reject a guy
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Hi i got to noe his guy during a temp job. HE seems to like me a lot. However i do not like him at all and just wish to stay as frens. I told him tat. however he still do not wish to give up wooing me. wat can i do to reject his love to me?
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2 approaches.
Soft:
Treat him just like a friend and tell him flatly: "You have no chance".
Hard:
Tell him off. And I really mean TELL HIM OFF. -
Hmmm... i'll rephrase the question. How would i want to be rejected by someone i am wooing?
Well, I don't want to be rejected. When someone is wooing u, they will be oblivious to rejections. Even when u've rejected them outright, they will never give up. They will continue loving u until they got knock in the head by a big hammer or when someone better comes along. Sounds like nonsense? But it's true.
Perhaps, this guy is perfect for u. Have u tried going out with him before? Maybe he has a wonderful character waiting for u to discover.
Then again, maybe he's a Total A$$. In which case, u can -
(1) Tell him that it's not going to happen. (2) Say that you're married or already attached (i don't recommend lying unless u can lie without batting an eyelid and/or if your conscience doesn't bother u).
(3) Make him disgusted with u.
(4) Treat him worse than dirt. (again, i won't want to be treated like dirt. Some guys are natural masochist, they like to be hurt.)
(5) Disappear from his life, go overseas for studies, change job, change hp no., change address, change your looks, etc etc...
Of these, i recommend (1) and (5). But try to remain as friends unless he's doesn't make the grade to be your friend.
Good luck rejecting him.
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Oh i remembered how i rejected someone long time ago. I think it went like...
"You're a very nice person. But our character doesn't match. Furthermore, i'm not the person for u because i cannot commit myself to u. Going steady with me will bring only misery to u. And i really don't want to see u in pain because it will hurt me like mad. So i hope u understand that we remains as friends. At least, we can look after each other without the commitment(sp). Don't feel bad, someone better than me will come along and u'll be very much happier. Thanks for loving me..." sob sob...
Don't know if it works but i didn't have problems with her after that and we're still friends.
Hey, must be getting old. I didn't remember it to be so well phrased?!? :p -
wow..i like yr style of rejecting the gal. ;-)
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tat's such a sweet way of rejecting a gal...
guess tat also works well on guys too... doesn't it??
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Trying telling him you're a LESB..??? :p :p :p
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Some guys can be very stubborn,so i think that the hard approach is called for,eheheOriginally posted by AsTr0GiRL:tat's such a sweet way of rejecting a gal...
guess tat also works well on guys too... doesn't it??
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dun tell pple i les... coz wat i m is bi... kekekkekke
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ignorance is always a bliss...ignoring a person who is interested in u is more effective than anything else. Sooner or later, he/she must grow tired of the charade and quit.Originally posted by Klactovak:Hmmm... i'll rephrase the question. How would i want to be rejected by someone i am wooing?
Well, I don't want to be rejected. When someone is wooing u, they will be oblivious to rejections. Even when u've rejected them outright, they will never give up. They will continue loving u until they got knock in the head by a big hammer or when someone better comes along. Sounds like nonsense? But it's true.
Perhaps, this guy is perfect for u. Have u tried going out with him before? Maybe he has a wonderful character waiting for u to discover.
Then again, maybe he's a Total A$$. In which case, u can -
(1) Tell him that it's not going to happen. (2) Say that you're married or already attached (i don't recommend lying unless u can lie without batting an eyelid and/or if your conscience doesn't bother u).
(3) Make him disgusted with u.
(4) Treat him worse than dirt. (again, i won't want to be treated like dirt. Some guys are natural masochist, they like to be hurt.)
(5) Disappear from his life, go overseas for studies, change job, change hp no., change address, change your looks, etc etc...
Of these, i recommend (1) and (5). But try to remain as friends unless he's doesn't make the grade to be your friend.
Good luck rejecting him.
No need for such elaborate schemes...
though it's important to keep in mind that u might end up hurting the person in any case. -
ignorance no use. he will keep calling and calling and sms and sms until i so fed up wif him. feel like giving him a slap on his face and ask him to wake up his idea!
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WOW! My kinda gal.Originally posted by babygal:ignorance no use. he will keep calling and calling and sms and sms until i so fed up wif him. feel like giving him a slap on his face and ask him to wake up his idea!
If he's that bad then give him the old one two... ask him to F.O.
Otherwise, u can always get a fake boyfriend for a while just to throw him off track. But escaping is not a solution. Gotta take him by the arm and twist it until he calls u auntie. :p -
auntie...then i too old liao. :-)
anyway i told him rite in the face tat i am not the one for him..say my character difference, he says he will accept me and willing to wait and tat it is his own wish. sigh.... i even told him i not willing to commit and tat wif me , he wun b happy, he say he will wait....errrrrr....
he say thing tat doesnt come by easily is the one tat he tresuare the most.
can't stand him!!!!! -
Time to siamz this guy real fast and far liaoz.He got the potential makings of a stalker,eheheOriginally posted by babygal:auntie...then i too old liao. :-)
anyway i told him rite in the face tat i am not the one for him..say my character difference, he says he will accept me and willing to wait and tat it is his own wish. sigh.... i even told him i not willing to commit and tat wif me , he wun b happy, he say he will wait....errrrrr....
he say thing tat doesnt come by easily is the one tat he tresuare the most.
can't stand him!!!!!
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Theory Of Relativity
Eating a lot of good food will make 1 hour seem like 5 minutes while eating lotsa horrigible cooked veggies will make 5 minutes seem like 1 hour~~~
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Wah Lao! A die-hard case. If he wants to carry on like this then let him be. Ask him go wait long long. On second thought, tell him flatly that "If he continues like this, then we cannot even be friends at all. Goodbye." Yup, sounds good.Originally posted by babygal:auntie...then i too old liao. :-)
anyway i told him rite in the face tat i am not the one for him..say my character difference, he says he will accept me and willing to wait and tat it is his own wish. sigh.... i even told him i not willing to commit and tat wif me , he wun b happy, he say he will wait....errrrrr....
he say thing tat doesnt come by easily is the one tat he tresuare the most.
can't stand him!!!!!
I'm sure you can block his telephone nos. from your hp and home phone. He doesn't know your address, right? Goodness, where on earth you meet these crazy characters?!?
ps. Why is this column called Aunt Agony and not Uncle Agony? :p -
got to know during an exhibition. he wan my no, but i din give him. then he pester. so i say i give email add will do. then he add me in icq...sigh...
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er.....mthd 5 like abit da drastic lo.......Originally posted by Klactovak:(1) Tell him that it's not going to happen. (2) Say that you're married or already attached (i don't recommend lying unless u can lie without batting an eyelid and/or if your conscience doesn't bother u).
(3) Make him disgusted with u.
(4) Treat him worse than dirt. (again, i won't want to be treated like dirt. Some guys are natural masochist, they like to be hurt.)
(5) Disappear from his life, go overseas for studies, change job, change hp no., change address, change your looks, etc etc...
Of these, i recommend (1) and (5). But try to remain as friends unless he's doesn't make the grade to be your friend.
i think cutin off all forms of communication would do better lo......in tt sense......
c-riously, i dun think he sounds tt c-rious abt u lo............like as in mebbe he's just trying to get u to win some kidna stupid bet or wat. hee~ okok, alil far fetched..........but newaez, gd luck in ur rejection.......me brain is currently on leave so i dun tink i'm of much help lo..............sorriez............. -
Your email seems to b identical to my frd in NUS, do I knw u? Anyway, juz an advice, reject him flat and tell him "no", but don't tell him "we r not compatible" etc. Normally, we guys still think we stand a chance if u nvr say no, understand?Originally posted by babygal:got to know during an exhibition. he wan my no, but i din give him. then he pester. so i say i give email add will do. then he add me in icq...sigh...
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
gotta agree with him on this point even thou; i ain't a guy. hee~Originally posted by mikegk_76:Your email seems to b identical to my frd in NUS, do I knw u? Anyway, juz an advice, reject him flat and tell him "no", but don't tell him "we r not compatible" etc. Normally, we guys still think we stand a chance if u nvr say no, understand? -
Don't EVER tell a guy that you're a 'BI' lah.... You'll just more of his 'attention' and perhaps many more guys to come...? Err.... UNLESS your intention is SO?Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:dun tell pple i les... coz wat i m is bi... kekekkekke
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II -
Show him to your 'bf'....?Originally posted by babygal:ignorance no use. he will keep calling and calling and sms and sms until i so fed up wif him. feel like giving him a slap on his face and ask him to wake up his idea!
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II -
"Ripples dissolve in a pool of water.... Little stimulant... Little response...."Originally posted by babygal:auntie...then i too old liao. :-)
anyway i told him rite in the face tat i am not the one for him..say my character difference, he says he will accept me and willing to wait and tat it is his own wish. sigh.... i even told him i not willing to commit and tat wif me , he wun b happy, he say he will wait....errrrrr....
he say thing tat doesnt come by easily is the one tat he tresuare the most.
can't stand him!!!!!
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II -
Ya,meat eaters rule,eheheOriginally posted by kofguy:yeah man, veggies are bad for health!
I'M A CARNIVORE!
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Theory Of Relativity
Eating a lot of good food will make 1 hour seem like 5 minutes while eating lotsa horrigible cooked veggies will make 5 minutes seem like 1 hour~~~
Waiting for Diablo 2 Add-on -
hey guys juz wanna say something here lahz.....u mean the guy veri irritating huh?
well...
i mean wat if a guy reali like a gal? of coz if the gurl rejects the guy then he shld respect her decision lahz....but how about being consistence but not perisitence?
i mean....if u reli like someone...u will continue to care for him or her even thou u 2 cant be a couple rite?
well...then hopefully he or she might one dae realise u have been there for them all along.....and feel touched.....rite?
well juz my pov...hehe -
well he is not consistent, but persistent.Originally posted by chokobo:hey guys juz wanna say something here lahz.....u mean the guy veri irritating huh?
well...
i mean wat if a guy reali like a gal? of coz if the gurl rejects the guy then he shld respect her decision lahz....but how about being consistence but not perisitence?
i mean....if u reli like someone...u will continue to care for him or her even thou u 2 cant be a couple rite?
well...then hopefully he or she might one dae realise u have been there for them all along.....and feel touched.....rite?
well juz my pov...hehe