Actually, Yolanda... the advice that the whole lot of people are giving you might not be what you really need... some of the advice you already know.
Just call up your friends, cry, wail, bitch and get your friends to spy on him. Seems that despite how sneaky and crafty that might be... many girls seem to feel much better after that.
If not, go skating. That usually works for me...

It's been several months, are you still hung up over him? Has he moved on? The line "It ain't over until the next relationship starts" holds through for both parties..
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Don't like what I'm saying? Bite me....
but not too hard please.