Someone with a past...
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Yesh ah LIAN? So suprising to see you agreeing with me eh?Originally posted by Si|verGer:yoz ah BENG! me totally with u!
well said!! 
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I feel that if someone loves u he should accept u for who u are and not mind ur past. If he does tt, means he dun love u.Originally posted by ^cereal^:Is it true that once you have a past, you won't be able to move on with life, and you have no right in seeking for the happiness your heart desires so coz others will look at you with the kinda eyes that you're no longer perfect?
I feel so, becoz I have a past of my own and I'm not given a second chance. Someone who has likings for me and me too for him, told me he's not able to accept my past. I always thought kindness begets kindness, so is sincerity. Am I wrong to have been honest and frank, I just want him to know everything about me before we talk about any future down the road. Guessed that's not the case afterall. After trying out for a few days, he told me he it's not possible coz he cannot forget my past and he asked me if I hated him and if we can remain as friends. How can I hate him? I ain't got the rights to hate him for making this decision
He has his right to seek for the ideal relationship with someone perfect in his heart, too bad I'm not the one.
Is this known as 'Perfect guy looking for his perfect gal'? He doesn't have a past, at least to an extent he is perfect in my eyes.
Probably this is how to whole world revolves? Someone with a blemish with remain as imperfection and will only be considered second best?
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I guess this is somewhat related to us constantly trying to meet the expectations of others...and in turn, we are also hoping that others meet ours too...
Just be yourself and we are pretty sure you will find someone who appreciates u just as u are..past,present and future..
Its just too damn tiring to try keep up with the expectations of others.. -
I'm sorry that such a thing happened. I believe this special someone is out there. I've had a Horrible past. I told my bf about it and he accepted me for who I am. And whatever's in the past, it's long gone. We've been together for almost a year now, and still going very strong, and he's even had a future planned for us.Originally posted by ^cereal^:Is it true that once you have a past, you won't be able to move on with life, and you have no right in seeking for the happiness your heart desires so coz others will look at you with the kinda eyes that you're no longer perfect?
Is this known as 'Perfect guy looking for his perfect gal'? He doesn't have a past, at least to an extent he is perfect in my eyes.
Probably this is how to whole world revolves? Someone with a blemish with remain as imperfection and will only be considered second best?
He's out there, my dear. You'll find him someday. Someone who will accept you for who you are, and someone who's going to love you for you.
Good luck