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orh....................Originally posted by the Bear:been there
done that -
You know what
good for you!
u shld just tell her straight abt ur thinking
she may appericate it too -
hey taufiq ...... u goin to NS soon????? u in danger man ....... ur gf might b lookin 4 other guys to satisfiy her when u gone ...... if u really love her ...... u got to give in to her ....... or else give her to me hahahaha !!!! but my advice is go find out where ur relationship is goin to ..........
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Problem, problem, problem - when sexuality conflict with religious and personal believes.Originally posted by Taufiq:I got a weird problem..i'm a guy but how do i refuse sex? My gf kept dropping hints to make love such as discussing about condoms and such..but i dun wish to break my celibacy until i get married...
My idea of a solution was thinking to break away from the topic and instead talking about something else..She's gorgeous and she is kind hearted and i never wanna leave her and confident of marrying her but the idea of her turning into a nympho somehow begins to change my impression of her a little bit by little bit nonetheless...
so how?
I think this kinda tricky here - but I feel that if sex cannot be achieve, then anything before/lesser than it, could be ok - the range goes from light to heavy petting. And you would probably have to communicate your kind of thoughts and believe to her - which you had already did I suppose, mentioned in your other post.
This is what I could say if I am in your shoes: 'Before I could protect you from others, I have to protect you from myself.'
Btw: Is your name Ian?
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Originally posted by Taufiq:I got a weird problem..i'm a guy but how do i refuse sex? My gf kept dropping hints to make love such as discussing about condoms and such..but i dun wish to break my celibacy until i get married...
My idea of a solution was thinking to break away from the topic and instead talking about something else..She's gorgeous and she is kind hearted and i never wanna leave her and confident of marrying her but the idea of her turning into a nympho somehow begins to change my impression of her a little bit by little bit nonetheless...
so how? 
re-assure her how much you love her and respect her body and how seriously you take your marriage and committed to its success. -
Originally posted by AhnJunHwan:hey taufiq ...... u goin to NS soon????? u in danger man ....... ur gf might b lookin 4 other guys to satisfiy her when u gone ...... if u really love her ...... u got to give in to her ....... or else give her to me hahahaha !!!! but my advice is go find out where ur relationship is goin to ..........
geeez... what kinda advice is this? -
Not to shake your faith... Sometimes what ya wish may not be what ya get... Your gf's constant probing means something... Something which probably shouldn't be neglected or ignored...Originally posted by Taufiq:If this thing pursues, i hope i dun see the need to consult a sex doctor
But the love i have for her is too great for me to raise a finger or my voice at her. I just have to make her compromise with me and hopefully, things will be a-ok
It's NICE to know that all else are ALMOST PERFECT between you and her... But you shouldn't let that get too deep into your head... Sometimes that one simple thing can just fail it all..? Mentioned that you've never really quarrelled with your gf...? Well... If the 'test' is here would the both of you be ready to take it..? Even if you managed to just score a 'pass' for it, there's a chance that pieces of the 'perfect world' be slowly taken apart... Bit by bits...
Your religion... Your belief...? Just some questions? Which you think is more important to you and which is more like a part of reality...? Not to hint anything at all here... But religion is STRONG, it is usually not easily destroyed... And it usually can be recovered with adequate strength and faith in time... But the girl... Afterall, she's just a girl...? You know what I mean...?
All in all, if you don't wanna have sex with her, then ya better CONVINCED her that your point is right... And constantly monitor her state... And of course, you might be taking some risk...? But oh well... What's life without risk anyway...? -
introduce her to the guys here, they'll be most happy to have sex with her on your behalf.
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Originally posted by AzRaeL:introduce her to the guys here, they'll be most happy to have sex with her on your behalf.
Shuddup -
explain it to her
if the love she has for u is great enuff to wait
then u have choosen a great gal
but if she thinks sex is more impt then how u feel abt it
then its time to reconsider the relationship -
She asked again last nite
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Try to explain things to her in your context... If it's hard to refuse her totally, try to settle for petting or something else instead?Originally posted by Taufiq:She asked again last nite -
she always wanted that dress that will cost me $250Originally posted by Devil1976:Try to explain things to her in your context... If it's hard to refuse her totally, try to settle for petting or something else instead? -
huh????Originally posted by Taufiq:she always wanted that dress that will cost me $250 
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Originally posted by Taufiq:she always wanted that dress that will cost me $250
That you would have to decide for yourself liao? Afterall, it's your money...?