The "why are guys so cheapskate" new chapter
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Hi friends,
got second chapter now. i just recieve this email from that bastard ex of mine:
what does this mean if you are the one that have sent it? is it a sincere apology or another mean of getting my trust so that he can fcuk me again? should i ignore it or be more forgiving (by forgiving it doesn't mean i forget what he did, just that i dun blame him anymore)?
I've been wrecked with guilt for the past few days knowing how much I have hurt u by treating u like that. I really believed that u wanted to go to bed with me just for the act alone and not because of other reasons....from the hp msgs to the icq msgs, I was rather sure it was only that. If I had known u were hoping for something else I wouldn't even go over ur place because I know its impossible.
I most certainly did not see u as a prostitute but as a willing partner in this act......I saw it as though u had needs and I had needs so we agreed to satisfy those needs. I dunno how I can make it up to you for this terrible sin I have committed. I have written this mail with the utmost care not to upset u with any words....but I know the act of sending u the mail is upsetting enough but I need to tell you these feelings I have.
I really wish to remain friends with you. I beg for your forgiveness. I know it will take u very long before u are able to do so.....but I hope u would drop me a mail or msg when u are willing to talk to me again. I promise never to treat you like that ever again. -
well...he is realli a bastard.As you can see, he is trying to ask for forgiveness so that he can fook u one more time.
Hope u better wake up soon, stop thinking abt those positive side.
To him, u may just be another substituition, who noes he may have done the same method to other gals.
Dun be deceived once again, if possible, refrain from contacting him if you realli have no interest in him at all.
And lastly, if he realli loves u, y didnt he get back with you but ended up having sex?
Puzzled huh.....
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remain as frens so that when u're depressed and he'll be there to console u and get another round of free sex..
solution: just relegate him to 'mere aquaintance' circle' -
HEY. Y DUN U JUZ BE FIRM IN YR DECISION?! & PLS... YR TOPIC DO WRITE WIF MORE "CARE" NEXT TIME... I AM TIRED OF ALL DIS LIAO... BUT I WILL SAE IT AGAIN, "DO NOT INVOLVE ALL GUYS INTO 1 CATEGORY... THOSE "SCUMBAGS" WHO DID THINGS TO HURT U R OF 1 KIND, BUT NOT ALL R LIKE DAT."Originally posted by winky:Hi friends,
got second chapter now. i just recieve this email from that bastard ex of mine:
what does this mean if you are the one that have sent it? is it a sincere apology or another mean of getting my trust so that he can fcuk me again? should i ignore it or be more forgiving (by forgiving it doesn't mean i forget what he did, just that i dun blame him anymore)? -
hey, i'm sorry i forgot to put the 'some' guys. u dun need to shout like this do you? if you do refer back to the original topic i did put 'some', i dun mean all the guys in the world of course. if it really meant so much to you, then i apology to you here, "i'm sorry".Originally posted by loneryu00:HEY. Y DUN U JUZ BE FIRM IN YR DECISION?! & PLS... YR TOPIC DO WRITE WIF MORE "CARE" NEXT TIME... I AM TIRED OF ALL DIS LIAO... BUT I WILL SAE IT AGAIN, "DO NOT INVOLVE ALL GUYS INTO 1 CATEGORY... THOSE "SCUMBAGS" WHO DID THINGS TO HURT U R OF 1 KIND, BUT NOT ALL R LIKE DAT."
i'm not saying that i'm going after him again. i'm just puzzled what the heck is he thinking about. to a female stand point, if i said those things, then i really mean them. how i know whether a guy thinks the same or not as a female.
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Originally posted by winky:Hi friends,
got second chapter now. i just recieve this email from that bastard ex of mine:
what does this mean if you are the one that have sent it? is it a sincere apology or another mean of getting my trust so that he can fcuk me again? should i ignore it or be more forgiving (by forgiving it doesn't mean i forget what he did, just that i dun blame him anymore)?
what if your ex reads what you post on sgforums? -
oh he means it alrite..just that both of u have made inroads b4..so he'll feel that he can go fer another round should the opportunity arises
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I apologize too... I felt too emotional whenever some "gal" wld comment on "guys r bad" & such... hurt our pride & shattering out faith... I guessed I tired of these so-called "battle of da sexes..."Originally posted by winky:hey, i'm sorry i forgot to put the 'some' guys. u dun need to shout like this do you? if you do refer back to the original topic i did put 'some', i dun mean all the guys in the world of course. if it really meant so much to you, then i apology to you here, "i'm sorry".
i'm not saying that i'm going after him again. i'm just puzzled what the heck is he thinking about. to a female stand point, if i said those things, then i really mean them. how i know whether a guy thinks the same or not as a female. 
not all guys tink like him... but after wat he done... U tink can trust him again? I sae his "explaination" is only 1/2 1/2 credibility... cannot really trust him... anywae... guys reputation dat bad... I tink DUN TRUST him... stand firm on yr gnd. -
hiya winky...
here's the flip side of your subject question (not looking at the content):
Why are girls so fixated on material costs of things offered to them?
I know the content's about something else, but when push comes to shove, the question reflects the materialistic nature of some women. -
*shake hand* make peace ok?Originally posted by loneryu00:I apologize too... I felt too emotional whenever some "gal" wld comment on "guys r bad" & such... hurt our pride & shattering out faith... I guessed I tired of these so-called "battle of da sexes..."
not all guys tink like him... but after wat he done... U tink can trust him again? I sae his "explaination" is only 1/2 1/2 credibility... cannot really trust him... anywae... guys reputation dat bad... I tink DUN TRUST him... stand firm on yr gnd.
okie. i think get the idea that it is not a sincere apology. -
Har? Dis 1 I only get 1/2 1/2... wat U refering to?Originally posted by the Bear:hiya winky...
here's the flip side of your subject question (not looking at the content):
Why are girls so fixated on material costs of things offered to them?
I know the content's about something else, but when push comes to shove, the question reflects the materialistic nature of some women. -
Peace.Originally posted by winky:*shake hand* make peace ok?
okie. i think get the idea that it is not a sincere apology.
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i also dun really understand.Originally posted by loneryu00:Har? Dis 1 I only get 1/2 1/2... wat U refering to? -
winky....if u really love him, give it another go, but be firm and resist his attempts at sex or physical itimacy.
try not go his house etc or bushes or places where will give him a *chance*
usually it will take abt 2 weeks b4 he breaks down or wake up -
winky....if u really love him, give it another go, but be firm and resist his attempts at sex or physical itimacy.
try not go his house etc or bushes or places where will give him a *chance*
usually it will take abt 2 weeks b4 he breaks down or wake up -
R U sure...? Hey......Originally posted by Peppermint:winky....if u really love him, give it another go, but be firm and resist his attempts at sex or physical itimacy.
try not go his house etc or bushes or places where will give him a *chance*
usually it will take abt 2 weeks b4 he breaks down or wake up
BTW U good at palmistry rite? noe wats simian line? can dun mind explaining to me? My both palm got. -
u ah..always looking fer answers to yer simian line..ok ok i give up..letme spill the beans fer ya..Originally posted by loneryu00:R U sure...? Hey......
BTW U good at palmistry rite? noe wats simian line? can dun mind explaining to me? My both palm got.
those two lines that were meant to be separated are 'head' and 'heart' lines..if u have simian lines..then these two are one, rite? head n heart as one..this means that u have very strong resolve in doing things. if u're determined to do something, u'll do it until it gets done. if it's head over heart (logic wins) then i guess it's ok..but when it's the other way round it could lead to something destructive..
the bad note of this is that ppl with simian lines are often associated with heart diseases. not medically proven yet, but the med archives showed some evidence of this -
Oic... I noe I got heartburn...... then if got 2 leh? (As in both palms got...) any difference?Originally posted by Syusaku:u ah..always looking fer answers to yer simian line..ok ok i give up..letme spill the beans fer ya..
those two lines that were meant to be separated are 'head' and 'heart' lines..if u have simian lines..then these two are one, rite? head n heart as one..this means that u have very strong resolve in doing things. if u're determined to do something, u'll do it until it gets done. if it's head over heart (logic wins) then i guess it's ok..but when it's the other way round it could lead to something destructive..
the bad note of this is that ppl with simian lines are often associated with heart diseases. not medically proven yet, but the med archives showed some evidence of this
Sorry dat I had to deviate from original topic... BUT Mr. Peppermint here very hard to find... cannot let go! -
sounds pretty lame to me..wat he wrote is like saying u r willing to sleep with him...
hmm, wont deny the possibility tat he wanna keep in contact n have another chance at pt in time.. -
x2 effect lor...
dun worry..i'm share the same traits as u..worse still, i'm left-handed..shorter lifespan than most ppl -
Har? left handed means U "decipher" da lines on yr left? I tot its always da left? hmm......Originally posted by Syusaku:x2 effect lor...
dun worry..i'm share the same traits as u..worse still, i'm left-handed..shorter lifespan than most ppl
Dun believe too much... it MAY not mean shorter lifespan... more like "less" healthy than average? -
anyway back to the topic..i suppose both of u are very close to each other in the past..to explain his behaviour pls allow me to use an analogy..
let's suppose yr ex is a baseball player on the field..he's now in 3rd base..on the verge of reaching the 4th (ie the last stage) he suddenly gets called off the pitch..he'd be pissed and thinking: &%*, so close to the finish and i must get off rite now..well i'd just as well finish the last run n after that call it a day..so he runs to the end and later apologises to his furious manager for his disobedience.
i guess it's pretty much the same here..he could be thinking that he's missed out a part of the r/s if he din have sex with you. That's prob why he's done all this stuff and is now saying sorry for doing so. Sorta like fufilling his own dream/desire/watever u call that.
i'm sure u should know what u plan to do..just wanna let u see the other side of his stand. -
Is this the same as the split palm thing?Originally posted by loneryu00:Har? left handed means U "decipher" da lines on yr left? I tot its always da left? hmm......
Dun believe too much... it MAY not mean shorter lifespan... more like "less" healthy than average? -
Pepper,Originally posted by Peppermint:winky....if u really love him, give it another go, but be firm and resist his attempts at sex or physical itimacy.
try not go his house etc or bushes or places where will give him a *chance*
usually it will take abt 2 weeks b4 he breaks down or wake up
I cannot agree with you on this. Love is NOT an issue here. That bugger has a good FOOK and is writing a letter to be friends again.... doesn't it sound fishy to you? His writing is not even sincere. I can do it in my sleep.....
He might be lining winky up for the next round. I know of friends who lines women up for fun. 2 weeks, 2 months, it doesn't matter.... all this while he may be fooling around with other women.
There will always be a second round no matter how you resist.
I say "Thrash him!!!"
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yeah. i think the best thing to do is just ignore his email.Originally posted by Klactovak:Pepper,
I cannot agree with you on this. Love is NOT an issue here. That bugger has a good FOOK and is writing a letter to be friends again.... doesn't it sound fishy to you? His writing is not even sincere. I can do it in my sleep.....
He might be lining winky up for the next round. I know of friends who lines women up for fun. 2 weeks, 2 months, it doesn't matter.... all this while he may be fooling around with other women.
There will always be a second round no matter how you resist.
I say "Thrash him!!!"
if he is really remorse about it, he should have apologised earlier on, when i told him how disappointed i was with him. not till a few days later.