my best fren fell for a married man who toyed her..
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That's good to hear.. but I think sometimes u should drop hints so that she will speak soemthing about it.. so that u can be sure that she really alright.. especially she's very vulnerable at this moment. Like at u say she 'getting' guys. it can be just anyone who just have to show the slightest care for her...
Furthermore, she might just feel that she is burdening u if she mention to u abt it, so she keep a mum abt it... We all will hope tha she will get over the tide soon... And be rescued by a nice merman... =)
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Introduce her to me lah...Originally posted by joanne:ohz..thanks bear for ur concern.. my fren ah, i seen her recently. she's trying hard to be happy i can see..she dunwan us to be worried..but i can sense that she gets jealous when she sees couples ard.. hmm.. n she will try to "get" guys..probably she feels lonely..haiz..dunno lahz... i think the case b/w she n that bastard should be closed as i dun receive anymore news liaoz..
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HEY PPL! i wanna faintz liaoz..my another best fren called me just now n told me that my fren got back wif that bastarD!!! argH! i gif up! so pek cek! i tot she is fine liao leh..then now..haiz..the guy approached her once again, tell her that he misses her n went drinking day n nite etc...then my fren got real upset n got back wif him! ARGH! brainless fren...!!!!!!!!!!
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Manz... that's not exactly a piece of good news.... hehehe~ all the effort that u put in.. ehhehe~ all foiled... but seems that u dun wanna be bother by it too much liaoz.. at least that's wat I can see... can only hope that the guy is true to her.... either that she wakes up from her dream....Originally posted by joanne:HEY PPL! i wanna faintz liaoz..my another best fren called me just now n told me that my fren got back wif that bastarD!!! argH! i gif up! so pek cek! i tot she is fine liao leh..then now..haiz..the guy approached her once again, tell her that he misses her n went drinking day n nite etc...then my fren got real upset n got back wif him! ARGH! brainless fren...!!!!!!!!!!
okiez.. I know I'm kinda mean to say the above.. but I was not in the right mood.. or maybe was laughing becoz all the efforts put in by all of us just go to waste.... My apologies....
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Just give your friend a FINAL piece of ADVICE: Let her know that... "You understand this is HER LIFE. She can RUN it the way she wants it to be OR she can just RUIN it the way its gonna be. Just like addicts who turn back to drugs again, congratulate her... She just did it.... Ask her to think back to the time when the guy left her ALL ALONE. Think then NOT now. Cause that may very well be the FUTURE she choose to live in. Ask her to sit down, clear her mind AND think of the above POSSIBILITY. Ask her to take care. She's on her OWN. Because she NEVER LEARNT it the HARD WAY, because it just didn't HIT HER HARD ENOUGH....."Originally posted by joanne:HEY PPL! i wanna faintz liaoz..my another best fren called me just now n told me that my fren got back wif that bastarD!!! argH! i gif up! so pek cek! i tot she is fine liao leh..then now..haiz..the guy approached her once again, tell her that he misses her n went drinking day n nite etc...then my fren got real upset n got back wif him! ARGH! brainless fren...!!!!!!!!!!
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hi there...
i've been in the same situation as ur fran b4... wat is most important to me is to noe that there is alwiz someone ard whenever i need a shoulder to lean on... it hurts whenever i think abt him...
2 yrs have past but he's still in my mind... i noe he's a bastard but he has been so sweet to me when we were together... i started to hurt myself when he first went away... luckily i got frans who were there for me... who stood by me.. they never judge me but they were there whenever i needed someone... how abt u email mi and maybe we can have a better conversation...
mi email is : [email protected]
hope to hear frm u... i really wish that i can help...
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Yo astro, when did u come here??
Anyway, I always believe in the choice a person makes, be it right, wrong or justifiable. And the person gotta live with it.
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hi larry..
juz flew in lar... bery sianz hiding in my little corner mah... then c this topic reminds me of myself few years ago so cum in n c how i can help lor.. so boring today leh... anyway.. wat u say is rite lor.. teh choice u make stays wif u for life...
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Hmmmm... spotting a trend here. People are in love are exceptionally blind to good advice and reason. That man can toy around with her feelings and she will still be a willing victim. Lamb to the slaughter, i say.
Here's what i will try. Convince her a few times, if its not of use... leave her alone to learn the lesson first-hand. Can't help it if they want life to be a roller coaster between heaven and hell, right? But always be around to catch her should she fall, that's what friends are for, eh?