Are you tired?

• Devil1976

  9 Jun 03, 12:59

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  my thoughts...
  
  i think we have to put ourselves in their shoes.. they are troubled and don't know who to seek for help.. in AA you can remain anonymous and still able to hear opinions so many ppl around.. most importantly, we you are emotionally troubled, you wouldn't be bothered to read down the list of problems to see if your problems are repeated.. u simple start a new thread hoping for ppl to read and share their views..
  
  helping ppl solving the problems should be a joy.. it doesn't matter if they accept your 'solution'.. ppl just want options to choose.. options to know wat they can do to help alleviate their problems.. and sometimes they post because they just need to let it out and not keep it in their heart, so they are not necessarily seeking a solution.. ultimately, it's their life and they must make their own decisions..
  
  so, just share when u feel convicted to share.. it's also your choice to just ignore and walk on

  
• Devil1976

  9 Jun 03, 13:01

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  no actually i'm not tired of the "repeated" topics. each person's problem is unique, but could seem very simlar to the others. and one big difference in ALL problems, is that it affects them personally. to us giving advice it's the "same", to them, it's the total opposite. their problems usually seem the world to them, and that makes it different from the rest of the "same" problems. the key here is that to us it's the same, to them it's definitely not. even IF two pple have the EXACT same circumstance, it's still not the same by virtue of the fact that they are two seperate pple.
  

  BINGO...