Love game
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being in a love game hurts...
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[This message has been edited by AsTr0GiRL (edited 30 May 2001).] -
Hmm.... Your handle looks very familar..?
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I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
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wat handle?? tea cup handle?? teapot handle?? kettle handle???
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do i noe u??
or m i suppose to noe u???
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Something on ur mind AsTrOGiRl??
Love hurts... but if it's not love it wun hurt.
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y do pple noe that a love game is gonna hurt and its getting nowhere but still they go ahead n play it???
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Talking about your nick when I mention 'handle'.... Nope... Don't think you know me... Just that perhaps I've seen your POST before..... No big deal I guess...??Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:do i noe u??
or m i suppose to noe u???
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II -
Because IN LIFE, you LIVE and you LEARN....Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:y do pple noe that a love game is gonna hurt and its getting nowhere but still they go ahead n play it???
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II -
oic... okie... so u notice my posts??? from where??
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Totally agree with what you say....... being in a love game hurts!!!Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:y do pple noe that a love game is gonna hurt and its getting nowhere but still they go ahead n play it???
Maybe they play it cos they are willing to gamble....... they dun wanna let their happinese slip by just like that, without trying....... like what we say, no pain, no gain!
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nOthiNg iS ImpOsSibLE In tHiS wOrLd
EvEn tHe wOrD ImPoSsiBLe SaYs "i'M pOsSiBLe" -
No pain, no gain.
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How would u know that it will hurt if u dun love??? Or rather a more positive point of view, how u know u wun be happy if u dare to love??? coz we all know that being loved is happiness, being in love is happiness, and to love is also happiness.. so y not love???Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:y do pple noe that a love game is gonna hurt and its getting nowhere but still they go ahead n play it???
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(.)_(.) Beary Bear *Huggiez*...
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it is part of learning and gaining experience. sometime thro hurt tat a relationship can become closer. Well me having problem myself so i wun comment much. :-)
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is a love game considered a challenge???
then wat is the thing that we win?? affectiong??
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I dun consider love game as a challenge... U dun win anything or lose at the end. It's more like a feel for that someone, thats wat's love is... the only thing which is closest to a challenge is when a male goes after a female.. but I dun call it a challenge becoz it's mind over heart.. love is prefered to be heart over mind... Personal POV....Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:is a love game considered a challenge???
then wat is the thing that we win?? affectiong??
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( 'o' ) Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear
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(.)_(.) Beary Bear *Huggiez*...
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Can't remember already.... Like... I'm already MORE than 100 years old liao ley..? Don't expect me to remember everything in my life right....?Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:oic... okie... so u notice my posts??? from where??
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II -
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[This message has been edited by Devil1976 (edited 04 June 2001).] -
i think it is part of growing up and learning more abt yrself. GOD always arrange things such that we will learn something from it. I believe tat no matter what we do, there is a reason behind all these.
being in relationship allow us to know what we really wan in a marriage. It also allows us to see the ugly/beautiful side of ppl. r/s also test our patience, understanding and other qualities. IT oso allow us to noe exactly how strong or weak we are or how emotion we can get.
everything is a lesson. Just see things in different perspective and the whole will be a better place to live in. -
u more than 100 yrs old??? so old liao arh???
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NO LAH..... Where got old...?? '124' for a Devil is considered YOUNG and HANDSOME ok..???!! You see the MUMMY after he returned SO OLD already got so many PIMPLES HOLES!!! SO UGLY!!! YAK!!!!! Me NO HAVE okkkiee..??? Gyak Gyak Gyak Gyak.... :p :p :pOriginally posted by AsTr0GiRL:u more than 100 yrs old??? so old liao arh???
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
[This message has been edited by Devil1976 (edited 07 June 2001).] -
the game of love
y can't i be free from love? y can't i not play this cruel game of taking and giving?
in this game of love...i can never be the winner...
it's useless..i always turn out to be the loser..the one who gives more than anyone else but
gets the least in return
u know i am weak..i am weak face to face with the crucial moments of emotions..my heart is
softened at the words of a person i love
the game of love...always so torturing but once in a while..i may have the good feeling of winning or even achieving something...this feeling i can remember...
but then..i must wake up from my dreams and fly out of the world of utopia...i must face
reality..
Although cruel but real...
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Hee, just something i wrote a few years back..cuz quite connected to this topic, so juz post it loh...
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Oh that's good. For me love is a curious thing, it can make someone laugh and someone cry. Love is... Love. I cannot describe it.Originally posted by luvofmine:the game of love
t's useless..i always turn out to be the loser..the one who gives more than anyone else but gets the least in return
u know i am weak..i am weak face to face with the crucial moments of emotions..my heart is
softened at the words of a person i love
the game of love...always so torturing but once in a while..i may have the good feeling of winning or even achieving something...this feeling i can remember...
but then..i must wake up from my dreams and fly out of the world of utopia...i must face
reality..
Although cruel but real...
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Hee, just something i wrote a few years back..cuz quite connected to this topic, so juz post it loh...
Please dun laugh...hee
Love is... supposed to be unselfish. To give up one's peace for another's happiness. To give and not to take and when you have nothing left to give, go ahead and give some more. Because Love is an endless stream of good things and Love is also an endless stream of bad things too. Not making sense, eh? But its true. -
basically, like people always say, matters of the heart is difficult to put in words lo......please dun think so negatively abt urself lo.....Originally posted by luvofmine:the game of love
y can't i be free from love? y can't i not play this cruel game of taking and giving?
in this game of love...i can never be the winner...
it's useless..i always turn out to be the loser..the one who gives more than anyone else but
gets the least in return
u know i am weak..i am weak face to face with the crucial moments of emotions..my heart is
softened at the words of a person i love
the game of love...always so torturing but once in a while..i may have the good feeling of winning or even achieving something...this feeling i can remember...
but then..i must wake up from my dreams and fly out of the world of utopia...i must face
reality..
Although cruel but real...
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Hee, just something i wrote a few years back..cuz quite connected to this topic, so juz post it loh...
Please dun laugh...hee
u say u always lose in this game of love......ever heard of tt to love is to take a gamble with ur feelings as a bet? if it is a gamble, den "shi du jiu shu" who ever wins all the time? even if u c a person who's able to seemingly win all the while, but there are bound to be times when he/she falls too.......no human is infallible....
people in this forum....some of us may seem to be able to console the other pple with problems and all, but none of us have no problems of our own lo....we do meet with failures in relationships.... =)
basically, u're not alone lo.....dun ever think tt u're alone....blif in urself, and blif in the fact that whatever u wanna do, wat ever goals u've set, u will be able to achieve it if u put ur mind n heart to it. really.....nothing is impossible lo.......but then again, know ur limits. =))
plus, who doesn't go weak in the knees when they hear the sweet tok from their loved ones? even i do. =) it's ok to be dreaming once in a while lo......really. coz without reality, how would u know u're dreaming? without dreams, how do u know u're actually living? =) it's like wat's darkness? darkness=the absence of light. simple as that.......most things in life if not all have either a parallel, and a foil, ie a comparative object. =))
dun be discouraged just by a few failures. =) u're still young, we all are...and there are bound to be more major failures in life than falls in love lo. =))) -
Love is feelings u had for someone which no one can control. But when u r in love, y do u consider urself as the loser jusrt becoz u gif more? I would consider urself as the winner, becoz u are not afraid to gif mroe a the point of time when u r in love... that's wat's love is abt. u dare to put ur feelings in the hands of another person, that's love. Do u think a r/s will work out if u are gonna reserve ur love for later use?? u think u will run out of love by the age of 80?Originally posted by luvofmine:the game of love
y can't i be free from love? y can't i not play this cruel game of taking and giving?
in this game of love...i can never be the winner...
it's useless..i always turn out to be the loser..the one who gives more than anyone else but
gets the least in return
u know i am weak..i am weak face to face with the crucial moments of emotions..my heart is
softened at the words of a person i love
the game of love...always so torturing but once in a while..i may have the good feeling of winning or even achieving something...this feeling i can remember...
but then..i must wake up from my dreams and fly out of the world of utopia...i must face
reality..
Although cruel but real...
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Hee, just something i wrote a few years back..cuz quite connected to this topic, so juz post it loh...
Please dun laugh...hee
The answer is NO! since u love this person go all out.. gif it all to the person. becoz in ur eyes he/she deserves it. That's love, my dear. U r not useless if u got ditched.. but u r a fialure if u dun dare to love in love.. U will miss a lot of chances, that just slip by and u will only regret y u haven't put in more effort. If u have given the very best to maintain a r/s I think u wun have the guilt in u that it is u who has destroy the r/s....
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( 'o' ) Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear
(,) (,) =======================
(.)_(.) Beary Bear *Huggiez*...
~.~.~. For you, I care and love. -
Hey, thanks for the opinions.. hee
*sighs* just to clarify, i wrote that a few years back & i certainly don't agree to what i've wrote back then...cuz since then, my thinking has changed loh... =)
but since the topic was somesort of connected to the "poem" , i just decided to share it with you all...a "poem" by a "thought-i've-been-through-alot-but-actually-not" 12 years old girl ....
and Bear is right, we don't lose out by giving more ... =)
i really gotta say that as we grow up, we really mature in all aspects of our thinking.
If there's a chance, then we shall discuss on this topic and exchange ideas further...hee
nitez a||...it's another sleepless night for me *hugz*