Need advice
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CHIT CHAT woudld be holding an outing this FRIDAY, ALSO... You'll be IN for the NEXT AA Outing..? DETAILs..???? <- Look out for Bear... :pOriginally posted by XinYi:I noe that it is not wrong to be quiet or not sociable.
But I do wish to make more frens and also to join any activities organise by them. And also to be a part of the group and not being left out just becos I am "anti-social" kind.
Mikegk_76, how long did you take to really open up?
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
u can call me Mike, u ask hw long I take to really open up, to be exact, it's in my 20s when I met more mature and friendly person who helps u a lot. Well, most imptly, it's your determinatn, try to join more activities and take the iniative to knw pple when in sch...Any further details, ICQ me and I b glad to answer u or if u wanna my contacts, ok? Another thing, I agree that blackhair is really insensitive...Originally posted by XinYi:I noe that it is not wrong to be quiet or not sociable.
But I do wish to make more frens and also to join any activities organise by them. And also to be a part of the group and not being left out just becos I am "anti-social" kind.
Mikegk_76, how long did you take to really open up?
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Black Hair: Hahaha... I see you've been CONDEMNED by the people...?
:p
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
hai~dun suan him liao lah....
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Does suaning a good way to open up and to talk to pple?
But me not really good at suaning. -
suaning? No, it's nt a good way to open up cos it depends on the pple u r with. Nt all pple "wan de qi'/ can play with, u won't b surprised if u lost ur frd cos u suan him/her too much. Anyway, juz b yourself, I believe u hav your own strong pts which still havn't b discovered yet, mayb I can help u, hahahaOriginally posted by XinYi:Does suaning a good way to open up and to talk to pple?
But me not really good at suaning.
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
being sarcastic might turn pple off...if u want to make clever n witty remarks...think b4 u tok and c the situation b4 u open ur mouth...remember, if u want to suan a person, leave a path for him/her to get out and dun let urself b dumb-founded shld the other party cum back wif another remark
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No suanning pls....
Especially you are those quiet type one... sure get bully one. Cos they may think that since you can suan pple sure can take jokes and attack you back.
If you can't play along with them, they will label you as "petty" and will not wan you to join them again.
Go slowly, join some group activites in the community clubs or school to make more frens.
If you have nothing much to say or dunno what to say, listen to others and you will learn the art of communication from them as to ask wat type of questions and how to continue a conversation kind of thing.
Good luck to you.
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For someone DUMB and EVIL like myself.. It doesn't really matter if I turn people ON or switch people OFF!!! :pOriginally posted by yolanda_tan:being sarcastic might turn pple off...if u want to make clever n witty remarks...think b4 u tok and c the situation b4 u open ur mouth...remember, if u want to suan a person, leave a path for him/her to get out and dun let urself b dumb-founded shld the other party cum back wif another remark
"In life, you can NEVER be a TOTAL LOSER unless you CHOOSE to be ONE!!!"
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥....
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Btw, XinYi mind if i ask do u know Yao Chuan?Originally posted by XinYi:I can say that I am those quiet and shy type.
During gatherings with friends, I am the one who is either sitting at a corner alone (sometimes with close friends)or who will go off earlier.
I would say that I am having some problems interacting socially. Cos I can't hold a conversation for long, the most is 3 sentences and dun really know how to start off a conversation with friends.
People tend to have an impression that I am bored cos I did not talk to them and always keep to myself. Some even say that I am snobbish. (so sad to hear that
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I wish to have more friends and to be able to hold a longer conversation with them.
I need some advice. Pls help me.
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i thought i'd never
fall in love again,
until that night
when i felt your touch.
our hands brushed past,
there was a tingling sensation.
our eyes met briefly,
we held our breaths.
embarrassed by what we saw,
we looked away.
yes, it was love....
but we were both too proud to admit.
from that day on,
you shied away.....
from that day on,
i looked at you
only in the dark.
afraid to wake those feelings was i....
i hid in the darkest corners,
trying just to get a peek at you.
don't turn around,
for i fear u see me cry.
don't turn around,
for i don't wish to make you sad...
don't turn around,
just keep walking.
i'll always be there,
watching over you.
from the darkest corners,
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WEEUUUWITT~~~~ steady lah.... u KNOW hao to spell MORON AR??Originally posted by blackhair:har????(snicker)...sympathies to u.......but atti n bear r such idiots...i...cant (snicker) help but,,,,hahahahahahahahahahHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH...wat a bunch a morons....hahahahahahahaha....want advice? read a book......
haahaahaa idiot?? haahaa
better not say anymore... wait u buey ta han ask me GO AWAY haahaahaahaa hey.... u need some one to sit on yr face???? AND FART? haahaahaa u think they r stupid....but u R A GUNDU~~~~~ haahaahaa