why doesn't she ever know just how much i care for her?
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Like this girl so much...bought breakfast...bought her gifts when i got my pay check... all i ever ask for is to be able to just talk to her or even go out with her even if its for just 1 hour... really care for her alot..
yet...she sounds bored everytime talking to me..Called her last night and she said called her back later...did as i was told..only to know shes sleeping...hate to admit it..but really juz cried in bed...i'm not someone very great..just an ordinary person looking to care for this girl whom to me is so special...i really hate the way she's treating me...yet all this while i hope that she at least sms me even a "Hi" one day... Can't sleep, can't eat..can only weep...why? -
Try as i might..i can't let go...
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seem really stupid to be posting replies to myself...i'm sorry..i just feel so hurt... can anyone understand...
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is she your first girlfriend?
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Originally posted by millienium_bear:is she your first girlfriend?
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Originally posted by life^stop:seem really stupid to be posting replies to myself...i'm sorry..i just feel so hurt... can anyone understand... During this kinda situation, I would think," Sheesh, they don't know what the good things they are missing out."
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shes not my girlfriend..and as much as i hope for her to be, all i ever want is at least she can treat me better... its very painful everytime she does these things to me..i want to 'let go' but i can't...
"missing out on the good things in life" ? shes the best thing i've ever known...i don't want to lose her...do u think i'm missing out? I'm sorry...just thinking of her is so painful already... my first post here..hope maybe anyone can listen -
Originally posted by life^stop:shes not my girlfriend..and as much as i hope for her to be, all i ever want is at least she can treat me better... its very painful everytime she does these things to me..i want to 'let go' but i can't...
"missing out on the good things in life" ? shes the best thing i've ever known...i don't want to lose her...do u think i'm missing out? I'm sorry...just thinking of her is so painful already... my first post here..hope maybe anyone can listen I say she is missing out, not you. 
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very tired already...i want to sleep..yet i know that if i for one moment stop typing...i'll start to think of her..and sorry to throw u guy's faces away, cry... i don't want to be so emotional..but i really can't help it
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Parka..sorry..i misinterpreted what u said...all i ever want is she can treat me better...but she has never...i want to share her problems..i bought her a notebook..told her that she might not like to tell people her problems..maybe she can write it down..she will feel better..yet inside me i hope so much that she will tell me if she has any
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Originally posted by life^stop:very tired already...i want to sleep..yet i know that if i for one moment stop typing...i'll start to think of her..and sorry to throw u guy's faces away, cry... i don't want to be so emotional..but i really can't help it Well, you can wait for the relationship gurus to reply you......
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thank u Parka .i have no choice but to keep on typing...and waiting for someone to listen...i don't want to stop..or i will think of her and feel so pain again
"So i just play my part, and pray u'll have a change of heart...but i can't make u see it through..thats something only love can do" -
Originally posted by life^stop:thank u Parka .i have no choice but to keep on typing...and waiting for someone to listen...i don't want to stop..or i will think of her and feel so pain again
"So i just play my part, and pray u'll have a change of heart...but i can't make u see it through..thats something only love can do" Erm. Someone will listen loh. But they are not around at the moment. Heheh. -
Come let Old Birds like me advise you.Originally posted by Parka: Well, you can wait for the relationship gurus to reply you......
Don't think too much. Occupy yourself by doing something productive for the time being.
I have been through my fair share of disappointments,shattered hopes when it comes to gals.I empathise with you.I understand how it feels to be treated as a complete non-entity by someone.I can feel your disappointment from being snubbed.Before anything else,a few questions for you,
How old are you?
How long have you know her? Just started only?
You already confessed your feelings for her when the foundation of your friendship is not solid yet? If yes,this is a very gross error of the nth degree speaking from experience,will elaborate next time... -
Hi! The things that u described about how you think she treated you is quite disturbing.....what do you actually like about her when you know that she treats you like that? Do you actually prefer to like someone who doesn't care a hoot about you? I don't know.....maybe she has some qualities which attracts you and you could say it out? Good luck.Originally posted by life^stop:Like this girl so much...bought breakfast...bought her gifts when i got my pay check... all i ever ask for is to be able to just talk to her or even go out with her even if its for just 1 hour... really care for her alot.. yet...she sounds bored everytime talking to me..Called her last night and she said called her back later...did as i was told..only to know shes sleeping...hate to admit it..but really juz cried in bed...i'm not someone very great..just an ordinary person looking to care for this girl whom to me is so special...i really hate the way she's treating me...yet all this while i hope that she at least sms me even a "Hi" one day... Can't sleep, can't eat..can only weep...why? -
i'm 21 this year..known her for 2-3 months before telling her...its stupid i know...just told her how i feel..but i've done it already..and after that i just apologised to her say sorry for scaring her...she said its ok... yet..since day one when i know her...the way she treats me has never changed...even when i want to know her well enough... i'm very happy whenever she tells me abou her work, her parents back home, her siblings, her childhood. She can talk non stop. Yet the very next day, she change to someone who keeps so quiet, and treats me so coldly...feel really sad about it but i just keep it to myself cos i don't want her to be angry...
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She consistently gives you the cold shoulder? Or is it only after you confessed your feelings?Originally posted by life^stop:i'm 21 this year..known her for 2-3 months before telling her...its stupid i know...just told her how i feel..but i've done it already..and after that i just apologised to her say sorry for scaring her...she said its ok... yet..since day one when i know her...the way she treats me has never changed...even when i want to know her well enough... i'm very happy whenever she tells me abou her work, her parents back home, her siblings, her childhood. She can talk non stop. Yet the very next day, she change to someone who keeps so quiet, and treats me so coldly...feel really sad about it but i just keep it to myself cos i don't want her to be angry...
Till now, it has never changed..and i think it will never will...
If I really want to advise you,I need to type a long essay but I got to log off very soon.So for now,I just comment on your buying of gifts for her.Can tell what gifts you buy for her? Anyway,you might want to take a look at this
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=44836
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try sms her to jio her 1st.. mayb she shy to talk to u on phone
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dun piss her off by reluctant to put down the phone when she hinting u to.. girl wanan act hard to get
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i just want to forget about her and move on with life..yet i can't.. in my mind i keep on telling to myself "she's the one, she's the one" I dun wan to let go...but they way shes treating me, do i have a choice? i really don't want to ...but i can't...
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Where's Yun when u need him?
Anyway fren I understand wat the feeling's like....in fact went thru this phase for the past few months. Well u should juz treat her like a fren....u 2 will be together if u are meant to be...dun tink too much...n try not to pester ppl too much...mite turn her off -
ermm..i don't know what i gave her..but i did notice her looking at some key chains in a gift shop one day...i don't know which one she like so i bought 2-3 which i think she would...
Foolish? i don't know..i only know that i was very happy when i gave her the gift...even if she did not like it... -
Go download this song
son by four- purest of pain
Definitely dscribe what you are going through. Almost definitely.
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i do treat her like a friend...really...i listen to her often...yet she doesn't treat me as one...do u know how sad and hurt i feel? even by treating me a bit better i will be happy enough..but she did not...WHY???
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Listen....it is you who is willing to lend her a listening ear, u do all of those things of your own accord. I know this feeling...kinda sucky rite when u feel tat u are not treated appropriately. 1 lesson I definitely learnt was tat dun get ur expectations too high and if u wanna give, do not expect ppl to reciprocate. And if they really do, den treat it as a bonus.Originally posted by life^stop:i do treat her like a friend...really...i listen to her often...yet she doesn't treat me as one...do u know how sad and hurt i feel? even by treating me a bit better i will be happy enough..but she did not...WHY???