kidding? You seem like a very chatty, sociable guy in SGforum. Can't be that lonely.
in real life i am the opposite.
Originally posted by kengkia:in real life i am the opposite.
Undestandable.I believe many more are also more expressive online than in real-life.
I sometimes find myself feeling lonely even hanging out among good frens....dunno why leh...
Muse over this - misery loves company. If three or ... lonely people come together beyond the facade of doing things or ... each and everyone is a beggar within and all waiting to be fulfilled. It happens but it a placebo and one feels good for a while but then again it has to be repeated always cos it validates one's existence.