bastard alert, read on to find out...
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You siao ar? You think the movie Guru?Originally posted by loneryu00:Da Guru had spoken... ALL bow to da Guru......
Oei... wanna join me in "spreading" faith to those in trouble to make da world a happier place?
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what was in the past stays in the past. i think maybe you are right to a certain extend. but, really, i didnt grab any guy to be my bf like i hail a taxi. i choose. i review. i pick. i thought he is almost perfect (we are humans after all, so there will be imperfection). he was the gentleman, the sweet and nice bf, even tempered. but then, after 3 years of smooth sailing, we had some problems in the relationship, i wanted to tell him what i felt, what i want, he listened but still continue his own ways. so i wanted to break up with him to see if he will change. i dun think i can force my ideas on him, and i dun think i can live with that particular flaw of his, unless he's willing to compromised, i'll be willing to step back too.Originally posted by Yunhaier:I believe it takes two hands to clap. People are lured to evil, seduction and mystery - just like the way people are lure to bastard guys. Wanna know whether a guy is bastard? Check out his history and his character before you sink into his arms and claim him as a bf.
The first law of Love: 'You choose you own bf' - when you choose a jerk, blame not on general guys, but on your judgement. You fail to make sure of sufficient time to see his true self or bother to find out and know about him.
By looking around the people among ourselves and you would find people entering into a relationship knowing each other for about a month or even weeks. How much can you know about someone with just mere weeks?
Risk... its the risk we are taking and playing. You people can't take the risk - don't play the game, yet.
Jokes for the day: Love is blind and Marriage is a real eye opener.
Cheers
but, after some time, he didn't contact me, all of a sudden contact me, ask me how was i doing, that sort of thing. i thought maybe he has sort out some things. i didn't rush straight in, i just asked him whether can we try it out again from the start. he said "no. i'm quite happy with my life now, being single." so, i felt like as if maybe he wanted to break up with me long long time ago, but didn't know how to say to me, so just keep doing things to annoy me. i told him, "i'll respect your decision. but still, i wanted to tell you, how much i missed you. i was wrong, sorry... and.. i love you. i dun mean to say all these things to make you change your mind. but, i just want to tell you all these, because i feel a need to.
few days later, he contacted me again. initially, we were chatting about casual stuff. then he started to flirt with me. and the story of how i became a sex partner unfolds.
tell me how to catch the tell-tale sign of such a jerk? are all man who are nice and sweet, even-tempered, gentleman will all become like this jerk i called a bf?
he gave no tell-tale sign to me or any other friends i had. we knew each other for like 2 years before we got into the relationship. so pray tell, what on earth can i use as a gauge?
if i man who was so nice and near perfect can change into someone who's like a complete cheapskate stranger who wants some quick fcuk, then what other logical is left? its like telling me, my left hand is actually a right hand, and my right hand is also my right hand. it just doesn't makes sense to me anymore.
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Originally posted by winky:
Haiz... its over lady. I am gald this experience made you open you open your eyes and at least in the future, you won't be just blindly blinded by love - instead you would cautiously approach. Whether he is a good bf or not is doesn't really matter and I wouldn't know, but all I have to say is that how many relationship have you been? This is only just the begining of future relation is to come and because of that - you never know if future guys will be how many times better... (or worst).
what was in the past stays in the past. i think maybe you are right to a certain extend. but, really, i didnt grab any guy to be my bf like i hail a taxi. i choose. i review. i pick. i thought he is [b]almost perfect (we are humans after all, so there will be imperfection). he was the gentleman, the sweet and nice bf, even tempered. but then, after 3 years of smooth sailing, we had some problems in the relationship, i wanted to tell him what i felt, what i want, he listened but still continue his own ways. so i wanted to break up with him to see if he will change. i dun think i can force my ideas on him, and i dun think i can live with that particular flaw of his, unless he's willing to compromised, i'll be willing to step back too.
but, after some time, he didn't contact me, all of a sudden contact me, ask me how was i doing, that sort of thing. i thought maybe he has sort out some things. i didn't rush straight in, i just asked him whether can we try it out again from the start. he said "no. i'm quite happy with my life now, being single." so, i felt like as if maybe he wanted to break up with me long long time ago, but didn't know how to say to me, so just keep doing things to annoy me. i told him, "i'll respect your decision. but still, i wanted to tell you, how much i missed you. i was wrong, sorry... and.. i love you. i dun mean to say all these things to make you change your mind. but, i just want to tell you all these, because i feel a need to.
few days later, he contacted me again. initially, we were chatting about casual stuff. then he started to flirt with me. and the story of how i became a sex partner unfolds.
tell me how to catch the tell-tale sign of such a jerk? are all man who are nice and sweet, even-tempered, gentleman will all become like this jerk i called a bf?
he gave no tell-tale sign to me or any other friends i had. we knew each other for like 2 years before we got into the relationship. so pray tell, what on earth can i use as a gauge?
if i man who was so nice and near perfect can change into someone who's like a complete cheapskate stranger who wants some quick fcuk, then what other logical is left? its like telling me, my left hand is actually a right hand, and my right hand is also my right hand. it just doesn't makes sense to me anymore. [/b]
The minute when he spoke about pure sexual relationship: Straight away like angel to your soul I warned you. The minute he said something that immoral, you should have heed the warning of your womanly instinct or my words.
Karmic relation I must say: Well, the lesson to be learned is that: when someone is good - treasure and appreciate it. When things become fishy and unorthodox in the future - do not solo and blindly look at him/her on the account of the past.
TIme change, people change.... (money talks)
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Well... U some how "pattern" like him mah... even though I never watched da movie... but 7788 can guess lor...Originally posted by Yunhaier:You siao ar? You think the movie Guru?
Spreading faith? So how you going about doing it?
Eh... read da "R spore guys really so bad", then U noe wat faith I wanna "spread"... -
Well... you need bad guys around to enhance the image of good guys isn't it?Originally posted by loneryu00:Well... U some how "pattern" like him mah... even though I never watched da movie... but 7788 can guess lor...
Eh... read da "R spore guys really so bad", then U noe wat faith I wanna "spread"... -
THere r MORE than enuf bad guys here... forum alone got tons loh...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Well... you need bad guys around to enhance the image of good guys isn't it?
I oso got a "bad guy" side in me... only appear when necessary...
How abt it eh? We 2 good guys vs da rest...
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Only two?Originally posted by loneryu00:THere r MORE than enuf bad guys here... forum alone got tons loh...
I oso got a "bad guy" side in me... only appear when necessary...
How abt it eh? We 2 good guys vs da rest...
/me grab Mcsquare, Joho, Devil1976 and many others.
We have an army in case you din know that. -
Yar... U can spread here... while da rest go outside da forum & spread...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Only two?
/me grab Mcsquare, Joho, Devil1976 and many others.
We have an army in case you din know that. -
HAaa....Originally posted by Yunhaier:Only two?
/me grab Mcsquare, Joho, Devil1976 and many others.
We have an army in case you din know that. -
Woho
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So who else interested in our "holy" campaign?