i'm very depress n lost...help mi........
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Originally posted by curad:i'm very depress n lost leh.how?
Find someone to trash it out or take initiative to move on - you can't stay in this phrase forever. -
both.......Originally posted by loneryu00:Oh... Well I tink U r bother by smth... maybe U not convenient to tok it out? Or U dunno who to tok to...? -
Liddat I can tell U... U WILL remain in dis state as long as U dun trash it out... find sum1 U comfortable wif... then U tok out.
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how can you be me
i am but a sick man -
I said I WAS... (U can call it sick or watever...) but now... I tot thru many things... so I NOW not U... ok?Originally posted by Forever84:how can you be me
i am a sick man
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you don't understand
i am ill
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Ok...Originally posted by Forever84:you don't understand
i am ill
You are sick & ill. Period. -
I think for you is that too much has happened and it is up to yr limit that you can handle by yrself. You need to find someone whom you can have a heart to heart talk with. Cos it is the only known and effective way to so called share or offload the burden or troubles that is in yr heart. That person might not need to be a close friend, it can be just a stranger a person whom you never met before. You just need to let it out of yr heart and made sure that there is someone listening to you.
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watever it is
love urself
cos if u dun
no one will do it for u
cheers
ps: life sux, but u are not the onli one living it -
My last 2 posts were quite similar. Its about believing and accepting yourself. This will not work if you are afraid to be happy, and fearful of NOT being depressed.
The reasons are simple.
When we are DEPRESSED, there's always someone or something to blame. Anything but us because we are the VICTIMS of depression.
When we are DEPRESSED, we can be lazy and escape from our moral responsibilities. It's in our nature to be lazy and blame the BIG UGLY monster called depression. So easy that everybody is taking that path.
See how easy it is to say - I'm sad, I'm depressed, I'm lost because it is just too HARD to say or do anything else.
Face it, we are depressed because WE WANT to!!! We like to wallow in mud and get ourselves dirty because we are being PIGS about the whole thing. It's fun! We are the cause of our problems. Not so nice now, huh? Think about it and see if it make sense.
We are depressed because we are afraid to be happy. We are depressed because we are afraid of rejection so we reject ourselves first.
We are lost because we are lazy, We are lost because we are afraid to head out into the unknown and experience new things.
So who's to blame for depression. You got it - It's YOU!!! :p
Here's a quote from a Great Man -
"The moment the slave resolves that he will no longer be a slave. His fetters fall... freedom and slavery are mental states."
Adapted it becomes -
"The moment the depressed person resolves that he will no longer be depressed. His fetters fall.... He will be HAPPY!
.... happiness and depression are mental states."
Whew! I wear myself out. Curad, is this your problem?
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Double posting.... -
a great example of someone who is in a torment cycle.