Boyfriend hanging out with other pretty gers???
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see.... must like fly kite like that...know how to control...must let e string loose but not too loose...tight but not too tight.....n btw u say things i presume he's still w u cos u use bf n not exOriginally posted by Papering:cant say so.. feelings this type of thingy is very hard to say. when you spend more time with someone else, feelings tend to develope.
*sigh* this happened to me 2 years back. I trust my boyfren too much till I was the last one to realise that someone else has replaced me in his heart.
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hmm.. is ex already
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oh...sorry ...my mistake...but must move on lor...few days ago i also hart broken but now i learn to stop e pain liao.Originally posted by Papering:hmm.. is ex already -
Ah... so its now a new R/S U having? Or wat?Originally posted by Papering:hmm.. is ex already -
Have more cofidence in urself & ur bf pls if u cont to feel this way u will do great harm to the relationship osoOriginally posted by *evanesence*:Im not sure if my bf hangs out with this girl whom I find quite pretty, but she's another guy's fren. And she's kinda into that guy (my bf's fren)... However, I got kinda jealous... when I found out abt it...
It's not like that Im darn ugly or what... I know my standards... But I still find her a threat, im not sure if it's normal to feel this way..
I dunno if im kicking a big fuss over this.. but I still feel uneasy if he hangs out with pretty gers... tt's if he has any pretty ger frens...
Is this a "jealousy" issue or do I have a prob with my self-esteem?? Or issit a case of both?? ... -
yup! we still hafta move on with life.. cos life still goes on.Originally posted by harryryan:oh...sorry ...my mistake...but must move on lor...few days ago i also hart broken but now i learn to stop e pain liao.
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yah, having a boyfren for more than 2 years liao.Originally posted by loneryu00:Ah... so its now a new R/S U having? Or wat?
like what ryan said, relationship is like flying a kite, so far my string hasnt snap yet. 
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Originally posted by boynike:Have more cofidence in urself & ur bf pls if u cont to feel this way u will do great harm to the relationship oso
Agree 
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Then good loh! dun worry... juz love him unconditionally can liao...Originally posted by Papering:yah, having a boyfren for more than 2 years liao. like what ryan said, relationship is like flying a kite, so far my string hasnt snap yet. -
u holding too loose they snap..... too tight they also snap.... might have other kite come in n cut ur string also.... ctually alot of thigs are just fated.... but u can sense from e start if it's gonna work out..... just if u choose to accept onli....peace.Originally posted by Papering:yah, having a boyfren for more than 2 years liao. like what ryan said, relationship is like flying a kite, so far my string hasnt snap yet. -
Watever he said...Originally posted by harryryan:u holding too loose they snap..... too tight they also snap.... might have other kite come in n cut ur string also.... ctually alot of thigs are just fated.... but u can sense from e start if it's gonna work out..... just if u choose to accept onli....peace.
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Love is like a butterfly, hold it too tightly, u wld crush it...Originally posted by harryryan:see.... must like fly kite like that...know how to control...must let e string loose but not too loose...tight but not too tight.....n btw u say things i presume he's still w u cos u use bf n not ex -
gal. dont be so sad anymore alrught? things will work out btw both of u. so, does he know how u feel? did u tell him?Originally posted by *evanesence*:Love is like a butterfly, hold it too tightly, u wld crush it... -
dun get tart worried baby...sometime u think the gal is pretty, but to the guy she's so so only...the reason y he's with u rather than with those called pretty gal cos u r his type mah...Originally posted by *evanesence*:Love is like a butterfly, hold it too tightly, u wld crush it...
maybe u can tell him ur worry, but dun make a fuss about it... -
w00t!
i like hanging out with pretty girls
sometimes, people may think i'm like a pimp -
Did tell him that I was jealous but din say that I tot she was kinda pretty... if i did that, he would most prob ask me where's my confidence....Originally posted by Papering:gal. dont be so sad anymore alrught? things will work out btw both of u. so, does he know how u feel? did u tell him?
Im not sure how people see me... but I should'nt be that horrible looking... cus judging from stuff like guys asking me for my no. on the streets or in school & guys who beo me when im out with my bf or frens (tho' it's always my bf & frens who noticed it but not me...
) I should be quite ok-looking...
Yet, I sometimes think of myself as a very ugly person...
And Im realistic, face it... this world is darn realistic about appearence.... it's the harsh reality... So I guess looks does play some part in a relationship... If my bf thinks that Im good-looking, Im afraid that he might think that if i managed to get her (since at the time he asked me out, there were 2-3 other guys who were sort of wooing me) , I can get other pretty girls as well.... Im just very scared... maybe worried tt i may lose him...thus, causing my imagination to run wild...
I always have nightmares of him leaving me for another girl..
I read somewhere... it's either reflecting on my jealousy or my possessiveness.... Im not sure, maybe it's both for me..
I seriously hope things would get better.... besides this prob, we seem to be facing a touch patch in our relationship.... -
~Sigh...~ Don't you have any confidence for your bf at all...?Originally posted by *evanesence*:Did tell him that I was jealous but din say that I tot she was kinda pretty... if i did that, he would most prob ask me where's my confidence....
Im not sure how people see me... but I should'nt be that horrible looking... cus judging from stuff like guys asking me for my no. on the streets or in school & guys who beo me when im out with my bf or frens (tho' it's always my bf & frens who noticed it but not me... ) I should be quite ok-looking...
Yet, I sometimes think of myself as a very ugly person...
And Im realistic, face it... this world is darn realistic about appearence.... it's the harsh reality... So I guess looks does play some part in a relationship... If my bf thinks that Im good-looking, Im afraid that he might think that if i managed to get her (since at the time he asked me out, there were 2-3 other guys who were sort of wooing me) , I can get other pretty girls as well.... Im just very scared... maybe worried tt i may lose him...thus, causing my imagination to run wild...
I always have nightmares of him leaving me for another girl..
I read somewhere... it's either reflecting on my jealousy or my possessiveness.... Im not sure, maybe it's both for me..
I seriously hope things would get better.... besides this prob, we seem to be facing a touch patch in our relationship.... 
So what ya gonna do now...? Break up with your bf or make things worse for no obvious reasons...? -
We've "made up" already...Originally posted by Devil1976:~Sigh...~ Don't you have any confidence for your bf at all...?
So what ya gonna do now...? Break up with your bf or make things worse for no obvious reasons...?
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save the sarcasm for another time -
hey.. that's great.. u should be happy about it
hope both of you can remain happy as a couple.. cheers!Originally posted by *evanesence*:We've "made up" already...
Oh yeah &
save the sarcasm for another time -
Hmmm....all the best to you then.Originally posted by *evanesence*:We've "made up" already...
Oh yeah &
save the sarcasm for another time
If you're not gonna change your mindset....it'll come and haunt you... -
I should have more self-confidence...
And I shouldnt be putting myself down all the time..
I know all these... and it feels so good when u feel good abt urself.. -
Originally posted by *evanesence*:I should have more self-confidence...
And I shouldnt be putting myself down all the time..
I know all these... and it feels so good when u feel good abt urself.. 
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yeah!Originally posted by *evanesence*:I should have more self-confidence...
And I shouldnt be putting myself down all the time..
I know all these... and it feels so good when u feel good abt urself.. 
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just be urself n be happi...it's all that matters...