i wanna be a better person...
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i wanna be a better person...
wats e use of studyin' so much & bein' so educated when my character suxx???
wat are e qualities of ppl whu realli charm u wif their personality???
i realli wanna change-over.........................
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Hey girl... i just wanna tell you this.. Nobody in this world is perfect except Almighty. We have our own flaws and its not for other people to judge but our own selves. Don't mind what other people may say about you but wonder if those who say that you are perfect.
Its never too late to change and its never to late to repent but its always late to turn back time. Be happy with what you have and what you are right now. Walk with an open mind and come back with a lightened heart. Relax girl. I am always here if u need help. Just pm me
Cheers
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wah...hey thanks...
but i noe someone whu realli IS perfect lo...realli realli flawless...~
i hope to be like half of her can liaoz....dun wanna ask for so much... -
just do it
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If you really know what you can really become....you'll not chose to be half another person.Originally posted by MovieGirl:wah...hey thanks...
but i noe someone whu realli IS perfect lo...realli realli flawless...~~
i hope to be like half of her can liaoz....dun wanna ask for so much...
Cos you're unique! If you really think i'm lying? Look at the mirror, ah masterpiece! - God
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haixX...
masterpiece?
hardly tink so...
i made so many mistakes dat i realli regretted... -
Private message me if you feel like it.Originally posted by MovieGirl:haixX...
masterpiece?
hardly tink so...
i made so many mistakes dat i realli regretted...
You have only one life....live yr best. Don't waste time thinking of yesterday but think of wht you want to achieve tommorrow! -
Bruce Almighty?Originally posted by Master -_-:Hey girl... i just wanna tell you this.. Nobody in this world is perfect except Almighty. We have our own flaws and its not for other people to judge but our own selves. Don't mind what other people may say about you but wonder if those who say that you are perfect.
Its never too late to change and its never to late to repent but its always late to turn back time. Be happy with what you have and what you are right now. Walk with an open mind and come back with a lightened heart. Relax girl. I am always here if u need help. Just pm me
Cheers 
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Sooooo agreed...Originally posted by Haven:If you really know what you can really become....you'll not chose to be half another person.
Cos you're unique! If you really think i'm lying? Look at the mirror, ah masterpiece! - God
Hey we tink alike!!!
Chuo Ti Shuang Bao...?
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to err is human, to not err is divine.Originally posted by MovieGirl:haixX...
masterpiece?
hardly tink so...
i made so many mistakes dat i realli regretted...
The most impt thing is to learn from your mistakes and not repeat them. -
what do u think its wrong with yr character??
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Sorry to break yr "heart", gal... but there is NO perfect person here... only ideal... well... even ideal oso near impossible... Y? Coz IF da person is perfect... then won't she be bored? OR rather... dead...? Coz she expected da results to turn da wae she wanted! She can do things wif ZERO mistakes! & dat kinda life is NOT wat I wld like... I rather have surprises... good or bad...Originally posted by MovieGirl:wah...hey thanks...
but i noe someone whu realli IS perfect lo...realli realli flawless...~
i hope to be like half of her can liaoz....dun wanna ask for so much...
How to be a BETTER person? Well... I read some books on how to be better... maybe U can try...
1st: List yr good & bad points by YOURSELF... I noe its VERY hard... (I tried b4... not easy...) Then get a few ppl who noe U very well... at least 3 ppl & they muz noe U for ard 2 yrs or more... ask them to list yr good & bad points...
Then compare yrs wif theirs... see which r da same... (dun remove any points... ALL r important!) then start wif da BAD points 1st... rearrange them in yr own preference, da most serious to da lightest...
Once U done dat, U start wid da FIRST, worst point or attribute... sae, "U lie alot" (example...) Then list wat U can do abt it... like... "Dun lie if possible,.." OR "when U lie, slap yrself once on da cheek..." OR "U lie, U put some $$$ into an account dat CANNOT be removed... parent's account..." or wat U like lah!
Make a daily list, how many times U "lie" per dae... then practice my pattern... resist da urge to "lie"... then dae by dae... U see less & less of it liao... then U can carry on wif da 2nd bad pt of yrs WHILE continuing yr 1st 1...
2nd: Remember da good points? Exploit it... no... NOT flaunt it... use it for da benefit of yrself & others ard U... Sae U r "a good listener"... U noe U willing to hear a fren's prob & help dat person out... Use it often! Let ppl ard U noe U possess dis quality & make them feel comfortable ard U, feel like they r close wif U, etc, etc...
U can oso list out da good points in da best to worst order. then look at da worst of yr good points... sae, "U donate $ to charity, but not much & often..." U can try to practice more of it... no... not donate ALL or whenever U got da chance... juz practice more of it... like when got students taking coin boxes parading outside, claiming for donation for charity or similar, do donate... 10 cents, 20, 50... watever! any amt is fine... as long as U possess da heart to REALLY wanna donate for da sake of helping. Go ahead.
3rd: (My preference ) Meditation. No... not those types where da monks practice... theirs is 1 lvl very hard to do... My type is more simple... but may be hard for many here to... find a place COMFORTABLE... Yr room, bed, park, freezer... (Eh? 
) then once U got to dat place... sit down, or lie... watever U prefer... then THINK. yes tink... tink back to any scenario dat FIRST comes to yr mind...
Sae "U r in an arguement wif a fren..." Tink thru da WHOLE occurance, how it started, how it proceeded, how it ended... meaning got heading, body & conclusion... Tink of da heading... wat caused da "arguement"? maybe yr fren is upset over smth? or maybe wif U? lets put it wif yr fren lah... maybe she broke up recently... how it was ignited... maybe like U disagree wif wat she done to her BF dat causes da break... Tink slowly... wat WOULD happen IF U said smth else? maybe instead of "U shldn't have anyhow lose yr temper", U said, "Maybe wat he did was wrong, but U r juz too emotional dat time... U shld try to understand more y he did dat..."
Body... sae U 2 argued till U oso lost yr temper... tink thru how U could have avoided it... instead of juz bluntly replying back to wat she said... maybe U can try to stop, tink b4 answering... again, da results may defer...
Conclusion... U 2 stormed off seperately... Maybe dat time U 2 r too "heated"... If U haved cooled down... maybe U offer da 1st apology... then things will simmer...
Once U tot back these scenarios dat came into yr mind... do note dat U once experienced it... so da next time anything similar occurs... U tink twice...
Phew! dats looooong...... U dun have to follow all these... Theres no INSTANT wae to be a better person... its a slow, tiring, painful process... BUT wif preseverence & determination... Y not? Juz remember, every experience learned is a helping hand to be a better person. -
loneryu00::
wow...dat's a realli useful reply...but to do all dat...i muz realli haf ctrl over my mind + broken heart lo...
but everytime i tink back on e good memories...my heart feels like it's being cut by a super sharp knife...& juz wish everythin' would go back to e past if i haven't done THAT...
wat gd pts i haf? *i realli wonder*
skinnybeanie::
wats e use of NOT repeatin' e mistake (i wouldn't even dare animore..) when harm has been done...
Qoo`~`::
everythin' is wrong abt moi...~ -
my piece of advice to u:Originally posted by MovieGirl:i wanna be a better person...
wats e use of studyin' so much & bein' so educated when my character suxx???
wat are e qualities of ppl whu realli charm u wif their personality???
i realli wanna change-over.........................
let your heart rule u and not your brain
only when u follow your heart, u can find true happiness in life
i have yet to achieve this stage too. the every 1st step to do this is so hard to do........ -
follow dis broken heart of mine...??
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y broken?Originally posted by MovieGirl:follow dis broken heart of mine...??
tough...
a guy broke it?
u still have your family and close friends to turn to...... -
nahh....nothing to do wif BGR....~
i broke my heart myself....did stupid stuff....haixX...~ -
taking the every 1st step is really really hard.......Originally posted by MovieGirl:nahh....nothing to do wif BGR....~
i broke my heart myself....did stupid stuff....haixX...~
but sometimes if u really determined abt a complete changeover, it is not hard
simply saying u want a changeover is easy, it is the effort that u put in to achieve it is hard
take it as a challenge to yourself
challenging yourself will make u realize things u haven't discover in yourself
u'll also learn to respect and appreciate yourself
remember your life is in your hands
u can break your own heart, u can also make yourself a new heart -
perfection can never be reached... just be urself and happie with what u're doing will be good... but if u really feel that u need a drastic change, do it but dun get lost in the midst of it... do not attempt to imitate another person. u may screw up ur life in the process...
just some thoughts only... no offence, if any... heehee -
sigh...takin' e 1st step?..
i tink im takin one bah...
tryin' to be independent...& not like a despo animore...
tryin to get my own life!!!!
haix...e gd pts i haf are those dat i'd rather exchange for other betta pts...
diligence is my greatest plus pt....but wats e use....haixx....i'd rather change it for something else... -
perfection? i've juz seen it in SOMEONE...
to mi she IS perfect seriously...
not tryin to imitate her bah....cos i noe it's never possible...so dun even try... -
having a feeling that u're somewhat having an envious kind of mentality towards a gal... is she the gf of some guy u like?? or just simply someone whom u really respect? or everything's just happening in ur mind only?Originally posted by MovieGirl:perfection? i've juz seen it in SOMEONE...
to mi she IS perfect seriously...
not tryin to imitate her bah....cos i noe it's never possible...so dun even try... -
haixX...ya...im not envious of her (err...oh oki..maybe abit...)...
but i realli tink she's so sweet, nice, sincere, true...
i would wanna say i realli respect alot...but i can't say so...
cos i did somethin which dun even show any respect for her...
haixXx...~
but she means alot to mi... -
Gal... U do HAVE good points... its juz dat now things look bleak to U, dat ALL bad points pop up & seemed too big & cover ALL yr good points... da more U tink of yrself not having any good pts or being bad... da more U r unable to be a better person.
Bcoz harm has been done, U MAKE sure U dun repeat da SAME mistake unless U wanna go thru da SAME process... or worse...
If everythings wrong wif U... everythings WRONG in dis world... I not goin to tok abt realities of life or watever... (define right & wrong... What is right? What is wrong?) U still have hope to be a better person... yr "perfect" fren is oredi there to help U... believe it. I noe U said U did smth to show her disrespect, BUT if she is really dat "perfect", she WILL forgive wat U did & help U.
Be wif her more often... observe how she handles things... EVERYTHING of it... No... dun emulate her action... She is she, U are U... I noe dat U 2 handles situation differently... dats y she's there! to guide U!
U sae yr heart is broken? ALL da more U need to rely on frens & family... TRUE frens... yes there r things dats beyond da control of da mind... sometimes matters of da heart is BEST answered wif da heart itself...
U said "diligence" is yr best pt? dats GOOD! Dis "diligence" is yr starting pt to be a better person... lets start with "diligence".
What is diligence? Diligence is "characterized by steady, earnest & energetic effort". Diligence is applied in EVERY areas of yr life, be it studies, house hold chores, to even simple sleeping. U wanna be a better person? "Diligence" can help U there... "Diligence" in a sense to me is "not giving up"...
To learn a good point, U need to persevere, to continuously practice & acknowledge it into YOU. If U DON'T possess "diligence", I afraid U may GIVE up halfwae thru it... Its very hard for me to juz explain it merely in words... words alone cannot help much... ACTION speaks louder than words...
I tink U rather NOT exchange "diligence" for better attributes... U use "diligence" to acquire MORE, better attributes... do not belittle "diligence" here... it may be small & look useless... but its da FOUNDATION to many things U can acquire in yr life.