The "why are guys so cheapskate" new chapter
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winky..
i guess i do not have to say much as i see that you have made a decision..
it's good that you have chosen to forgive him.. i think that's the best thing you can do for both yourself and him..
i have a friend who was in the exact postion you were in half a year ago.. she struggled many months.. it took many endless nights listening to her over the phone, spending time with her before she even took the courage to stand up for herself.. she was hopelessly, emotionally enslaved by her ex..
but the good news is that she has gotten over this bad experience and is very happy for her decision to walk on with her head up high.. and i believe whichever path you choose to walk, you'll make a good decision.. that is one that which achieve your own happiness..
so, forgive him.. and move on, forget not the lessons learnt.. and find happiness in today and tomorrow
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So it was you along... you stinky lil devil.... make people do bad things so that business here will be good. hahahahaha .....Originally posted by Devil1976:Huh?
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Why not u just tell him that u have forgiven him but need some more time to cool off. And try to stay away from him as much as possible cos u might lose ur determination and end up going back to him. Also don forget there's another guy now who's much more worthy of ur love so just forget about ur ex.
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Originally posted by Klactovak:So it was you along... you stinky lil devil.... make people do bad things so that business here will be good. hahahahaha .....
Trying to look very innocent.... 
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not refering to u lah.... dun worry...Originally posted by Devil1976: Trying to look very innocent.... 
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hoping to do just that. now i dun have so much things that are bothering me.Originally posted by Simpl3guy:Why not u just tell him that u have forgiven him but need some more time to cool off. And try to stay away from him as much as possible cos u might lose ur determination and end up going back to him. Also don forget there's another guy now who's much more worthy of ur love so just forget about ur ex. -
Its not so easy for my case... even if i dun think about it.. it wills till lingers in my mind. My ex whom i still have feelings for is now e GF of one of my best friends( which is in e past). It took me some time to accept that and i knew i have lost... a friend and my heart. I dun feel hatred towards my ex or e guy but sadness..disappointment... its very upset to know that your ex make use of u.. u willingly let her do it and u dun hate her but just felt so terrible inside.Originally posted by shaunlaw:I agree with GI JOE and loneryu00.
Sometimes when ppl do things to hurt us badly, we develop hatred towards them. Becos they leave us witha hurt, we hate them for bringing us the hurt. Forgetting is one of the best way to overcome hatred and also one of the most difficult one. EVeryone has memories, no matter gd or bad. Memories are the hardest to forget.
I was hurt deeply by my best fren in my sec sch days and then by my ex when i was in army. All these cause me to haf hatred in one way towards them. But believe me, time will heal things and u will learn more things and see more gd ppl. Get new and happy memories to replace old and sad ones.
For some years now i haf no contact with the 2 person tt hurt me alot. Spend most of my time on finding new frens and helping them out. Now i haf gd memories of my frens to kick away those bad things. Come to think abt it, i was silly in a way too.
I am sure u are a sensibel person. So u will do the rite things. Hope this helps u in a way....
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Yes... very hard to forget... dats where family & frens come in... to lend U a shoulder to cry, a hand to support... Do tok to them more... or U can tok here if U like.Originally posted by GIJOE:Its not so easy for my case... even if i dun think about it.. it wills till lingers in my mind. My ex whom i still have feelings for is now e GF of one of my best friends( which is in e past). It took me some time to accept that and i knew i have lost... a friend and my heart. I dun feel hatred towards my ex or e guy but sadness..disappointment... its very upset to know that your ex make use of u.. u willingly let her do it and u dun hate her but just felt so terrible inside. -
it takes both hands to clap... did u or did u not make the first move on him to make him react that way?