I like her cos she's..... chio?
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Truthfully, fallen for somebody due to looks or appearance is not everybody can controlled. Coz the 1st thing u saw a person, is her outer beauty n appearance. Dun let the 1st time lead u to the wrong path. Trust ur heart n soul rather than ur eyes, coz appearances can be a disguise in our eyes. Sincerely, i wish ur best choosing a suitable candidate.
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Yeah.. agreed.
So morale of story is:
dun worry too much let fate decide!
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actually its just like that...the person you wanna go into a relationship have to be someone you feel comfortable looking at...we live in a practical society...if like you dun know the girl well you can only judge by appearance...cannot be avoided want...if you happen to know a girl..well superb character but to you, she looks mediocre, its up to you to give yourself and her a chance...
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Reminds me of this OLD JOKE I used to tell myself...? I still remember the early days when I 1st got the feeling of 'loving' someone.. Or the desire to go into a relationship... Then I told myself, "I shouldn't be going after the girl just because of her looks...." Ok... Then I had follow ups... Shouldn't be simply because she's CUTE.... Shouldn't be simply because she's intelligent... Not simply because she's someone I can really talk to....
BASICALLY, think I was suppose to look for someone who don't hold the characteristics I like...? In other words, SOMEONE I don't like...?
STUPID but TRUE...? (ok... WAS true...? <
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Agree with you 101% I have a number of suitors also before but they had no chance in hell....as they do not appeal to my eyes.Originally posted by Ah-Ken:When someone asks you, "How did you fall in love with that girl?" How would you answer? My answer would be, "Because she's so sweet, caring, gentle & she's got a great character!" That's what I'd answer anyone. But the truth is.... because she's pretty.
I found that the one of the most basic requirements for me to fall for anyone is her looks! Though I won't fall for EVERYONE who looks beautiful. Being beautiful is one thing, she must at least have a decent behaviour too. Whao! Such high requrements! I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks this way, just that not many would admit it. It makes you seem so shallow.
The thing is, I don't want to feel this way. I don't want to fall for only pretty faces. I want to fall for ordinary looking girls as well. I have missed out a few chances of going into a relationship because of the way I think. Because the girls who had feelings for me, didn't really score that well in the looks department. I wished I had given them more chances, but I simple can't. I have no feelings for plain looking girls like them. Why??! I don't want to think this way!
A thread that addresses the same issue
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everyone has these shallow feelings... no matter wat we tell ourselves tt "beauty is the eye of the beholder" or "beauty is onli skin deep". we'll still go for ppl who's yan dao/chio.... but perhaps the one u'll marry should be someone you're comfortable wif... coz you're going to live wif tt person so no matter wat, choose someone you really love inside and outside..
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"I like you coz ur looks appeal to me"(rather than because u r chio)Originally posted by Ah-Ken:When someone asks you, "How did you fall in love with that girl?" How would you answer? My answer would be, "Because she's so sweet, caring, gentle & she's got a great character!" That's what I'd answer anyone. But the truth is.... because she's pretty.
I found that the one of the most basic requirements for me to fall for anyone is her looks! Though I won't fall for EVERYONE who looks beautiful. Being beautiful is one thing, she must at least have a decent behaviour too. Whao! Such high requrements! I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks this way, just that not many would admit it. It makes you seem so shallow.
The thing is, I don't want to feel this way. I don't want to fall for only pretty faces. I want to fall for ordinary looking girls as well. I have missed out a few chances of going into a relationship because of the way I think. Because the girls who had feelings for me, didn't really score that well in the looks department. I wished I had given them more chances, but I simple can't. I have no feelings for plain looking girls like them. Why??! I don't want to think this way! -
-______-''''Originally posted by Devil1976:Reminds me of this OLD JOKE I used to tell myself...? I still remember the early days when I 1st got the feeling of 'loving' someone.. Or the desire to go into a relationship... Then I told myself, "I shouldn't be going after the girl just because of her looks...." Ok... Then I had follow ups... Shouldn't be simply because she's CUTE.... Shouldn't be simply because she's intelligent... Not simply because she's someone I can really talk to....
BASICALLY, think I was suppose to look for someone who don't hold the characteristics I like...? In other words, SOMEONE I don't like...? STUPID but TRUE...? (ok... WAS true...? < " )
I like yr style! Save me some trouble... Hee hee hee hee...