The one we love always appear flawless & perfect.Originally posted by ^cereal^:Is it true that once you have a past, you won't be able to move on with life, and you have no right in seeking for the happiness your heart desires so coz others will look at you with the kinda eyes that you're no longer perfect?
I feel so, becoz I have a past of my own and I'm not given a second chance. Someone who has likings for me and me too for him, told me he's not able to accept my past. I always thought kindness begets kindness, so is sincerity. Am I wrong to have been honest and frank, I just want him to know everything about me before we talk about any future down the road. Guessed that's not the case afterall. After trying out for a few days, he told me he it's not possible coz he cannot forget my past and he asked me if I hated him and if we can remain as friends. How can I hate him? I ain't got the rights to hate him for making this decisionHe has his right to seek for the ideal relationship with someone perfect in his heart, too bad I'm not the one.
Is this known as 'Perfect guy looking for his perfect gal'? He doesn't have a past, at least to an extent he is perfect in my eyes.
Probably this is how to whole world revolves? Someone with a blemish with remain as imperfection and will only be considered second best?![]()
Accepting a person past is a ultimate hurdle between personal preception and love - he will eventually come and learn about this cosmic lesson and the value of love isn't determine by things that HE doesn't have control over.Originally posted by ^cereal^:Is it true that once you have a past, you won't be able to move on with life, and you have no right in seeking for the happiness your heart desires so coz others will look at you with the kinda eyes that you're no longer perfect?
I feel so, becoz I have a past of my own and I'm not given a second chance. Someone who has likings for me and me too for him, told me he's not able to accept my past. I always thought kindness begets kindness, so is sincerity. Am I wrong to have been honest and frank, I just want him to know everything about me before we talk about any future down the road. Guessed that's not the case afterall. After trying out for a few days, he told me he it's not possible coz he cannot forget my past and he asked me if I hated him and if we can remain as friends. How can I hate him? I ain't got the rights to hate him for making this decisionHe has his right to seek for the ideal relationship with someone perfect in his heart, too bad I'm not the one.
Is this known as 'Perfect guy looking for his perfect gal'? He doesn't have a past, at least to an extent he is perfect in my eyes.
Probably this is how to whole world revolves? Someone with a blemish with remain as imperfection and will only be considered second best?![]()
Originally posted by TZR:
To all the young girls out there, if you don wanna regret in your future, don do stupid things now. U might just regret it one day...
Anyway, cereal, if he doesnt accept you then be it, forcing to be together oso no happiness.
Some people will mind past, coz they scared one day history will happen to him too.
Some people don't mind, coz what matters to them is now and future.
Cheers...[/b]
Nobody is really 'perfect' in this world.... Everyone has a past... It's just a matter of how you deal with it, and how others see it...?Originally posted by ^cereal^:Is it true that once you have a past, you won't be able to move on with life, and you have no right in seeking for the happiness your heart desires so coz others will look at you with the kinda eyes that you're no longer perfect?
I feel so, becoz I have a past of my own and I'm not given a second chance. Someone who has likings for me and me too for him, told me he's not able to accept my past. I always thought kindness begets kindness, so is sincerity. Am I wrong to have been honest and frank, I just want him to know everything about me before we talk about any future down the road. Guessed that's not the case afterall. After trying out for a few days, he told me he it's not possible coz he cannot forget my past and he asked me if I hated him and if we can remain as friends. How can I hate him? I ain't got the rights to hate him for making this decisionHe has his right to seek for the ideal relationship with someone perfect in his heart, too bad I'm not the one.
Is this known as 'Perfect guy looking for his perfect gal'? He doesn't have a past, at least to an extent he is perfect in my eyes.
Probably this is how to whole world revolves? Someone with a blemish with remain as imperfection and will only be considered second best?![]()
Sounds to me U told him U no virgin? (pardon my rudeness & blunt...) & he some wat values "virginity" alot?Originally posted by ^cereal^:Is it true that once you have a past, you won't be able to move on with life, and you have no right in seeking for the happiness your heart desires so coz others will look at you with the kinda eyes that you're no longer perfect?
I feel so, becoz I have a past of my own and I'm not given a second chance. Someone who has likings for me and me too for him, told me he's not able to accept my past. I always thought kindness begets kindness, so is sincerity. Am I wrong to have been honest and frank, I just want him to know everything about me before we talk about any future down the road. Guessed that's not the case afterall. After trying out for a few days, he told me he it's not possible coz he cannot forget my past and he asked me if I hated him and if we can remain as friends. How can I hate him? I ain't got the rights to hate him for making this decisionHe has his right to seek for the ideal relationship with someone perfect in his heart, too bad I'm not the one.
Is this known as 'Perfect guy looking for his perfect gal'? He doesn't have a past, at least to an extent he is perfect in my eyes.
Probably this is how to whole world revolves? Someone with a blemish with remain as imperfection and will only be considered second best?![]()
Mapplezz dun wan U...?Originally posted by BufPuf:
y lehOriginally posted by loneryu00:Mapplezz dun wan U...?
Siao!!!
Got... dis maths prob my brother still hard to find answer... "Wats 58 * 58 / 58?Originally posted by BufPuf:y leh
u got a problem with that?
Well...its time u lead a life of your own and decide on your own.Originally posted by ^cereal^:I didnt force anything on him. Since day one, he's been the one deciding everything. He decided that he wanted us to be together, then he also decided that he cannot forget abt my past. He then also decided for us to remain as friends.
How do you judge if something which has already been done as being stupid? In a r/s, nothing is considered ever stupid. Maybe you're one of those ppl who considered giving of oneself to the one whom you truly loved then with promises of eternity as being 'stupid', but not for my case. Who will ever know that the guys after deflowering the gals will leave them in search for greener pastures? Noone can tell what holds in the future. If the girls are to be called 'stupid' what are the guys? Bastards? *shrugz*
No offence intended. Thks for your reply anyway.
cheerz.
no 1 is perfect.. everyone has a past & it tru all tis past make us more mature & grown up.. more responsible...Originally posted by ^cereal^:Is it true that once you have a past, you won't be able to move on with life, and you have no right in seeking for the happiness your heart desires so coz others will look at you with the kinda eyes that you're no longer perfect?
I feel so, becoz I have a past of my own and I'm not given a second chance. Someone who has likings for me and me too for him, told me he's not able to accept my past. I always thought kindness begets kindness, so is sincerity. Am I wrong to have been honest and frank, I just want him to know everything about me before we talk about any future down the road. Guessed that's not the case afterall. After trying out for a few days, he told me he it's not possible coz he cannot forget my past and he asked me if I hated him and if we can remain as friends. How can I hate him? I ain't got the rights to hate him for making this decisionHe has his right to seek for the ideal relationship with someone perfect in his heart, too bad I'm not the one.
Is this known as 'Perfect guy looking for his perfect gal'? He doesn't have a past, at least to an extent he is perfect in my eyes.
Probably this is how to whole world revolves? Someone with a blemish with remain as imperfection and will only be considered second best?![]()
Originally posted by Yunhaier:yoz ah BENG! me totally with u!
Accepting a person past is a ultimate hurdle between personal preception and love - he will eventually come and learn about this cosmic lesson and the value of love isn't determine by things that HE doesn't have control over.
A person's past, is in the past. Absolutely nothing to do with this guy of yours. In my own personal opinon, never reveal your past to your bf/gf. Understand why? Because its NOT their right to know about it - rather, its a privileges. Telling them about your PAST will not bring benefits at all - the best you could bring is neutral effect (Know, know lor, like that lor, kind of thing), others: it actually de-valued your relationship.
Being FRANK and keeping your own private space is totally [b]DIFFERENT ISSUES. This ain't lying, neither deceiving - its protecting your relationship.
There are bound to be people who will appreciate you for who you are regardless of your sad past - these are the people who LOOK further than what your shallow guy orginally saw - he only saw the sketch - these people sees the actual drawing and virbrant colours.
Let me guess one trait about this guy:This is probably his early relationship. (Being through not much relationships in his life)
^cereal^ my words to you is that - you certainly could move on and seek for your own happiness, the true guy that looks not at the surface, but at the heart. This shouldn't discourage you - it should serve as a motivation to improve yourself - to show to that guy that he made such mistake in letting you go. Seriously speaking, even one day if he were to wake up and wants to accept you back - my stand is forget it man - who knows, when he is going through this mental crisis again and dump you using such excuses again? Past is something you can't change - but certainly you ain't condemn forever if you improve.Seek for appreciation, the love for who you are and what you are.
Cheers [/b]