enuff is enuff!!!
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if he was than i won't be going thru such crap...i never did anything that was against his teachings....Originally posted by boy in blues:
wo dere...u not tinking straight man...u need a relaxed mind 2 work dis out...even if u cant solve immediately, life gotta go on...happily unconditionally...tink abt ur mom...u cant leave her right? Man may fail u, but God is always there. -
u seem to be in bad mood mah...Originally posted by Master -_-:what cheer up la! -
In life sure bound to have ups and downs. Am sure the "up" part is just round the corner.Originally posted by harryryan:if he was than i won't be going thru such crap...i never did anything that was against his teachings.... -
nuthing has worked out for me since e year started....feeling so tired n alone.....Originally posted by skinnybeanie:In life sure bound to have ups and downs. Am sure the "up" part is just round the corner. -
u still have all of usOriginally posted by harryryan:nuthing has worked out for me since e year started....feeling so tired n alone..... -
then what are u gonna do?
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U forgot 1 person......Originally posted by harryryan:really dun know y i call them frens when they are not there when i need them to be.... -
i know who u are talking about... nut i dun even know where our relationship is heading.....i like her n i do not want to bother her with my problems rite now...she's busy w her final year proojects....Originally posted by loneryu00:U forgot 1 person...... -
His plans are always to prosper us, but His plans are also higher than ours, so we cannot judge right now whats good or bad, because you never know how things turn out in the end yet. this could be a test to strengthen your character, and you will come out of it a better man.Originally posted by harryryan:if he was than i won't be going thru such crap...i never did anything that was against his teachings.... -
When things are going down, all the more you should stand up for yourself. Don't always depend on people when things happen - the only person you can truely depend on at all time is yourself.Originally posted by harryryan:Life sux!!! pardon me for being negative but with all that has happened in the last 24 hrs or so.... how do u expect me to be even the least bit positive.....
My dad was involved in an accident at work yesterday n still in critical care.... my mum cos of e shock,was hospitalised too....
got a letter from the university that my application for a scholarship was rejected as i had not submitted the necessary documents in tome(which i did),a check with the post office shows that my entire portfolio might be lost....
i dun feel like going home n called my frens n not a single one was free.....
dun think i can take this anymore....
my whole world is falling apart.....
dun think i can take this any longer.......
no one understands me....
I had such days too - and a long one and I surmount the mountain myself. Don't think that friends MUST be there at all times - they are just good to have around when problems arises, afterall, friends don't owe you a living right?
That's why true friends are hard to find; like true love.
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She's not here... now...Originally posted by harryryan:wat? -
Shut up....Originally posted by loneryu00:She's not here... now...
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This is the moment of your life when you suddenly realise that you've got so many additional BELIEFS... Popping don't know from out of where...?Originally posted by harryryan:no it's not okie....can't take it anymore... my whole life is falling apart.....everything!!!
no one cares n no one bothers....
i can be there to help pple....but where r pple when i need them....i hate myself.... i hate my life....
i have no idea what to do now.... nothing is working out....family live,studied,love life n frens.... nothing is working out.... life is meaningless now....
Where are the beliefs ya hold when things were ok...? So quick to judge things...? And like what Yun has mentioned, your friends don't owe you a living... It's good if they're there, but they're not from a 24hours emergency department... Bear that in mind....
I'm not saying things are easy for you now, from the way I see it.. It definitely isn't.... And the WORST is to allow yourself to fall apart and be defenceless against it... In doing so you could have probably completed one of fate's greatest masterpiece against you....
The moments I recalled of my human life... Crying helplessly in front of the computer... In an air-con room.... I now thought of the civilians under the sun... With every min worrying that a shell should drop on their head or a bullet across their skull....
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i know who u talking about...dun even know where our relationship is heading....so i dun wanna bother her with my problems since she is busy w her final year projects anyway....Originally posted by loneryu00:She's not here... now... -
i'm in great pain....my back injury is killing me...it always comes back when i am very stressed or depressed.... shi7.....
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I see... I am sorry... Really...Originally posted by harryryan:i know who u talking about...dun even know where our relationship is heading....so i dun wanna bother her with my problems since she is busy w her final year projects anyway....
I oso have problems of my own... matters of da heart some more... but no... I not gonna post here... dis 1 I need to solve on my own. -
Relax my friend.. There's nothing else for you to do now...Originally posted by harryryan:Life sux!!! pardon me for being negative but with all that has happened in the last 24 hrs or so.... how do u expect me to be even the least bit positive.....
My dad was involved in an accident at work yesterday n still in critical care.... my mum cos of e shock,was hospitalised too....
got a letter from the university that my application for a scholarship was rejected as i had not submitted the necessary documents in tome(which i did),a check with the post office shows that my entire portfolio might be lost....
i dun feel like going home n called my frens n not a single one was free.....
dun think i can take this anymore....
my whole world is falling apart.....
dun think i can take this any longer.......
no one understands me....
All you need now.. is to calm yourself down.. sit back and relax for awhile.. Keep on complaining about your life.. doesn't help a single thing..
As for your dad and mum.. try to do some prayers.. i will do some prayers for you too.. Don't worry too much.. Your parents will be fine..
For the university.. If is rejected cos the post office lost the whole document.. you can do it again.. give it a try another time.. when the registration is open again.. ok.. if not you can try to start working or look for another UNi.. It not that serious oso..
If you ever think that no one cares for you.. no one is there for you.. You are wrong.. You call your friends all not free... The last resort is that you post here...
Arent we your friends?? If noone cares for you.. then why do you see so many posts from us.. asking about your parents.. telling you what to do.. Consoling and giving advices? IF no one cares for you.. then why did we bother so much in your thread.. We can jus leave you alone.. and there will be no replies at all...
Chill down friend.. Everything is not as bad as what you think.. LIfe still goes on no matter how much you whine!! Keep quiet and cool down.. Think about what is the next step you should do.. rather than screaming shouting complaining and banging your head to the wall.. thinking that the whole world is upsetting you..
You have to help yourself.. we can only lend you our ears to listen.. and give some general advices.. You're old enough to think... ok
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DUN do silly things.. tis is temp.. soon rain will be over n look on the bright side.. the girl u like wating for u,,
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Haiz...i can help pple but not myself...
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you definitely can help yourself..Originally posted by harryryan:Haiz...i can help pple but not myself...
Is jus a matter whether you wan anot.. if you still down and keep thinking.. you cannot make it.. life sux.. everything seems goin against or what..
It will DEFINITELY be the way you are thinking.. if you think this is wat you wan for.. then go on and get yourself rotting there... Noone can help you.. Cos you yourself DON't EVEN wAN TO HELP YOURSELF!
No matter how much we say.. or convincce you.. You are the last to decide for yourself.. not us.. Keep pushing yourself to the bottom.. You will never get and stand on by yourself.. You are like anyone out there being useless and insensible when problem comes towards you...
You chose to avoid it.. rather then face it and solved it.. Do you think your life is meaningful??
Think about it...
*P.S. Sorry if sounded harsh or offended you.. I'm trying to make you awake from your dream!
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hi there...i am new here...i am sorry about what happen to your parents and u. But maybe u can think of those unfortunate ones...like those who have to kidney problem...they have to suffer for the rest of their life and they too feel depress and helpless but yet they overcome it by themselves....life is full of ups and downs....as a man we should face it...What i can say is chuan dao qiao tou zi rang zi.....I know u can do it.....take care and wish your parents recover soon....
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ha.... u still got a lot to learn... forget friends
u n only u urself can make things better
if friends can't help so be it....
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yap...xiao_p u may b rite...but anyway take it easy... i sure ur mum and dad also dun want u to c u so upset.....