hmm i have a diff view to the story actually could it be cliff himself find it kinda nto worth it when he alwasy keep his chastity for the "one" the ger he realli love
maybe to solve the prob bout this as long as he dun lose his to her maybe te prob is solve
everyones is somehow selfish and therefore maybe he wans her chastity for imself like a trade for his
think he juz felt tat its very lugi to give it to the ger while the ger has already given hers to some other ppl loh
so i believe that once he can lose his to any ger maybe the best is to some gr he has no feelings wif then i believe their relatiosnhip will be healthy and well again
iloveprettygirls
cliff u're a freakin POS.
ok harsh words but do consider this dude
that's her past
the images in ur brain are what one would call self inflicted torment. you don't have to let those images bother you. problems are rife in any relationship and mental images are lousy excuses for u to give up something that may be great.
the fact is that she's lost it to someone else. that was foolishness on her part. but on the other hand, right now, its about the present, about u two. chastity is not about the physical attribute of having unbroken skin. it is about the mind. u need not be a virgin to be chaste.
if u want, u can think about what i went thru instead. ur problem is stupid. for me, i had to live with the knowledge that she went behind my back, threw the trust i had for her out of the window and gave herself to someone else. while we were still together. and i was kept in the dark till i found out from someone else.
don't u think u're not giving yourself a chance? the human mind has a lot of imaginative power. are you gonna give up everything good once a 'mental image' of something unpleasant comes up?
what if nx time u get a mental image of ur boss while u're sleeping? u get a nightmare and u're gonna quit the next day issit?
Starmaster85
Originally posted by AzRaeL: the story on serves to illustrate that Cliff is an ass[b]hole the problem here is with Cliff, not Linda[/b]
i strongly agree , cliff u are a selfish minded bastard
Jaws
its not becos of the virgin i think........ it is the image that had cast in the mind of the guys dat the girl had sex wif her ex... body being touched, breast being fondled, hole being dig by fingers, suck small di di, love bites, masturbation done, di di rub nipples.... all these images will comes to the guys mind mah.....