why doesn't she ever know just how much i care for her?
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Actually,I also got this problem before,got this gal I used to like last year.After she got attached,she changed and simply bo chap me.I sms her very casual things,she also don't reply...Don't reply don't reply la...as if I will die coz I dun get to see her!!!Originally posted by life^stop:thats the problem..she don't even want to be friends with me Doe... your earlier post...went to parkway parade apple strudel shop...than went to pet shop...
Wan to know something uncannily similar? I used to work in that pet shop... and i bought breakfast for her..from that apple strudel shop in parkway parade too..
talk about coincidence....
I want to be there if she needs help...she doesn't.
COME ON JERK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WAKE UP MY IDEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I want to scream so badly...
So she dun even wanna be friends with u,let her be,fu-cking bitch who thinks she is big fu-ck!!! It's her loss la not yours!!! -
u r a RVD fan?? didn't know that u r a fan of Mr Monday NiteOriginally posted by Doenitz:Go commit suicide and pray that you get reincarnated as a guy who has a sports car,a seven figure bank account,the looks of Francesco Totti,the physique of Jean Claude Van Damme,the charisma of Adolf Hitler,the brains of Albert Einstein and not as a housefly,a cockroach or a leech.
If all else fails,you may want to enlist the help of a bomoh and buy a love charm from him.All your agonies will be solved permanently.
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aiyah, i think we should just let him be.. you can continue sulking and making your own life miserable
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sentimentalOriginally posted by Doenitz:I dunno wat u toking la...wat is chi qing
pronounce it in mandrain -
then go and die la , damn weakling .Originally posted by life^stop:i do treat her like a friend...really...i listen to her often...yet she doesn't treat me as one...do u know how sad and hurt i feel? even by treating me a bit better i will be happy enough..but she did not...WHY???
i see all the people here are trying to console you and giving you solutions , all u can do is self indulge in your pitiful thinking , u so sad go and die la lor , then no need think so much , k listen to me now ,
GO
AND
DIE .
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Reading through all the posts in this thread and came to this conclusion,
What people say about nice guys finishing last need to be taken with a pinch of salt. What I feel is that bad guys may win the battle or even the campaign but they will ultimately lose the war...BUT don't be too nice to gals,don't be at her beck and call,don't be a sycophant/yes-men,don't keep treating or buying expensive gifts for gals...That is a bad mistake u made...So next time,be nice but don't act like a retard who gives in the gals' every request(show some backbone pls!) and let gals eat "your carrot head" always(in chinese)
This gal is a fu-cking loser.You are also one.She don't even want to be friends with u-what does it show about her? Yet u cling to her like a leech and treat her like a princess.The $$$ u wasted on her can be better spent on the Courage Fund. Then u being a fu-cking loser,chose to wallow in self-pity over another fu-cking loser.U better get over it before u enlist coz BMT gonna be stressful...Don't want this problem to exacerbate the stress of military training...
Harsh words aside,I m sure u will find the gal who treasures u some day.
By the way,when u worked at the pet shop? I went there a few times last and this year with my friends...Maybe,I met u b4...
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I tink during BMT he dun even have time to tink abt such things...Originally posted by Doenitz:U better get over it before u enlist coz BMT gonna be stressful...Don't want this problem to exacerbate the stress of military training... -
if you've done all this and yet she treats you like this, you really gotta question: what is so special about her?
Why do you like her?
I treat my GF like the treasure she is but she deserves it.
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Alright dude, I understand how you feel and I know its really miserable for a girl whom you love so much to treat you this way but
STOP WHINING!
I've been through such experiences during my younger days and I've learnt to get over them. I know its hard, but dude, no girl would like a man who whines over being rejected. It's a part of life, so face it. I'm sure all the advice the forumnites give in here (including myself) would fall on deaf ears, cause I believe what you really want now is just someone who can listen to your problems. I'm sure some kind people in here would be willin to do that
As for the "I won't love another girl cause she's the best and only one for me" s**t, I won't say more, just lemme know whether you still have such feelings for the girl when another special someone comes into your life.
Pardon me if my post is a little too direct, but you're a man, and I'm sure you'll be able to find someone else who is more worthy of you. All the best. -
Hey,bro,u been quiet recently...So what have u been doing?
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rare guy..... almost extinct... I say, U deserve better!Originally posted by life^stop:Like this girl so much...bought breakfast...bought her gifts when i got my pay check... all i ever ask for is to be able to just talk to her or even go out with her even if its for just 1 hour... really care for her alot.. yet...she sounds bored everytime talking to me..Called her last night and she said called her back later...did as i was told..only to know shes sleeping...hate to admit it..but really juz cried in bed...i'm not someone very great..just an ordinary person looking to care for this girl whom to me is so special...i really hate the way she's treating me...yet all this while i hope that she at least sms me even a "Hi" one day... Can't sleep, can't eat..can only weep...why?
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Last time when I was younger,I also like that...Just made a fool of myself only...Nowadays,my mentality is never be too nice to gals else u get taken for granted and look stupid...Originally posted by *evanesence*:rare guy..... almost extinct... I say, U deserve better!
All the best! 
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Same as U!!Originally posted by Doenitz:Last time when I was younger,I also like that...Just made a fool of myself only...Nowadays,my mentality is never be too nice to gals else u get taken for granted and look stupid...
But mine is nv to be too nice to guys!
And it seems the b|tchier & nastier u get, the more appealing u become... Mabbe they see it as a challenge? I dun really care tho'.. -
Originally posted by *evanesence*:Same as U!!
But mine is nv to be too nice to guys!
And it seems the b|tchier & nastier u get, the more appealing u become... Mabbe they see it as a challenge? I dun really care tho'.. 
like that also can....
i realised that most of the time good guys end up w gals who dun appreciate them n vice versa....rare cases of ones that both parties r as caring n giving....so sad sia..... -
I must be the bad girl now....Originally posted by harryryan: like that also can....
i realised that most of the time good guys end up w gals who dun appreciate them n vice versa....rare cases of ones that both parties r as caring n giving....so sad sia.....
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haha...lucky u...congrats....Originally posted by *evanesence*:I must be the bad girl now.... with the good guy.... 
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Originally posted by harryryan:haha...lucky u...congrats....
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huh?did i say anything wrong?dun cry lah..... e thing i am most scared of is a gal crying liao......Originally posted by *evanesence*: -
u made me feel guilty... =XOriginally posted by harryryan:huh?did i say anything wrong?dun cry lah..... e thing i am most scared of is a gal crying liao...... -
huh?guilty of wat?*sayang.....* dun cry liao lah..... gals crying give me a major headache...... ouch!Originally posted by *evanesence*:u made me feel guilty... =X -
cus im the bad girl... =XOriginally posted by harryryan:huh?guilty of wat?*sayang.....* dun cry liao lah..... gals crying give me a major headache...... ouch! -
ha...ha... no one is bad lah....Originally posted by *evanesence*:cus im the bad girl... =X
casual comment onli make pple feel bad....i must think b4 i post next time.....
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i've been in ur shoes b4... n i know how it feels.
but i came to realise that its not worth pouring ur heart out 4 a person who doesn't seem to respond 2 u... after all that u've done 4 her...
let it go, she ain't worth it. u'll soon find someone appriciates u..... -
If she at least wants to be platonic friends with you,at least you can try to win her heart with your sincerity and perseverance.
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2 mths plus gone since i last communicated with her... but Doe, i can't get it over yet...not in the near future i think.
Everything went well for me... i thought i had gotten over her. Until i read some stupid article and her name just POP out. in my stupidity i took another shitty move by smsing her again. "How r u?" No reply. Not even a "scram" . i can only sit down and stare in mid air. Everything seems to come back again.
"Nobody else could ever know, the part of me that can't let go.....i would give everything i own...just to have u..back again"