Gay
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Im an undisclosed gay male and I want to be straight,its torturous to lead this kind of life. I think about guys as often as normal guys think about girls, and everytime it reminds me about my uncertain future just because I'm gay, what hell. Sooner or later my family and friends will find out, when I have no girlfriends, etc. I was interested in girls once(though extremely seldom sexually), very long ago, and then I changed. I came from a boys school, could the lack of interaction with girls in my teenage years be the cause of all this? I'm considered by many to be blessed in many ways, a high flyer, etc, what irony. I really wish I were straight, not a god damn faggot. Can anybody offer any advice? Is it even possible to change my sexual orientation at all?
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surf as much porn as you can, and think about alot of girls, i think eventually u will be a normal male.
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Maybe upon see a naked lady in front of u turns u on, the "thing" will stand. Then u will be straight again...
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Pro is Pro, No Excuse... -
the only thing you can do now is to go out with more female friends...
interact more with them
dont think about having sex with guys (i hope you dont) or anything...fantasize more about girls!
i believe there is still some "female loving" in ye
if it dont work...go consult a psychiatrist
good luck
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just ask yourself this....honestly do u want to suck on penises the rest of your life?
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holy...... thats a way to look at it though
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yah man... u wanna poke a pangsai hole 4ever??
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1st of all, FORGET about SEX... FORGET about GENDER.... SEXUALITY... For a moment, make it DISAPPEAR from your MIND.... It DOESN'T EXIST.....Originally posted by nightmare:Im an undisclosed gay male and I want to be straight,its torturous to lead this kind of life. I think about guys as often as normal guys think about girls, and everytime it reminds me about my uncertain future just because I'm gay, what hell. Sooner or later my family and friends will find out, when I have no girlfriends, etc. I was interested in girls once(though extremely seldom sexually), very long ago, and then I changed. I came from a boys school, could the lack of interaction with girls in my teenage years be the cause of all this? I'm considered by many to be blessed in many ways, a high flyer, etc, what irony. I really wish I were straight, not a god damn faggot. Can anybody offer any advice? Is it even possible to change my sexual orientation at all?
There're JUST PEOPLE... MANY PEOPLE.... NOISY PEOPLE..... All around you.....
Move CLOSE to the people as PEOPLE.... Then MOVE to the girls.... Talk to them... As people.... Don't DETEST them.... Realise HOW DIFFERENT they can be from you...? Behavior... Manner.... Isn't that CUTE...? Now isn't that INTERESTING...? Approach them.... Ask for their names... Get to know them... Let them know you....
Realise how comfortable you can be when you're with them...? Realise how relax you can be when they're with you....? When you find someone who love you and you can love, love her equally....
That, my friend... Is falling in love with a woman....
Men...? By now you should be too busy for them....
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damm..well being a gay kinda sucks(i'm not gay)i seen some porn movies on it and gross, doing such crappy stuff poking this and poking there , then sucking this and there, always poke at the pangsai hole there,i feel Disgusted.
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I think... if u hv a particular sexual preference... it might not be easy to change...
but since u did like female before... then it might be just that you haven't been around female much... and the people who seem to always available are the guys, so you are mislead into liking guys?
As Prodigy and Devil1976 posted, try to interact with female more often (comfortably) and maybe you will not be so... confused?
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hey nightmare, relax ~
well, since you mentioned that u were interested in gals b4 then that's good..
that makes it easier (probably) to get back straight..u've juz gotta mix around more with gals and meet the right one!
and i really wanna praise you for ur courage to come seek advice for this bcuz you think that it's not right... that's the correct mindset~ GOoD LuCk , All e best !
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Just to share a short story...hee
i've got this gay friend and i'm disgusted and irritated by him not becuz he's gay(i don't discriminate) but because he thinks that there's nothing wrong about being one! he's proud of it, and proclaims openly...
he THINKS that by doing that, he can show everyone that it's alright but he's wrong. He doesnt know how disgusted people are...
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Love wasn't put in your heart to stay...Love isn't love till you give it away... -
Im very grateful for all the support and concern you all have shown. Believe me, I've tried some of the ways to become str8 before, but sadly it doesn't help. I find assf****** and certain gay acts repulsive too, but the thing is I haven't had the slightest sexual interest in females for a very very long time, they don't turn me on sexually like certain men do. I have had very little contact with girls throughtout my life after primary school... the girls in JC and U, or girls, just don't capture my attention. Only the bimbos in movies do (?!), girls like Reese Witherspoon, Romy and Michelle in the movie of similar name...but even then its not sexual.Originally posted by TingTing:I think... if u hv a particular sexual preference... it might not be easy to change...
but since u did like female before... then it might be just that you haven't been around female much... and the people who seem to always available are the guys, so you are mislead into liking guys?
As Prodigy and Devil1976 posted, try to interact with female more often (comfortably) and maybe you will not be so... confused?
Good Luck.
Maybe I should really force myself to know more girls. Anyone can suggest any way? Im will be extremely busy once school starts, thats why I have not joined activities that will allow me to interact more. Right now, Im seeking professional help at BMC also, going for first appointment later, please...... let it be good.
I hope its not too late to change, and its not easy at all, really, its so difficult...extremely.... Its no wonder why some have given up and simply choose to remain gay.
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I went to thailand N learn a new word u know wat they call gays there lady bOys hehe n yeah when to bangkok , n when to de hollywood disco lots of lady boys hehe , stilll remember got 1 group of them dacing on a podium , but if u just look at them , u will realise they ar just a group of Clowns
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damn all this gay talk!
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People can be disgusted by anything when it's not their cup of tea, and a bit too extreme for them....?Originally posted by luvofmine:--------------------------
Just to share a short story...hee
i've got this gay friend and i'm disgusted and irritated by him not becuz he's gay(i don't discriminate) but because he thinks that there's nothing wrong about being one! he's proud of it, and proclaims openly...
he THINKS that by doing that, he can show everyone that it's alright but he's wrong. He doesnt know how disgusted people are...
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"One's medicine can very well be another's poison?" -
Hmm....?
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The psychiatrist said there is hope, so I just believe him and continue treatment, whatever.
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Reading what you have written, it is very comforting to know that you are taking steps to help yourself. *smile*
Keep a open mind. Have Faith. You have the power to achieve what you set your mind to it. -
Good job nightmare, keep it up.
Jia You... -
Homosexuality is partly genetic if you didnt realised that. So it wasnt your fault that u r gay or lesbian, its in your gene.
Studies shown that during the pregnancy period, sudden hormonal changes in the mother's body may produce homosexual children. BUT homosexual people will NOT produce homosexual child. SO DONT BE SO CONSERVATIVE PEOPLE!
Its not wrong being gay or lesbian, if being gay and lesbian is wrong, then there r alot of things that r wrong in this world. Like being left-handed is wrong, being a MAN or a WOMAN is also wrong since all of this is decided by genes. -
Well can try going for hormone-theraphy. But it has bad side effects.
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If you think you defeated, then you goddamned are.
It's never too late to stop chewing on penises and penetrating assholes and turning to screwing cunts and sweet lovely asses.
You know it's abnormal to live the life of a fag. Every fag knows this but denies it. The whole damned world knows it.
How pathetic these souls are...may perpetual condolences abide by them forever to the grave.
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Hi there. I think I am in the same situation as nightmare. Nightmare, I recommend you to read this website:
If you have any concern or want to share your feelings, you can drop me an email at [email protected]. I am willing to help. Because I am changing also.
http://www.freetobeme.com/iti_gay.htm
what the others suggested is good. It is always not too late to change. Don't reinforce yourself too much. -
Personally i dun think u can change lah...
And i suspect the doctor is just being nice