Glad u are in the real world now brotherOriginally posted by life^stop:Muz wake up and smell the thorns this time.... No more slip ups...Life must go on...
I can't destroy myself anymore...
Brudder... i cant agree more.....Originally posted by WinBoi84:Sometimes I really think all girls sux...
>wonder whether is any good girl still exist in this world<
GirlsLike to make use of guys especially when she knows u are fond of her. U can invest all your love, spend all your energy, spend all your money, spent all your times on her. It's still useless...
When u are no longer haf the value of being used, she will "dump" u...
But u cannot get over her becoz u really love/like her yet she treats u in such cruel ways...
Time flies - seconds, minutes, hours, days, months, years later...
And one fine day, u finally get over her. She appears before your eyes once again...
Now your feeling is back and u are sure that u truthly like/love her...
She makes u gian gian, thinking that now she likes u, she wants u to be her bf/husband but u are sure she is the only one u love most in your life...
Next u can invest all your love, spend all your energy, spend all your money, spent all your times on her...
And it starts all over again...
WTF does good girl hidding...?
In the first place ask yourself, is there really good girl exist in this cruel and realistic world...?![]()

WHY WHY WHY .............. Everybody is having problem with this !!!! I now personally i having this problem too and it drag for many years already.Originally posted by [ X ] & [ L ]:Brudder... i cant agree more.....
I am lke you sia... but not as long as you...
Been already more than half a yr...
Everything when i made up my mind and on e verge of not going to contach her and think abt her anymore... Jsut nice just nice, she will send a nice sms to me... Den will make me gian gian again..
WTf........ I really hate this feelings... been happen already 3 time...
So i tell myself, this time its going to be e same again...
But e tot of maybe there is a hope that we can be together makes me gian gian again...
And e cycle carry on again... WTf... right...
Long time ago i learn sth. And that is nv been a 'yes-man' Oherwise , e girl will find u bored . And when a cute guy comes along.. Woof and she is gone!
hey sorry to interupt... but i guess there is still some gd gals ard... n i think all this probs... not oni guys got the probz.. some gals r facing the same prob as well...Originally posted by WinBoi84:Sometimes I really think all girls sux...
>wonder whether is any good girl still exist in this world<
GirlsLike to make use of guys especially when she knows u are fond of her. U can invest all your love, spend all your energy, spend all your money, spent all your times on her. It's still useless...
When u are no longer haf the value of being used, she will "dump" u...
But u cannot get over her becoz u really love/like her yet she treats u in such cruel ways...
Time flies - seconds, minutes, hours, days, months, years later...
And one fine day, u finally get over her. She appears before your eyes once again...
Now your feeling is back and u are sure that u truthly like/love her...
She makes u gian gian, thinking that now she likes u, she wants u to be her bf/husband but u are sure she is the only one u love most in your life...
Next u can invest all your love, spend all your energy, spend all your money, spent all your times on her...
And it starts all over again...
WTF does good girl hidding...?
In the first place ask yourself, is there really good girl exist in this cruel and realistic world...?![]()
hai, u cant do anything, u ignore his/her msg.. dun reply then this cycle will end!! Dont drag le.. understand how u feel.. mi had been there before.. mine oso drag for very long.. think now end liao..Originally posted by archie84:WHY WHY WHY .............. Everybody is having problem with this !!!! I now personally i having this problem too and it drag for many years already.really heartache . Can anyone tell me how to put an end to this !!!
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sad to say, i am one of those gurls.. hai..Originally posted by johyl:hey sorry to interupt... but i guess there is still some gd gals ard... n i think all this probs... not oni guys got the probz.. some gals r facing the same prob as well...

there is a risk involved that after investing much time in a slow relationship, that both do not end up together..impatient males usually prefer to know results sooner..but they may not be able to accept a negative outcome either.Originally posted by darrendon:Hi life^stop,
I am in the same shoe as you three years ago. That was why I feel that it's time for me to tell you how you are actually feeling subsconsciously in your heart.
In my opinion, you does not love or like the girl. You do not even have the basic care for her. I apologise if I am too harse but that is exactly how I feel. You only love yourself. You only think of how you are feeling instead of being in her shoe. You have expectations in her and if she cannot meet your expectations, you blame her. Does this consider love or care? I really doubt so.
Do you expect her to be always around waiting for your sms 24 hours everyday? What do you expect her to do? Instead of blaming her, why don't you understand her? Remember that you are just her friend. Even if you are her bf, she will feel pressurised by your behaviour. It is clear cut that she just wan to be a normal friend with you. Nobody knows what will happen in the future but at least for now, she just want to be your normal friend. But you still keep on expecting more from her until she feel that she cannot take it anymore.
I can understand how you are feeling but I feel that you should grow up and be more matured in handling your emotions. Instead of letting your emotions overcome your logical thoughts, please be more understanding.
From your previous message, I see that you have watched "My Sassy Girl". But do you really understand the message behind it?
It is not just "Fate" or "Destined to be". It shows how a guy loves a girl unconditionally without any expectations. The girl tell him to wait for two years at the tree and even after the two years, the girl did not appear. But yet the guy did not blame her. He can understand her feelings and continue to look for her. Did he ever expect anything from her like what you do? The answer is a straight "NO".
Did he blame her for not contacting him over the years, the answer is also "NO". This is what I called love and true care. Even if they are just very good friends, this is what a good friend should do.
At least as a friend, you shouldn't expect her to reciprocate to your feelings if she doesn't feel the same way as you do. Give her time and stand by her whenver she needs you. Of course unconditionally if you really care for her.
Won't you feel stupid if you waited two years at the tree? Is the guy in the story that blind?Originally posted by darrendon:Hi life^stop,
From your previous message, I see that you have watched "My Sassy Girl". But do you really understand the message behind it?
It is not just "Fate" or "Destined to be". It shows how a guy loves a girl unconditionally without any expectations. The girl tell him to wait for two years at the tree and even after the two years, the girl did not appear. But yet the guy did not blame her. He can understand her feelings and continue to look for her. Did he ever expect anything from her like what you do? The answer is a straight "NO".
Did he blame her for not contacting him over the years, the answer is also "NO". This is what I called love and true care. Even if they are just very good friends, this is what a good friend should do.
At least as a friend, you shouldn't expect her to reciprocate to your feelings if she doesn't feel the same way as you do. Give her time and stand by her whenver she needs you. Of course unconditionally if you really care for her.
Originally posted by darrendon:You read carefully all his past posts...she dun bother to reply to his sms at all...
And in the first place, she did not even specify that she does not want to be friend with him again. It is just his own assumptions. I believe that people who are matured enough will have not this kind of thinking of "I don't want to be friend with you" as this may seems so ridiculous for working adults.[/b]
Originally posted by darrendon:You read carefully all his past posts...she dun bother to reply to his sms at all...
And in the first place, she did not even specify that she does not want to be friend with him again. It is just his own assumptions. I believe that people who are matured enough will have not this kind of thinking of "I don't want to be friend with you" as this may seems so ridiculous for working adults.[/b]
sad to say too...Originally posted by sNicKeRdOodLe:sad to say, i am one of those gurls.. hai..
Certainly hope so...But it seems to me that she is treating him as a complete non entity...Originally posted by darrendon:Hi Doenitz,
Everybody have different perspective and interpretations of a good friend. My interpretation of being a good friend is to be available for him/her when times he/she needs me or when he/she needs a listening ear.
To me, by thinking that she always have to reply to his sms is defnitely not the right thinking. Maybe she is busy at that particular moment or maybe she could have her own reasons and difficulties that she does not want to let anybody know. She has her own right. There is a lot of "Maybe" and it is not being fair enough to come out with the conclusion that " she does not want to be his friend anymore". All this is only his assumptions.
I believe that as time goes by and when he read back his message when he is more calm, he will know what I mean by always assuming things that might not be true. It is definitely wrong to assume anyone else thinking without any significant proof. This is just like framing someone by assumming that he/she feels this way and he/she cannot even speak for herself. This often leads to misunderstanding between good friends and couples.
I do not deny the fact that she may be avoiding him for the time being but this is also for his own good. She may felt that he has expectations in her in which she cannot reciprocate. That was why she choose to leave him alone to settle down his thought first rather than him being more and more paranoid.

ya. nv make any false assumptions abt any situation unless allowed. thats what happens to me in the past too. i had a pretty nice fren in sec2. we get on good and ppl spreads rumours that we are together. despite all those we are still frens.Originally posted by darrendon:To me, by thinking that she always have to reply to his sms is defnitely not the right thinking. Maybe she is busy at that particular moment or maybe she could have her own reasons and difficulties that she does not want to let anybody know. She has her own right. There is a lot of "Maybe" and it is not being fair enough to come out with the conclusion that " she does not want to be his friend anymore". All this is only his assumptions.
I believe that as time goes by and when he read back his message when he is more calm, he will know what I mean by always assuming things that might not be true. It is definitely wrong to assume anyone else thinking without any significant proof. This is just like framing someone by assumming that he/she feels this way and he/she cannot even speak for herself. This often leads to misunderstanding between good friends and couples.