What is considered Best Friends ?
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me too...i think it is a weakness.Originally posted by Forever84:I actually always believe what people tell me
But not everyone has your interest at heart, not even your best frnd
so to trust them fully, hmmm may actually seem like a weakness or mistake -
Bf/gf also don't tell everything to each other - what makes you think best friend MUST tell everything to each other?Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:Does best friends need to tell each other everything?
i dn tink so...wat abt u?? -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Well becos we onli tell certain things to a best frd and certain things to another best frd. But if they happen to be best frd too den they know every single bit of ur things lor!
Bf/gf also don't tell everything to each other - what makes you think best friend [b]MUST tell everything to each other? [/b]
But I think, usually things are confide between best frds den with bf/gf cos u are shy and scare to let ur other half to share ur burden too. But when come to best frd.. is different story liao. Perhaps... the role changes when bf/gf become husband/wife? -
Well... true...... to some extent... but coz U noe each other so well, basically dun need to tok so much wat... juz simple chat to pass time oso can... can tok abt anything... I noe wat my buddy gonna sae... but I juz wanna hear it... dun ask me y... I juz like it. *shrugs*Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:actualy sometimes..u already know wat the other party will react and says...so sometimes ppl dn realy tok to each other more -
Best friends stab you in the front.
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never realyl believe in best friends...
although got a group of friends who alawys hang ard..
i dun believe in telling goot friends those darkest secrets..if it is meant to be a secret..den dun tell anybody...once u tell 1 person..it is no longer a secret liao... -
My friends all went out and never jio me. I saw their pic and felt so sad.
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y nv jio u?Originally posted by star princess:My friends all went out and never jio me. I saw their pic and felt so sad.
Are they even considered friends?
or u reject them b4 so they nv jio u after u reject too many times?? they show u pic... then nex time go outint wit them lor.... -
I think they don't like me lor. I duno why also. HmmOriginally posted by Xiao Long Nu:y nv jio u? or u reject them b4 so they nv jio u after u reject too many times?? they show u pic... then nex time go outint wit them lor....
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so jia luck meh...Originally posted by star princess:I think they don't like me lor. I duno why also. Hmm
dotsg, you know or not?
u nv sit down and tok to them carefully l...nt happy mus say out and discuss mah...if nt then aso mo min qi miao.. -
I feel that there is NO NEED to tell your 'best friend' everything.
What do i mean? Firstly, what kind of best friend is he/she? KNow for how long liao? Know each other a lot? Do you feel comfortable telling him/her everything?
I have a very close buddy..for 11 years liao. We are buddies and as close as real sisters. We share our joys and sorrows. We used to hide our sadness from each other because we both know that if either one of us is unhappy, the other one's mood will be affected too. Even when i got in and out of love, i did not tell her how i felt. However, we had a heart-to-heart talk not long ago. I feel so much relieved now that she knows how i felt all those days. We both know that we will stand by each other for the rest of our lives. She said it's predestined that we are so good buddies and we know that nothing can separate us, not even after we got marriage and have a family of our own...
There is no need to tell another person everything about yourself. You have the rights to keep them to yourself. Bear in mind that true friendships will only last when there is communication, trust and understanding.
All the best to you and your best friend!
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I feel that there is NO NEED to tell your 'best friend' everything.
What do i mean? Firstly, what kind of best friend is he/she? Know for how long liao? Know each other a lot? Do you feel comfortable telling him/her everything?
I have a very close buddy..for 11 years liao. We are buddies and as close as real sisters. We share our joys and sorrows. We used to hide our sadness from each other because we both know that if either one of us is unhappy, the other one's mood will be affected too. Even when i got in and out of love, i did not tell her how i felt. However, we had a heart-to-heart talk not long ago. I feel so much relieved now that she knows how i felt all those days. We both know that we will stand by each other for the rest of our lives. She said it's predestined that we are so good buddies and we know that nothing can separate us, not even after we get married and have a family of our own...
There is no need to tell another person everything about yourself. You have the rights to keep them to yourself. Bear in mind that true friendships will only last when there is communication, trust and understanding.
All the best to you and your best friend! -
I feel that there is NO NEED to tell your 'best friend' everything.
What do i mean? Firstly, what kind of best friend is he/she? Know for how long liao? Know each other a lot? Do you feel comfortable telling him/her everything?
I have a very close buddy..for 11 years liao. We are buddies and as close as real sisters. We share our joys and sorrows. We used to hide our sadness from each other because we both know that if either one of us is unhappy, the other one's mood will be affected too. Even when i got in and out of love, i did not tell her how i felt. However, we had a heart-to-heart talk not long ago. I feel so much relieved now that she knows how i felt all those days. We both know that we will stand by each other for the rest of our lives. She said it's predestined that we are so good buddies and we know that nothing can separate us, not even after we get married and have a family of our own...
There is no need to tell another person everything about yourself. You have the rights to keep them to yourself. Bear in mind that true friendships will only last when there is communication, trust and understanding.
All the best to you and your best friend! -
yup u dun need to tell everythingOriginally posted by Xiao Long Nu:Does best friends need to tell each other everything? i dn tink so...wat abt u??
but frens ar there to help u
if u wan tell them, they even help u solve ur problem
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No... maybe U got some thing yr frens dun like? like I got 1 fren whom my other frens dun jio out whenever we go out... I kinda feel sorry for him... Maybe somedae I call him out... yah... I call him out...Originally posted by star princess:My friends all went out and never jio me. I saw their pic and felt so sad.
Are they even considered friends? -
Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:Does best friends need to tell each other everything? i dn tink so...wat abt u?? friends shud keep growin in trustin more n more wif 1 another..its n ongoin process..i try 2 focus less on wat my frens can do 4 me..but more on wat i can do 4 dem..da higher ur xpectations..da greater ur disappointment..no man is infallible..
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once i heard from a friend.. that a gal cannot be another gal best friend.. due to jealousy among galz.. well i dont agree.. but for some people there might be this problem.. usually when you have a pretty gal as best friend i think this problem will cope up!
hmm we need someone to be by your side.. best friend or whoever.. peace -
Only best friends will be truly happy for your achievements, while others will be jealous.
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true. but you are good at this and i'm good at other things. each have their own talent... nothing to be jealous about mah. It's so unfair.Originally posted by lavender_scent:Only best friends will be truly happy for your achievements, while others will be jealous.
lavender_scent -
We have outing mah! Always post as topic!Originally posted by star princess:My friends all went out and never jio me. I saw their pic and felt so sad.
Are they even considered friends?