Originally posted by floppy_zee:
I want a new bf...
I want to be loved by a more lovely person...
I want to be pampered by my bf...
I want to love someone who appreciate me...
I want someone who's not after my body... (tho' nt v.nice)
Basically, you just spoke what generally woman wants from a man. However, if you had never gone through crisis relationship before, then...

I) How do you know you will be loved by a more lovely person?
II) How you know your present bf is not pampering you?
III) How you know your present bf is not appreciating you like what others would?
IV) How you know other guys ain't the same, lusting for you?
Every relationship has its reason to be there. Btw, you people I must say something here and I will be frank and firm with my statement.

'We are the one that choose out partners, not the other way round. - (Law of Love; Truth 1)' You choose to enter this relationship, basically, if it turns foul, you got no right to blame it and complain about it because you choose it yourself. If you don't know him well enough before entering into this relationship, it is your own karmic result you have to settle. If you choose a jerk/b|tch (obviously from stories, her reputation and the way he/she is) and if one day they were to EVER do something that hurts you - in the end it boils down to your initial agreement of this relationship.

You choose a bastard guy - you live with it until this relationship is gone or things has improve.
You choose a flirty girl - you live with it until this relationship is gone or things has improve.
The list goes on. Love is something that is given not requested. The thing is that you want the above elements found in a guy - yet you
ain't willing to wait and source for the right one or at least go after the right one. Probably somebody pops into the picture, feelings is right and that's it - you just pray that he falls under that kind of category, which in fact if you don't purposely seek, you wouldn't find it either, unless it comes to you.

P.S: A woman's weakness is the inability to remain single for too long - this longing will strike them worst than any guy. However, this weakness, will tend to let them make clouded decision about guys that are chasing them, etc. Take a small break and reflect on what is actually going on - things will probably to repeat its history when not reflected deeply.

Cheers