bastard alert, read on to find out...
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problem as below:
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=43141
i'm actually feeling much better now.
but some of the people at bar tell me to post here to seek more advise. so i do. -
Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead
Think not of what have happened, but think of what is to be done now. If keep on cling to this matter than you will not be able live better, try and keep your mind from the matter and enjoy life as it have present itself to you.
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Tell him off!
Teach him a lesson!
Or just simply tell him "Man, you are cheap! Worse than prostitutes. Prostitutes have more dignity than you." Don't need to give face. Just insult. This kind of man can insult for free one. -
wow...power sia
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I think sometimes people just feel lost when they are encountered by this kinda situation. Learn to be strong, don't give in so easily.
Only do things that will make yourself happy, not others. Unless making others happy will make you happy. -
Originally posted by Parka: I think sometimes people just feel lost when they are encountered by this kinda situation. Learn to be strong, don't give in so easily.
Only do things that will make yourself happy, not others. Unless making others happy will make you happy. clap clap -
You're alive!Originally posted by sgboy2004: clap clap
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hello... wow...pple actually noticed mi sudden disappearance for a few days...thanksOriginally posted by Honeybunz:You're alive!
no lah...busy with work mah...u good good? -
winky winky
So u r feeling better & tt's gd.
There's no instant remedy really but time to heal the pain/hurt & move on in life, believing tt u can definitely someone better than a jerk who wants free sex...wat a cheapo
Haha....btw, if ur anger is still not appeased, I agree with someone to make him high & when he's abt to climax, refuse to let him in. This is shiok man, not for him but for you....heeheehee
However, the above suggestion is applicable only when u r really NOT in love with him already, if not, you'll only hurt urself further & cant be starting life afresh & be entangled in a meaningless affair with the jerk.
Learn to let go when the time is rite. Holding on to it cannot bring u happiness. If he isnt ur 1st bf, he wont be the last. If he is the 1st, he dindnt promise to be ur last too. Cherish your life & the ONLY way to get back at him is to live a much more better life than him.
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U dun have to, coz U on da road to recovery... Its a good lesson learnt. Do share it wif ppl who faced similar probs as U... Yr exp can help them alot.Originally posted by winky:problem as below:
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=43141
i'm actually feeling much better now. but some of the people at bar tell me to post here to seek more advise. so i do. -
Tell the idiot to be good friends with his hand...
sheesh! what kind of slimebucket is he? -
Originally posted by the Bear:Tell the idiot to be good friends with his hand...
sheesh! what kind of slimebucket is he?
Relax... U or us here dun have to do anything abt dat "guy"... "he" will get "his" justified desserts... Trust me. -
he's the type of man who will turn women into saying and believing "all men are bastards"
and every man, even those who are good will be treated as such...Originally posted by loneryu00:
Relax... U or us here dun have to do anything abt dat "guy"... "he" will get "his" justified desserts... Trust me. -
I get wat U mean... but y fuzz over him? only make U waste yr bwain cells & make U grow more wrinkles!Originally posted by the Bear:he's the type of man who will turn women into saying and believing "all men are bastards"
and every man, even those who are good will be treated as such... (oops, paiseh...)
Be happy is da wae to counter ALL dis... simple enuf. -
Learn to forgive yourself lah... else how you move on... no ones perfect like me and you so you got to forgive yourself and be more confident of yourself and love yourself for who you really are if not you won't be able to accept other's love next time coz u will feel not worthy...
Emotions can drive you to do things like this so next time think for a rational action after you felt emotions... you are still who you are do not do any self-sacrificing acts...
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i'm happy
but when i see people being terrible, i'll be a bit upset...
why are people horrible? it's a stupid thing to do.. in the end it just harms people.. adding to the misery which will eventually land right back on their heads...
oh well.. i'll try to spread some joy.. i try to do that each day.. this world is miserable enough and i do my best to change it in my little wayOriginally posted by loneryu00:I get wat U mean... but y fuzz over him? only make U waste yr bwain cells & make U grow more wrinkles! (oops, paiseh...)
Be happy is da wae to counter ALL dis... simple enuf. -
time will heel
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Hi laopoOriginally posted by Xiao Long Nu:time will heel
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Originally posted by the Bear:i'm happy
but when i see people being terrible, i'll be a bit upset...
why are people horrible? it's a stupid thing to do.. in the end it just harms people.. adding to the misery which will eventually land right back on their heads...
oh well.. i'll try to spread some joy.. i try to do that each day.. this world is miserable enough and i do my best to change it in my little way
Dats life... ppl r horrible... its up to da minority who clings on to da belief we CAN live in a better world to spread wat U wanna spread...
WATCH OUT PPL!!!!!! A NEW OUTBREAK ITS ON DA LOOSE!!! ITS CALLED "HAPPINESS"!!!
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>clap<Originally posted by Honeybunz:Tell him off!Teach him a lesson! Or just simply tell him "Man, you are cheap! Worse than prostitutes. Prostitutes have more dignity than you." Don't need to give face. Just insult. This kind of man can insult for free one. -
I believe it takes two hands to clap. People are lured to evil, seduction and mystery - just like the way people are lure to bastard guys. Wanna know whether a guy is bastard? Check out his history and his character before you sink into his arms and claim him as a bf.Originally posted by the Bear:he's the type of man who will turn women into saying and believing "all men are bastards"
and every man, even those who are good will be treated as such...
The first law of Love: 'You choose you own bf' - when you choose a jerk, blame not on general guys, but on your judgement. You fail to make sure of sufficient time to see his true self or bother to find out and know about him.
By looking around the people among ourselves and you would find people entering into a relationship knowing each other for about a month or even weeks. How much can you know about someone with just mere weeks?
Risk... its the risk we are taking and playing. You people can't take the risk - don't play the game, yet.
Jokes for the day: Love is blind and Marriage is a real eye opener.
Cheers -
You tell him ok
go take chopper
and 'tok' for him -
cut his kuku off...
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Da Guru had spoken... ALL bow to da Guru......Originally posted by Yunhaier:I believe it takes two hands to clap. People are lured to evil, seduction and mystery - just like the way people are lure to bastard guys. Wanna know whether a guy is bastard? Check out his history and his character before you sink into his arms and claim him as a bf.
The first law of Love: 'You choose you own bf' - when you choose a jerk, blame not on general guys, but on your judgement. You fail to make sure of sufficient time to see his true self or bother to find out and know about him.
By looking around the people among ourselves and you would find people entering into a relationship knowing each other for about a month or even weeks. How much can you know about someone with just mere weeks?
Risk... its the risk we are taking and playing. You people can't take the risk - don't play the game, yet.
Jokes for the day: Love is blind and Marriage is a real eye opener.
Cheers
Oei... wanna join me in "spreading" faith to those in trouble to make da world a happier place? -
Forgive and forget... think tats not point looking for revenge... tat will be no ending to it.. try ur best to forget abt everything asap and carry on with ur life. The longer time u hate him the longer u will take to get over him. No point right? Juz treat this as a lesson, experience. Think abt it, u will be smarter next time right?