I dreamt of my colleague and now I'm afraid to talk to him
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I had an erotic dream about my male colleague.
Please don't ask me to elaborate the dream cuz I'm not that pervert who wrote about the mother's breasts. (btw, are the moderators going to do something about that thread or not?)
I actually forgot about the dream. But one day, we happened to sit together with some other people for lunch. I noticed that he stared at me once in a while. It seemed nothing. But he has never stared at me that way before. I can't really described. His eyes and facial expression... a bit different lor. Only then, I remembered that erotic dream I had. Ever since then, I very paiseh to talk to him. But whenever he walked past my dept, he will stop for a while and look at me for a couple of seconds. -
hmm.... u think that person is interested in u or not??
how abt u? how u feel abt him? -
He interested in me ah? hmm... didn't think of that. I was just thinking whether he could read my mind and if he knew I had such dream about himOriginally posted by AngelDark:hmm.... u think that person is interested in u or not??
how abt u? how u feel abt him?
Well, he did tell my boss that he finds me sweet and pretty. (not surprising cuz there aren't many pretty girls in my office. mostly aunties)
He is very tall and handsome... but I am not interested in him leh. Never thought of that at all.
Bumped into him almost every day. Dunno how to say hi to him anymore. -
Be yrself... da more U "paiseh" to him, da more suspicious he gets... so wat if he interested in U? If U no feeling, y worry? if he 1 dae sae he wanna woo U or wat, U can tell him straight in da face, "No". dat simple...Originally posted by Honeybunz:He interested in me ah? hmm... didn't think of that. I was just thinking whether he could read my mind and if he knew I had such dream about him
Well, he did tell my boss that he finds me sweet and pretty. (not surprising cuz there aren't many pretty girls in my office. mostly aunties)
He is very tall and handsome... but I am not interested in him leh. Never thought of that at all.
Bumped into him almost every day. Dunno how to say hi to him anymore.
Bottomline... be yrself... coz if he really dat alert, he noe U act diff lately & use it to get more closer to U... -
Originally posted by Honeybunz:He interested in me ah? hmm... didn't think of that. I was just thinking whether he could read my mind and if he knew I had such dream about him
Well, he did tell my boss that he finds me sweet and pretty. (not surprising cuz there aren't many pretty girls in my office. mostly aunties)
He is very tall and handsome... but I am not interested in him leh. Never thought of that at all.
Bumped into him almost every day. Dunno how to say hi to him anymore.
better yet. He had the same dream!!! 
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so sweet.. he confirm won't know you had those kind of erotic dreams about him one .. unless you tell him personally.Originally posted by Honeybunz:He interested in me ah? hmm... didn't think of that. I was just thinking whether he could read my mind and if he knew I had such dream about him
Well, he did tell my boss that he finds me sweet and pretty. (not surprising cuz there aren't many pretty girls in my office. mostly aunties)
He is very tall and handsome... but I am not interested in him leh. Never thought of that at all.
Bumped into him almost every day. Dunno how to say hi to him anymore. -
What are your feelings towards him?
As for him stopping and looking at you, he's probably puzzled why you are tense around him and seem embarassed and don't want to talk to him.
Some guys may be insensitive barbarians sometimes, but some of us guys can pick up when something's amiss.. like your being tense and being afraid to talk to him... and even if he's not conscious about it, he'll feel that something's amiss.
Maybe, you gotta psyche yourself up to speak to him? After a while, the tension will ease and you'll not think about the erotic dream anymore?
Also, you don't have to tell him
unless you want to 
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wow u gt so many admirers :p can i date u
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is this the first time u have this kind of dream?? We chinese have a saying that normallywhat u dream is what u think.. u sure that u really dun like him at all???
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It's just a DREAM..? It can mean MANY THINGS...? Some even say it could be a form of self-understanding of a certain level...?Originally posted by Honeybunz:I had an erotic dream about my male colleague.
Please don't ask me to elaborate the dream cuz I'm not that pervert who wrote about the mother's breasts. (btw, are the moderators going to do something about that thread or not?)
I actually forgot about the dream. But one day, we happened to sit together with some other people for lunch. I noticed that he stared at me once in a while. It seemed nothing. But he has never stared at me that way before. I can't really described. His eyes and facial expression... a bit different lor. Only then, I remembered that erotic dream I had. Ever since then, I very paiseh to talk to him. But whenever he walked past my dept, he will stop for a while and look at me for a couple of seconds.
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Go to him and tell him about your dream...then you can make the dream come true. -
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follow ur heart......
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You dream could be telling you something: seek Sunrise.Originally posted by Honeybunz:I had an erotic dream about my male colleague.
Please don't ask me to elaborate the dream cuz I'm not that pervert who wrote about the mother's breasts. (btw, are the moderators going to do something about that thread or not?)
I actually forgot about the dream. But one day, we happened to sit together with some other people for lunch. I noticed that he stared at me once in a while. It seemed nothing. But he has never stared at me that way before. I can't really described. His eyes and facial expression... a bit different lor. Only then, I remembered that erotic dream I had. Ever since then, I very paiseh to talk to him. But whenever he walked past my dept, he will stop for a while and look at me for a couple of seconds.
Psychologically, because dream sometimes can seem so real - of course logically you know its not, thus feel pai seh when you see him.
My take is that this dream could signal something about him. Well, time will show everything.
Cheers -
if like that then i last time dream also like that....how?Originally posted by iori8888: Go to him and tell him about your dream...then you can make the dream come true. -
If it is really very long ago then find someone to substitute lor. I'm sure if you tell the person your dream by replacing the name to his/her name, the person would be able to make your dream come true.Originally posted by duotiga83:if like that then i last time dream also like that....how? -
man..this is complicating....Originally posted by iori8888:If it is really very long ago then find someone to substitute lor. I'm sure if you tell the person your dream by replacing the name to his/her name, the person would be able to make your dream come true. ........how shld i say.....oh well..... 
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I am thinking of that!!! That may be the reason why he @@ me the way he did! Parka parka, you can read my mind.Originally posted by Parka: better yet. He had the same dream!!! 
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can can, but do I have to cut off my right arm to be Xiao Long Nu's date?Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:wow u gt so many admirers :p can i date u 
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:You dream could be telling you something: seek Sunrise.
Psychologically, because dream sometimes can seem so real - of course logically you know its not, thus feel pai seh when you see him.
My take is that this dream could signal something about him. Well, time will show everything.
Cheers
Yunhaier, you're great! -
Originally posted by Honeybunz:can can, but do I have to cut off my right arm to be Xiao Long Nu's date?
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hmmm... heard someone mentioning my name leh... hahahaaa..Originally posted by Honeybunz:I had an erotic dream about my male colleague.
Please don't ask me to elaborate the dream cuz I'm not that pervert who wrote about the mother's breasts. (btw, are the moderators going to do something about that thread or not?)
I actually forgot about the dream. But one day, we happened to sit together with some other people for lunch. I noticed that he stared at me once in a while. It seemed nothing. But he has never stared at me that way before. I can't really described. His eyes and facial expression... a bit different lor. Only then, I remembered that erotic dream I had. Ever since then, I very paiseh to talk to him. But whenever he walked past my dept, he will stop for a while and look at me for a couple of seconds.
Anyway Honeybunz, what is your dream exactly?? Cos you did elaborate much... as you said you find quite erotic.. Maybe if wan you can Pm me cos i guess you dun wan to post in public.. If not you would have done it...
As what Parka said... Same dream? It might be right.. Or maybe not the same dream.. but then he happen to dream of you that night too..
Another thing is that someone has mentioned that is because you looked very tense and nervous whenever you see around... I dunno what really happen in your dream... But maybe you call tell me more about it..
Cos there might be some hidden meaning about what you have dreamt.. and this may give you some clue about dreaming of him...
Cheers!
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WelcomeOriginally posted by Honeybunz:Yunhaier, you're great! -
Erotic dreams means dreamt of having sex with him lor.Originally posted by SunRisE:Anyway Honeybunz, what is your dream exactly?? Cos you did elaborate much... as you said you find quite erotic.. Maybe if wan you can Pm me cos i guess you dun wan to post in public.. If not you would have done it...
Another thing is that someone has mentioned that is because you looked very tense and nervous whenever you see around... I dunno what really happen in your dream... But maybe you call tell me more about it..
Cannot elaborate further. Shy ah!