Guy who like to crossdress
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Go see a doctor
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yeah! Doctor FrankenFurterOriginally posted by kohanson:Go see a doctor -
Thanks for the advice. Actuall I have tried self control but the urge keeps coming back.Originally posted by hepburn:As it is not an easy process and it takes time, I do not think that I have changed as yet. However, I am finding that I can control myself from fantasizing about guys when masturbating.
A piece of advice: Try not to think of anything when masturbating. It is not easy at first, but just try to do it. You will see success.
About you having increased the size of your breasts, I certainly do hope that the effects are temporary. Do not do it again. You don't know what side effects these beauty medication can bring.
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I have tried to keep myself busy. But the feeling is not easy to go away. The thought of myself in ladies clothes arouses me and the feel of lingerie is really nice.Originally posted by hepburn:Firstly, love yourself.
Secondly, try not to masturbate for a while. Each time you think of this kind of thoughts, try to occupy yourself with other things. If you come back from somewhere to find you have the whole house to yourself, an easy trap for you to crossdress again, turn around, walk out the door. Go to McDonald's or Starbucks and get your mind off your urges. Get a hobby, maybe do some exercise...build up your muscles!
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then u need to find a male buddy to assist u to rid this habit...share ur agonies with him and be accountable in ur actions to him. i am not promoting gay relationship...merely healthy male bonding.
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Go get yourself a gf in lingerie? At least that would be much healthier than this...?Originally posted by Boykathy:I have tried to keep myself busy. But the feeling is not easy to go away. The thought of myself in ladies clothes arouses me and the feel of lingerie is really nice.
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Hey there....
Hmm...can sense your frustrations about the issue....
You've really gotta try hard to get rid of this problem! Tell yourself, "I can do it, I can do it"....force yourself to think of other things...like the opposite of your current fantasies. I hope it won't come to the point where you start to give up....I tell you, it's worth the change.
We'll be there for you. Just keep updating us on your progress.
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try not to expose urself to such temptations...throw those clothes away and try to overcome it
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Lewww u dun come to my school i feel so.... so... like i never do my best to help you like that... whoa lao eh! Nevermind! U gimme your address then i send my XxX-Men (PeeSAi-CLops and Tool-verine) to come and collect you in the SUPERXXX-BLACKBIRD-SUPA-PUMA from RSAF (Actually is we stole one HAHA), but then be careful cos then Lao Chi Ko will try and take you and covert you to become his hencmen! HOLD ON! GIMME YOUR ADDRESS! Then I can bring you to my school for gifted weirdoes.... errr I mean gifted youngsters!
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Get a life. I'm still trying to laugh at that.
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It's a mental condition. Seek professional help.
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Hey there is fanatical knight guy seeliing bra and panties and ladys stuff in Buy and Sell leh,,, want to buy or not? Hmmm? Go and buy lar.... go on lar... hehee
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I am quite disgusted with myself when I met up with the foreign guy and had a non-sexual relationship. But I did thought of have a steady guy friend whom I can have a relationship with. Still I am scared and have douths about that. Sometimes I do yawn for a man's touch sexually when I dress up.Originally posted by NeonTetra:then u need to find a male buddy to assist u to rid this habit...share ur agonies with him and be accountable in ur actions to him. i am not promoting gay relationship...merely healthy male bonding. -
Do you think you might go for a sex change one day?Originally posted by Boykathy:I am quite disgusted with myself when I met up with the foreign guy and had a non-sexual relationship. But I did thought of have a steady guy friend whom I can have a relationship with. Still I am scared and have douths about that. Sometimes I do yawn for a man's touch sexually when I dress up. -
No. Not all all.Originally posted by Devil1976:Do you think you might go for a sex change one day? -
R u bisexual then??Originally posted by Boykathy:No. Not all all. -
Not too sure myself. Never had a sexual relationship with a guy yet.Originally posted by *evanesence*:R u bisexual then?? -
Ever had a gf before? Do you think you really need help? What help you want?Originally posted by Boykathy:Not too sure myself. Never had a sexual relationship with a guy yet. -
Actually I did have one before. I think if I have the privacy to dress up to see if I am really want to be like that. If not, I will not pursue this kind of life anymore.Originally posted by Devil1976:Ever had a gf before? Do you think you really need help? What help you want? -
Don't quite get what ya mean? Do you detest girls? If ya don't, why don't ya just get yourself a gf?Originally posted by Boykathy:Actually I did have one before. I think if I have the privacy to dress up to see if I am really want to be like that. If not, I will not pursue this kind of life anymore. -
Not that I hate girls. Just that I like to dress up. Nothing to do with dating girls.Originally posted by Devil1976:Don't quite get what ya mean? Do you detest girls? If ya don't, why don't ya just get yourself a gf? -
why? i cant understand why u like to dress up as a girl?
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The best is to seek PROFESSIONAL help...
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yeah....dont drag liao...call some helpline or watever...
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Get yourself a GF... Hang out with girls and ACT MANLY in front of them.... With time to come you'll realise that this is MUCH BETTER... As you're a MAN... Naturally, acting like a man and dressing up as one when gives you the advantage over dressing up as a female as you're ALREADY a MAN..... Besides, CROSSDRESSING is not commonly / openly accepted in most of the societies... Unless you intend to do that in the DARK for the rest of your life and cultivate a part of you which is not really recognised in reality (which I don't quite see the point?) OR you intend to migrate to another country like Japan or so where such 'cultures' are more readily accepted...Originally posted by Boykathy:Not that I hate girls. Just that I like to dress up. Nothing to do with dating girls.
Do you INTEND to kick this HABIT? If ya do, SEEK PROFESSIONAL ADVICE....
If ya don't, I don't see what we can do to help you...?