juz a thot of myself... --> no gf
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Hi all,
I'm turning 25 this year and still dun hav even 1 gf b4... i tell my frens but no 1 blieve me at all... they all say i bluffing...
recently, juz know a guy (i'm not gay lar).. he ask me got gf or not and i say no... he dun blieve also... all my frens say my looks okay mah and shld hav 1 b4 but dun know y also... got chase after gals b4 but they dun wan me... 1 of them say i no security, 1 say i not her type and...blah blah..
Y har? i juz cant get myself a simple (no need chio or pretty) and understanding gf har?...
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..i share your thoughts... really doesn't feel good one bit
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until 2 1/2 years ago, i never had a gf... never wanted one too.. have to say my 1st and i was over 30...
friends never found it strange that i never had a gf.. i guess i was a strange one... just as happy being by himself as with close friends...
probably you have not found her because she's also not found you... not yet... sometimes these things are fated.. and it's not time yet?
myself, i was over 30! and when i fell, it was hard and forever...
take heart... if there's someone out there for you, you'll find her.. nevermind what others say.. if you give in to pressure or because you want to "belong" or conform, it's not fair to yourself and your partner... -
ya... i understand... i juz saw ur thread posting in a gal who dun hack care u rite...
well, sad to say, i did experience this b4 also, dunno y she not chio, pretty... yet so 'dao'..
I learnt to know how to give up, relax, and let it go... man, u can do it... i blieve u can!!!
NO GF is really bored smetimes... i AGREE.. but liking sme1 who doesnt even bother abt u is really toughZ....SO let it GO...
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ermm... BO?
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sighz... dunno leh... now i juz graduated and unable to find job in this market... nevermind, i know its tough to find job but i kept on trying and trying... and blieve i can find my job smeday.. but as for gf, i dun know also... how??? my social circle is small and not much frens and if hav, they already attached liao... sighz...
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??? dun understand...Originally posted by star princess:ermm... BO?
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y so urgnet find gf? aiyo....everyting is fated 1..mayb ur fated 1 haven appear..canot rush 1..the more u find the more u canot find..the more u dn find ..the more u can find....u noe wat i tokin?? guys no gf nvm..
.mus b Siao Sha........cool ............n steady...lor..
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ya ya... i already veli "cool" liao.. "cool" everynite telling myself to buck up and go orchard rd and approach gals... mayb wear a tshirt telling ppl i got no gf can approach me...Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:y so urgnet find gf? aiyo....everyting is fated 1..mayb ur fated 1 haven appear..canot rush 1..the more u find the more u canot find..the more u dn find ..the more u can find....u noe wat i tokin?? guys no gf nvm..
.mus b Siao Sha........cool ............n steady...lor.. -
Originally posted by smurfer:
ya... i understand... i juz saw ur thread posting in a gal who dun hack care u rite...
well, sad to say, i did experience this b4 also, dunno y she not chio, pretty... yet so 'dao'..
....i need to tell u one ting...tat is....a girl nt chio doest mean she canot reject guys....and she is not dao.....she reject better than Playing with tat guy rite..or some even cheat money worst still....anyway i tink all these aso mus see feelings leh..if the girl no feelings on u.....wat u did aso no use 1...dn tell me ugly girls mus accept all guys who chase after them and oni chio girls can REJECT?....chio TaI sai meh...........dn waste time better...tink everyone is given a choice ...decision final is theirs...
I learnt to know how to give up, relax, and let it go... man, u can do it... i blieve u can!!!
yah u know then gd lor....some guys reach certain age no gf....v desperate 1.....hope u haven reach tat stage yet..
NO GF is really bored smetimes... i AGREE.. but liking sme1 who doesnt even bother abt u is really toughZ....SO let it GO...
WOw lau...y no gf bored? u stil gt ur family mah....in life so many tings to do....nt oni bgRelationshi[p... tink on the bright side............go do volunteer woork...!.... liking someone who doesnt bother abt u? mayb can be frens lor...dn be super glue lidat ....girls will b frighten off....i tink admire is a fun ting to do! hahaa cos u will nv gt rejected..... -
[quote]Originally posted by smurfer:
ya ya... i already veli "cool" liao.. "cool" everynite telling myself to buck up and go orchard rd and approach gals... mayb wear a tshirt telling ppl i got no gf can approach me... [/quote]
cool ?? haha then go join some social activities...like volunteer work..or go join community centre ..there gt many activite..s..or join their courses there...go learn dancing or watever....u can get toknow more ppl... -
been trying to join also.. but no job at the moments so no $$ also... how to join exp activities... SG all wan $$....
can i know gers in here? -
be more proactive and maybe improve ur image??
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Well Smurfer,Originally posted by smurfer:been trying to join also.. but no job at the moments so no $$ also... how to join exp activities... SG all wan $$....
can i know gers in here?
Having a gf does not mean anything.... Would u rather fall in love wif a WRONG gal so deeply, den realize that she's not THE RIGHT ONE afterall...??
Being a gal myself, I'd not. If given a choice, I'd choose to know the guy better, before making him my bf. This is from past experiences.
I won't deny that it is lonely not having a bf, but it still beats falling out of love and losing e direction of life....
/pats smurfer on e back..
ur turn will come. Be patient, and dun 'fall' in love for e wrong reasons...
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thnkz c-100... but really, bored at times make me unhappy and depressed...Originally posted by C-100:Well Smurfer,
Having a gf does not mean anything.... Would u rather fall in love wif a WRONG gal so deeply, den realize that she's not THE RIGHT ONE afterall...??
Being a gal myself, I'd not. If given a choice, I'd choose to know the guy better, before making him my bf. This is from past experiences.
I won't deny that it is lonely not having a bf, but it still beats falling out of love and losing e direction of life....
/pats smurfer on e back..
ur turn will come. Be patient, and dun 'fall' in love for e wrong reasons... -
better be the owner of the lonely heart than owner of a broken heart...Originally posted by smurfer:Hi all,
I'm turning 25 this year and still dun hav even 1 gf b4... i tell my frens but no 1 blieve me at all... they all say i bluffing...
recently, juz know a guy (i'm not gay lar).. he ask me got gf or not and i say no... he dun blieve also... all my frens say my looks okay mah and shld hav 1 b4 but dun know y also... got chase after gals b4 but they dun wan me... 1 of them say i no security, 1 say i not her type and...blah blah..
Y har? i juz cant get myself a simple (no need chio or pretty) and understanding gf har?... 
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try taking some hobbies..?Originally posted by smurfer:thnkz c-100... but really, bored at times make me unhappy and depressed... -
agreed!Originally posted by windjammer:better be the owner of the lonely heart than owner of a broken heart... 
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Your karmic relationship and fate isn't there yet. Like what bear has said in his post - you also may have to wait for your own turn.Originally posted by smurfer:Hi all,
I'm turning 25 this year and still dun hav even 1 gf b4... i tell my frens but no 1 blieve me at all... they all say i bluffing...
recently, juz know a guy (i'm not gay lar).. he ask me got gf or not and i say no... he dun blieve also... all my frens say my looks okay mah and shld hav 1 b4 but dun know y also... got chase after gals b4 but they dun wan me... 1 of them say i no security, 1 say i not her type and...blah blah..
Y har? i juz cant get myself a simple (no need chio or pretty) and understanding gf har?... 
HOWEVER, everything revolves around Free Will. If you don't attempt, you will never succeed. I am not saying that you should go down the street and approach every girl - let me tell you: That never works and you will never find a gf in this way.
So what must you do?
First and foremost: enlarge social circle. When you meet more people, both guys and girls, you will see and understand different kind of characteristic that you can compare, fancy or dislike. Try to understand what you wish to find in a girl, rather than zero requirements. When I say understand about yourself and your requirements - I mean REAL understanding. CloUdiSm Quote: Probably all these may take place after your first gf has passed your life.
Btw: Don't have gf before don't have gf lar. What's the big deal about it. Please lor, no gf doesn't mean that you are undesirable in certain ways. Come for outing bah and get to know more people. Fate and cupid will eventually find you.
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being bored is not a good reason to go find a girl and try to make her yours...
respect your own feelings and emotions more... and others' too..
if it does not work out, it's going to hurt, sadden and depress you hell of a lot more than what you're feeling now... trust me.. i know...
and your reasons to find that someone, say that it'll not work...Originally posted by smurfer:thnkz c-100... but really, bored at times make me unhappy and depressed... -
u not attached also???Originally posted by C-100:agreed! -
ya...Originally posted by windjammer:u not attached also??? -
oh come on! im as old as u r, and like u i never had a gf b4. i think its alrite and well... all my frens noe this. and o cos my looks r average altho im abit on the skinny side.Originally posted by smurfer:Hi all,
I'm turning 25 this year and still dun hav even 1 gf b4... i tell my frens but no 1 blieve me at all... they all say i bluffing...
recently, juz know a guy (i'm not gay lar).. he ask me got gf or not and i say no... he dun blieve also... all my frens say my looks okay mah and shld hav 1 b4 but dun know y also... got chase after gals b4 but they dun wan me... 1 of them say i no security, 1 say i not her type and...blah blah..
Y har? i juz cant get myself a simple (no need chio or pretty) and understanding gf har?...
so wats there to worry! we r still young! (physically at least) and so there's still a long way to go and many chances. i always believe such things canot force one. be patient. the person u r looking 4 will prob appear sooner than u thot! den at tt time u wil be lamenting y u r not single!
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wat the hell!!..u r only 25yo..the world is at ur feet...u should do spend more time upgrading urself, build a career etc...last thing in ur mind is to get a gf!!!....Originally posted by smurfer:Hi all,
I'm turning 25 this year and still dun hav even 1 gf b4... i tell my frens but no 1 blieve me at all... they all say i bluffing...
recently, juz know a guy (i'm not gay lar).. he ask me got gf or not and i say no... he dun blieve also... all my frens say my looks okay mah and shld hav 1 b4 but dun know y also... got chase after gals b4 but they dun wan me... 1 of them say i no security, 1 say i not her type and...blah blah..
Y har? i juz cant get myself a simple (no need chio or pretty) and understanding gf har?...
when u turn 30yo, u have a good career etc, u got plenty of gals to choose... -
22 coming 25. Will I be like smurfer??!?!?!