"BEIO"ing subject
-
ever wonder are there any gers out there who don't mind their boyfren turning their heads
to look at those pretty gurls 
who walks by them or ard them..... wat will you do when you are beside him when he does that? for me i will jus turn away n pretend i din see 
... how bout u all?? 
any "self-consoling" tips? -
i think that is ok.. anywhere is guy's nature to look at girls.. You cant forbid them to do.. the more you control the worst it gets...Originally posted by ^Ger^:ever wonder are there any gers out there who don't mind their boyfren turning their heads to look at those pretty gurls who walks by them or ard them..... wat will you do when you are beside him when he does that? for me i will jus turn away n pretend i din see ... how bout u all?? any "self-consoling" tips?
Simple... If they don't look at girls.. how then you become his gf??
Well.. my bf do looks at girls who walked pass.. and he will tell me which one issit.. ask me guess whether they chio anot.. or tell me the way they dressed or their hair looks nice... I will join in and answer his questions.. and will oso compliment on those girls who really look nice.. Of cos we do comment on those not so nice oso..
It jus like a way of communicating with your bf/gf.. Keep the conversation going.. Sometimes out of context.. Not necessary must always talk sweet things.. and only talk about among yourself and himself.. things about him.. his life your life.. his past your past.. eventually you will run out of topic to talk..
So try something different.. If he look at girls.. then jus join in the fun and ask.."Why interested in her ah? Wan me go over ask her number?" saying it jokingly.. not serious one.. like getting jealous..
If you feel uneasy about it.. tell him lor.. talk to him about it.. and see what can you do from there... Well i guess is very normal for me!! i don't mind.. ahahahah.. Cos sometimes my bf does.. So i jus be like the supporting actress and play along lor.. Sometimes it can come out to be real fun..!! ahahhaa -
haha ...Originally posted by ^Ger^:ever wonder are there any gers out there who don't mind their boyfren turning their heads to look at those pretty gurls who walks by them or ard them..... wat will you do when you are beside him when he does that? for me i will jus turn away n pretend i din see ... how bout u all?? any "self-consoling" tips?
why pretend not to see ???
if this relationship must go till this stage ... i guess something is wrong liao lor ...
Just being frank ah ...no offence -
your BF sure is one lucky guy.Originally posted by SunRisE:i think that is ok.. anywhere is guy's nature to look at girls.. You cant forbid them to do.. the more you control the worst it gets...
Simple... If they don't look at girls.. how then you become his gf??
Well.. my bf do looks at girls who walked pass.. and he will tell me which one issit.. ask me guess whether they chio anot.. or tell me the way they dressed or their hair looks nice... I will join in and answer his questions.. and will oso compliment on those girls who really look nice.. Of cos we do comment on those not so nice oso..
It jus like a way of communicating with your bf/gf.. Keep the conversation going.. Sometimes out of context.. Not necessary must always talk sweet things.. and only talk about among yourself and himself.. things about him.. his life your life.. his past your past.. eventually you will run out of topic to talk..
So try something different.. If he look at girls.. then jus join in the fun and ask.."Why interested in her ah? Wan me go over ask her number?" saying it jokingly.. not serious one.. like getting jealous..
If you feel uneasy about it.. tell him lor.. talk to him about it.. and see what can you do from there... Well i guess is very normal for me!! i don't mind.. ahahahah.. Cos sometimes my bf does.. So i jus be like the supporting actress and play along lor.. Sometimes it can come out to be real fun..!! ahahhaa -
thanx for the tips
..but hor.. some guys different.... for example wen i see him beio, i will say "ni zai kan she mo?" hoping to lyk can play play say "hen mei ah, ni qu ren shi lo...." but in e end he say "na li you kan lah....." he like dowan to admit plus gif me that ans... make me dowan to continue xia qu..... 
and btw we din meet on the streets... we know each other thru net....
i've tried to ask him not to look(cos it kinda lowers my confidence) although i think its impossible....he promised, but after that same thing happens but this time round lesser and much quicker so as to avoid being caught.... i know n i can see..(i have eyes)...... sometyms i dunno is he trying to purposely beio den make me jealous .... so i beio other guys back purposely loh wen he talking to me....
wonder got pple same as me or not......
-
its human nature to appreciate beautiful things in life ..
-
boy in blue....why you say that leh??
why is he a lucky guy?
can elaborate??
transmission....correct ma... turn away so as not to make myself miserable....
everytime see one chiobu or avr looking one walking towards or near us i will faster look other place or geh siao talk to my boyfren(mai tu liao) which is not recommended cos u will see him looking.... -
sorry boy in blue..... wrong reply....
-
If he denys seeing then keep on joking.. let him know that you dont mind about it.. but of cos not too much oso.. If you cant continue then change another subject to talk abt.. divert his attention away lor...Originally posted by ^Ger^:thanx for the tips ..but hor.. some guys different.... for example wen i see him beio, i will say "ni zai kan she mo?" hoping to lyk can play play say "hen mei ah, ni qu ren shi lo...." but in e end he say "na li you kan lah....." he like dowan to admit plus gif me that ans... make me dowan to continue xia qu.....
and btw we din meet on the streets... we know each other thru net....
i've tried to ask him not to look(cos it kinda lowers my confidence) although i think its impossible....he promised, but after that same thing happens but this time round lesser and much quicker so as to avoid being caught.... i know n i can see..(i have eyes)...... sometyms i dunno is he trying to purposely beio den make me jealous .... so i beio other guys back purposely loh wen he talking to me....
wonder got pple same as me or not......
You can ask him not to look.. But you can make him promise on that.. cos i;m sure he bound to break that promise.. and then couples from here will tend to start argueing and quarrelling... So to prevent it.. Jus tell him.. i really don't like you to see girls.. But if you are really seeing pls be frank to me!! Don't like..when i ask whether are you looking at girls you tell me no.. but actually yes.. You are openly telling me a lie.. How can i trust you?? Even such a small things oso must lie..
Not say that i don't let you look or wat.. i jus wanna know.. And maybe i can join in which girl you looking whether nice or bad looking.. Jus tell him this!!
Always have confidence in yourself!! Don't lower your self-esteem!!! He look let him look.. If you have confidence you wouldn't scare.. Don't do such things to spike him.. Maybe he doesn't even bother about you looking at guys.. and he continues on.. And er.. is hard to find good looking guys on the streets.. Chiobus alot.. but guys very seldom.. have lah.. but not many..
Is only looking.. Nothing more than that.. Is jus like.. guys seeing porn.. also very natural.. right? oso see girls mah.. but jus that not on the streets... Good confidence will help you and the relationship you had... A woman can never seduced a fully satisfied man!!! -
hahaahahaa... his eyes not my eyes.. i dun wan him look.. i go dig out his eyes meh.. ahhaa...Originally posted by boy in blues:your BF sure is one lucky guy.
I dun wan control too much on him.. Don't want be too possessive.. later he "sian I fan" hahahaha...
He got his life oso wat.. his life doesn't revolve only me.. still got so many things he can do.. Now only bf/gf why give so much stress and pressure on him...
Most of all.. i have 101% confidence on myself and my bf!!! ahhahaa... He cant run away!!! ahahahaah -madness-
-
den ask u all(guys)...... supposing you n your gf walking walking and walking.... den suddenly got one bunch of yd and avr looking guys walk towards u alll...... you dunno your gf got look or not... but wen they past by u two, ur gurl suddenly turn back again to "see"... n worst tell you which one yd which one dressing nice blah blah.... wuld you chi chu (eat vinegar) n purposely check out on other females that walks past you? or u will agree with her and gif comments... im sure guys hate guys who are yd than them.... cos my guy told me that.... hope to hear from gurls as well la......
cheers~ -
Well.. occasional boeing is alright. BUT guys must always noe the fact that gals get jealous easily when U always praise other gals.
For mi, my gf n I exchange tips during boe-ing. When I spot a pretty gal, I will ask for her opinion. Similarly, when she saw a handsome guy, she will also ask my opinion. Ai-ya.. sometimes, a bit of bickering tighten our relationship... I make sure I dun go overboard to make her too jealous -
hahaaa... me not suppose to reply this.. but then i feel that my bf wont get jealous.. i think lah.. But if he gets jealous i'll be happy!!!! ahahhahaa cos he very "da fang" then seldom get jealous.. But of cos sometimes girls will like their bf get jealous over something.. then we (girls) will feel somehow rather happy about it.. ahahhahaOriginally posted by ^Ger^:den ask u all(guys)...... supposing you n your gf walking walking and walking.... den suddenly got one bunch of yd and avr looking guys walk towards u alll...... you dunno your gf got look or not... but wen they past by u two, ur gurl suddenly turn back again to "see"... n worst tell you which one yd which one dressing nice blah blah.... wuld you chi chu (eat vinegar) n purposely check out on other females that walks past you? or u will agree with her and gif comments... im sure guys hate guys who are yd than them.... cos my guy told me that.... hope to hear from gurls as well la......
cheers~
Well i dunno about other girls.. but for me.. i do lor.. *hint hint* hahaahhahahh.. But also not always get jealous.. or every now and then bo tai bo chi get jealous.. like that very difficult... and no good.. once a while ok lah.. ahhahaa -
yes yes true!! that's what me and my bf does.. But dont go overboard!! Sometimes kind of cute also!!!Originally posted by xian89:Well.. occasional boeing is alright. BUT guys must always noe the fact that gals get jealous easily when U always praise other gals.
For mi, my gf n I exchange tips during boe-ing. When I spot a pretty gal, I will ask for her opinion. Similarly, when she saw a handsome guy, she will also ask my opinion. Ai-ya.. sometimes, a bit of bickering tighten our relationship... I make sure I dun go overboard to make her too jealous -
haha ..
not true ..
guys won't hate guys that are yd lah ..
for me ...if theres a good looking guy around ..
i will still look ... sometimes will even tell my fren...
just feel that theres nothing wrong with it ...
see handsome guys not so often lah ... singapore not many ..
but ..
chioubu alot ... -
[quote]Originally posted by SunRisE:
[b]
If he denys seeing then keep on joking.. let him know that you dont mind about it.. but of cos not too much oso.. If you cant continue then change another subject to talk abt.. divert his attention away lor...
You can ask him not to look.. But you can make him promise on that.. cos i;m sure he bound to break that promise.. and then couples from here will tend to start argueing and quarrelling... So to prevent it.. Jus tell him.. i really don't like you to see girls.. But if you are really seeing pls be frank to me!! Don't like..when i ask whether are you looking at girls you tell me no.. but actually yes.. You are openly telling me a lie.. How can i trust you?? Even such a small things oso must lie..
Not say that i don't let you look or wat.. i jus wanna know.. And maybe i can join in which girl you looking whether nice or bad looking.. Jus tell him this!!
Always have confidence in yourself!! Don't lower your self-esteem!!! He look let him look.. If you have confidence you wouldn't scare.. Don't do such things to spike him.. Maybe he doesn't even bother about you looking at guys.. and he continues on.. And er.. is hard to find good looking guys on the streets.. Chiobus alot.. but guys very seldom.. have lah.. but not many..
Is only looking.. Nothing more than that.. Is jus like.. guys seeing porn.. also very natural.. right? oso see girls mah.. but jus that not on the streets... Good confidence will help you and the relationship you had... A woman can never seduced a fully satisfied man!!!
ya.... sometyms me console myself by pretending not to notice.....this way i can let him know that i dun care whether he beio them or not..and wun have any effect on me..... den hoping he will stop. or wat.... urgh... sometyms i even joke about those tv shows got chiobus... ask him watch le dun drool..den he will say "wun drool one, eyes only got you, only wan to see you..." i was like "huh? how can that be?"..... true wat right, peeps....? they very li hai sweet talk.... wats new.....? -
think tat's because guys have low taste(low-cut, big breast, show a bit of undies = chio liao), while gal have high expectation of yandao.Originally posted by Transmission:haha ..
not true ..
guys won't hate guys that are yd lah ..
for me ...if theres a good looking guy around ..
i will still look ... sometimes will even tell my fren...
just feel that theres nothing wrong with it ...
see handsome guys not so often lah ... singapore not many ..
but ..
chioubu alot ...
(brad pitt eyebrows, tat korean actor in "winter sonanto" eyes, body like tom cruise,etc.....) -
can u all tell me how to reply to a particular msg huh?
sorry newbie....
sunrise....
glad to hear that got pple same as me a bit will get jealous... me also think too much jealousy is no good, ur guy may think u u are very fan n thinking very "tu3".... me last tym used to be over jealous over this. but now not so le.... have tried to learn how to ren... see see lor... jus one glance only ma..... chu fei u guys have what thinking in your mind la. den bo bian lor.... me oso same as you.. bf show out jealousy.. i will be quite happy inside la.. at least you know that he zai hu u... dun lyk u see or praise other guys.. or maybe its their ego ba...
transmission.....
true leh.... my guy told me he dun like to see yd than him de guys... jus like we gurls sometyms see pretty gurls n get jealous cos we dun have their look and everything.. but for me i see pretty pretty gurl only will jealous for a while den forget.....ya i also agree sg not so many yd... thats why i so dui... id got la but only a handful...chiobu getting more n more.... haiZzZz.... -
Waah...R U sure U want me 2 eloborate y SunRises's BF is a lucky guy hah? Lemme count the reasons.Originally posted by ^Ger^:boy in blue....why you say that leh??
why is he a lucky guy?
can elaborate??
: Perhaps because he found himself a nice gal who has faith in her BF's faithfulness,
undemanding of exclusive idolation,
accepts his human weaknesses for now,
will not hesitate to address even touchy conversation topics in a light-hearted manner which i deem very impt becos it really stretches and strengthen both ppl trust limits instead of haboring taboo topics within which will erupt anyway sooner than u think,
sensible, mature inoffensive and probably can tahan all kinds of suaning, so don't oways need to be sweet sweet and never run out of conversation topics,
doesn't cause stress on her BF hence prompting spontaneous communication from his heart and his mind won't oways have to be the Censorship board with the agenda "Wait...No. i shouldn't say this. i must portray a perfect and everything oso know, everything oso can do image"......etc.
the key word here is 'TRUST'.
(Stay tuned, folks. We'll be right back after these messages)
Of cos. i cannot deny i will obviously feel very happy to know she jealous abt me bieo-ing chiobu unfortunately, my problem is i can't take my eyes off her. , but sometimes just to gratify myself, i will pretend to say 'hey, that gal over there quite chio leh'. Pretend to look like very interested like dat. Joke and laugh and 'Suan1' each other. but i will make sure she win in the end. -
Like they said, this is all part of human nature. Actually you should really also comments on those gals and guys that you see on the street while out with your bf. By restricting him, you will only be putting pressure and stress in your relationship. This also shows that you have no confidence in yourself that you can maintain the relationship.
-
sometime its good to show some jealousy..but dun make it a habit lar..if not can be irritating...if u can stand it, try telling ur bf u r uncomfortable but never never make him promise not to see anymore, cos guys just hate to be ruled by gals!!...
n ya, one thing i must admit..sg got lotsa chio bu..n some of them, the way they look at guys..haha..kinda trying to challenge the guy to approach them..haha -
Ger are u experiencing this problem?
-
i'll tell my gf, eh see lar, that girl so much prettier than u. but i still choose u. steady boh?
-
i use to have this problem with my bf's wandering eyes and all..
but i realise it is part of their nature.
u cant deny that if there is a good looking guy pass by u..u wont even look rite?
wandering eyes does not equal to insincere hearts.
Be contended that they only see and not touch.
U really got to trust ur bf big time..
For me..i too look @ gerls wif him..n sometimes if i find tat gerl really good looking i'll ask him to take a look too..his frens tink i'm crazy but it is good to be a buddy,fren and a girlfren to ur bf -
i use to have this problem with my bf's wandering eyes and all..
but i realise it is part of their nature.
u cant deny that if there is a good looking guy pass by u..u wont even look rite?
wandering eyes does not equal to insincere hearts.
Be contended that they only see and not touch.
U really got to trust ur bf big time..
For me..i too look @ gerls wif him..n sometimes if i find tat gerl really good looking i'll ask him to take a look too..his frens tink i'm crazy but it is good to be a buddy,fren and a girlfren to ur bf