Guy who like to crossdress
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I am a 30yo guy who has a fetish for crossdressing.
It started during my teens when I wore my moms lingerie and dress. I get high doing and like to mas after that. I really get a kick out of doing that. I know that is wrong and feel sad about that. I wanted to stop that. I have been successful but the urge to crossdress came back and I end up crossdress again. This goes on again and again till today.
I went overseas to study and finally got my privacy in my hostel. I went online shopping and bought myself some lingerie and dresses. I was so happy but threw away the clothes when I felt guilty again.
When I came back, the urge to crossdress came back. This time I am so daring that I bought lingerie over the counter telling the staff that those are for my girlfriend.
In this process, the thought of being a girl is so strong that I met up with a foreign guy and have a non-sexual meeting. That is only once. I felt so guilty and sick of myself that I threw away the clothes.
However, the thought and thrill of crossdressing came back again and again and till now I am still thinking of buying lingerie and clothes again.
Can anyone advise? -
SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP IMMEDIATELY! SEE REPLY TO THREAD HERE FOR SIMILIAR CASE.Originally posted by Boykathy:I am a 30yo guy who has a fetish for crossdressing.
It started during my teens when I wore my moms lingerie and dress. I get high doing and like to mas after that. I really get a kick out of doing that. I know that is wrong and feel sad about that. I wanted to stop that. I have been successful but the urge to crossdress came back and I end up crossdress again. This goes on again and again till today.
I went overseas to study and finally got my privacy in my hostel. I went online shopping and bought myself some lingerie and dresses. I was so happy but threw away the clothes when I felt guilty again.
When I came back, the urge to crossdress came back. This time I am so daring that I bought lingerie over the counter telling the staff that those are for my girlfriend.
In this process, the thought of being a girl is so strong that I met up with a foreign guy and have a non-sexual meeting. That is only once. I felt so guilty and sick of myself that I threw away the clothes.
However, the thought and thrill of crossdressing came back again and again and till now I am still thinking of buying lingerie and clothes again.
Can anyone advise? -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
I don't think that will help.
[b]SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP IMMEDIATELY! SEE REPLY TO THREAD HERE FOR SIMILIAR CASE. [/b] -
How would u know it wont help till u tried it??
The fact that u can acknowledge this problem u are already facing is a good start. However you should take it one step futher and seek professional help. Its going to be hard to approach them and you WILL feel ashamed of yourself and guilty of the fact that what you are doing is wrong but NO ONE CAN HELP YOU IF YOU ARNT WILLING TO HELP YOURSELF FIRST.
None of us here can give you any advise other than seeking professinal help cause we dont fully understand what you are going thru ( unless we've been thru that). There are others out there with the same situation as you dont feel that your problem is so strange that there is no one to help you cause u know thats not true... just need the courage to face up to your problem -
Another one? -
Maybe it's the same...?Originally posted by Master -_-: Another one?
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same? With who?Originally posted by Devil1976:Maybe it's the same...? -
deja vu case........
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Never mind... I don't think I can help too...? If you can't rely on PROFESSIONALS for help, what makes you think we're better than they are...?Originally posted by Boykathy:same? With who? -
I have a cure. Go to my school for gifted youngsters, I will teach you how control your powers and you can become one of my henchmen; the xXx Men! You can be Crossclops! With the power to Cross-dress. Only at my school will you be safe from the powerful mutant: "Lao Chi Ko" in relation to "Magneto", Lao Chi Ko has the power to mentally strip girls in his mind.
Alternatively you can buy a bible... and for each time you have the urge to cross dress hit your head with thebible... and use a knife to carve holy inscriptions onto your flesh... all while praying to the Lord for forgiveness. And sleep with your bible... carry it wherever you go... -
With this kind of advice, I rather dress up daily as a girl.Originally posted by chaar123:I have a cure. Go to my school for gifted youngsters, I will teach you how control your powers and you can become one of my henchmen; the xXx Men! You can be Crossclops! With the power to Cross-dress. Only at my school will you be safe from the powerful mutant: "Lao Chi Ko" in relation to "Magneto", Lao Chi Ko has the power to mentally strip girls in his mind.
Alternatively you can buy a bible... and for each time you have the urge to cross dress hit your head with thebible... and use a knife to carve holy inscriptions onto your flesh... all while praying to the Lord for forgiveness. And sleep with your bible... carry it wherever you go... -
u sure these works?? just by carrying a bible but not obeying wat it says?Originally posted by chaar123:I have a cure. Go to my school for gifted youngsters, I will teach you how control your powers and you can become one of my henchmen; the xXx Men! You can be Crossclops! With the power to Cross-dress. Only at my school will you be safe from the powerful mutant: "Lao Chi Ko" in relation to "Magneto", Lao Chi Ko has the power to mentally strip girls in his mind.
Alternatively you can buy a bible... and for each time you have the urge to cross dress hit your head with thebible... and use a knife to carve holy inscriptions onto your flesh... all while praying to the Lord for forgiveness. And sleep with your bible... carry it wherever you go... -
But u should join my xXx Men... come to XxXavier's School for Gifted Youngsters... No.5 Pasir Panjang Road... Pasir Panjang Apartments no. 5, block W, West Wing. Join us, the Professor can teach you to control your powers, and then u can help all Mutants/Weirdoes...
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Originally posted by Boykathy:I am a 30yo guy who has a fetish for crossdressing.
It started during my teens when I wore my moms lingerie and dress. I get high doing and like to mas after that. I really get a kick out of doing that. I know that is wrong and feel sad about that. I wanted to stop that. I have been successful but the urge to crossdress came back and I end up crossdress again. This goes on again and again till today.
I went overseas to study and finally got my privacy in my hostel. I went online shopping and bought myself some lingerie and dresses. I was so happy but threw away the clothes when I felt guilty again.
When I came back, the urge to crossdress came back. This time I am so daring that I bought lingerie over the counter telling the staff that those are for my girlfriend.
In this process, the thought of being a girl is so strong that I met up with a foreign guy and have a non-sexual meeting. That is only once. I felt so guilty and sick of myself that I threw away the clothes.
However, the thought and thrill of crossdressing came back again and again and till now I am still thinking of buying lingerie and clothes again.
Can anyone advise?
nuff said -
Nobody said it was easy to change. I have a similar problem to yours. I am still in secondary school and since the age of 14 I have always had a fetish for other guys of my age. You might say that I am a homosexual. But I realised because of this problem that I have, I feel less confident with other normal guys. I feel insecure. It's good that you know that this is a problem, but you really must tell yourself that the change is worth it. No point going for counselling and all those expensive help because it all lies with you.
Now ask yourself, can you change?
If your answer is yes, I wish you all the best.
And i'm sure those in this forum are willing to help you too! -
so how r u now?back to normal??
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As it is not an easy process and it takes time, I do not think that I have changed as yet. However, I am finding that I can control myself from fantasizing about guys when masturbating.
A piece of advice: Try not to think of anything when masturbating. It is not easy at first, but just try to do it. You will see success.
About you having increased the size of your breasts, I certainly do hope that the effects are temporary. Do not do it again. You don't know what side effects these beauty medication can bring.
"Self-control" is the key. You can do it. I'm already halfway there. -
Seem to be having alot of these issues cropping up every so often... well as I wrote previously in another topic here..
Its all up to you to decide what to do, perhaps professional help can determine whether you are simply a transvestite,transexual , homosexual or perhaps just a fetish .
For me if you are happy with yourself then go with the flow, dont worry about what others think, what is important is you.
Its the 21st century ppl we should be open-minded
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Someone please post where we can find a reliable psychologists!
There may be others who read this thread and wondering where to seek help.
By the way, crossdressing is a real mental sickness and we should be more aware that such things exists. So please dont flame anyone here because this is not a joke, you might just kill someone because of your nonsense reply. -
Come to my school....
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I am feeling much the same and the desire remains.
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Whoa lan! I said come my school right?
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Firstly, love yourself.
Secondly, try not to masturbate for a while. Each time you think of this kind of thoughts, try to occupy yourself with other things. If you come back from somewhere to find you have the whole house to yourself, an easy trap for you to crossdress again, turn around, walk out the door. Go to McDonald's or Starbucks and get your mind off your urges. Get a hobby, maybe do some exercise...build up your muscles!
You can do it! -
since you have a queer (pun intended) hobby, why not try to make money out of it by hanging out at Changi Village *LOL*
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Lacy things - the wife is missin',
Didn't ask - her permission,
I'm wearin' her clothes, Her silk pantyhose,
Walkin' round in women's underwear.
In the store - there's a teddy,
Little straps - like spaghetti,
It holds me so tight, Like handcuffs at night,
Walkin' round in women's underwear.
In the office there's a guy named Melvin,
He pretends that I am Murphy Brown.
He'll say, "Are you ready?" We'll say,"Whoa, Man!"
"Let's wait until our wives are out of town!"
Later on, if you wanna,
We can dress - like Madonna,
Put on some eyeshade, And join the parade,
Walkin'round in women's underwear!
Lacy things ... Missin', Didn't ask ... permission,
Wearin' her clothes, Her silk pantyhose,
Walkin' round in women's underwear,
Walkin' round in women's underwear,
Walkin' round in women's underwear!