Grandma in hospital.........
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Receive a call from my mama yesterday, that grandma is is hospital.. heard that her condition was quite critical... I dunno how I should react upon listening to this news.....
Ever heard from my daddy that my grandma wasn't good to him, even after my mummy and daddy married. Although Mummy and Daddy tried very hard to please her but she is kinda biased towards the other kids...
When I was young, I was kinda close to my grandma. She's a buddhist. She would go to temple to pray and chant and I too would go with her.... and everything was fine. Maybe becos I'm young, and I am not able to "see" anything from the adults.
Until when I grew up older, I began to find out that the relatives of my daddy's side wasn't that good at all.... they often despised us cos we were not of so wealthy~~ but when they are in need for help, my parents would help them...
I can remember my daddy help my uncle to pay debts from loan sharks, my house was sprayed with paint, my auntie need $$ my parents also borrowed her without a single word/ hesistation, my 1st uncle had a mistress, my parents also helped him...even we were poor and every penny that my parents saved are hard earned $$ In the end?????? We were often regard as the lowest..
They would often compared their kids results with us..(my brother and I). I admit my results may not be able to go up to those top schools., But I did tried my best..
Now grandma is in critical condition, seems like no one is willing to help... and started to push their responsibility away to us again... I haven;t been toking to grandma since sec sch.. and my feelings towards her is not that strong anymore... after many things she have done with my aunties and uncles to my parents... So i dunno how I should react upon hearing this..... Somehow I feel that she is very pitiful.... cos my aunties dun seems to want to care about her at all...
my uncles? i have 3 uncles, 1 busy with 2 mistress, 1 everyday mixed with uncle beng and seng.... one has only $$ in his mind.... I just hope grandma will be fine...... -
poor grandma...
i hope she'll be alright -
The greater man is one who shows love to an enemy. Furthermore, grandma isnt an enemy.
Isnt this the best time to show your grandma that you all genuinely care for her and that even wealth cant buy that kind of love.
Remind your parents and even urself to treasure ur grandma. She wun be there forever. -
will pray for ur grandma
dun worry ok
maybe visit her at e hospital later? -
dunno... doc say her chance of survivial will be low...Originally posted by skinnybeanie:poor grandma...
i hope she'll be alright
She hurt her spine somehow and we still dunno if she should go for operatinon... if she goes for it... there will only be 10 percent or more.. but if she dun go, she might die if she was to fall down again.... -
Go see your Grandma. She will appreciate it.
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We treasure her a lot... but she just dun seems to care.... she always thinks that my aunties and uncle are the best....Originally posted by gasband:The greater man is one who shows love to an enemy. Furthermore, grandma isnt an enemy.
Isnt this the best time to show your grandma that you all genuinely care for her and that even wealth cant buy that kind of love.
Remind your parents and even urself to treasure ur grandma. She wun be there forever.
We may look colder compared from the past... but we are not heartless.. just that we are just letting things take nature course... -
hi little her, long time no see u here...
she's ur grandma afterall.... -
thank u... nah she outpatient.. have to wait parent's callOriginally posted by oceanic:will pray for ur grandma dun worry ok
maybe visit her at e hospital later? -
hello........Originally posted by Inzaghi:hi little her, long time no see u here...
she's ur grandma afterall....
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ya now she's facing the reality of death, i think by showing her care and concern despite the way she treats u all will be the best way to show your love for her. I think for family, we love them not because of how they treat us. We love them inspite of how they treat us. God blessOriginally posted by IamAngeline:We treasure her a lot... but she just dun seems to care.... she always thinks that my aunties and uncle are the best....
We may look colder compared from the past... but we are not heartless.. just that we are just letting things take nature course... -
comeon, give me aOriginally posted by IamAngeline:hello........ 
...dun like see u.. -
ya... and the fact is that we are not hating her..... we are trying out best to console her..... how would we be so heartless to leave her alone at this moment????Originally posted by gasband:ya now she's facing the reality of death, i think by showing her care and concern despite the way she treats u all will be the best way to show your love for her. I think for family, we love them not because of how they treat us. We love them inspite of how they treat us. God bless -
hmmm dunno lah cannot do it now at the moment... sorry........Originally posted by Inzaghi:comeon, give me a ...dun like see u.. -
smile... dun worry too much...she will be alrite.
Sometimes, we have to let go when we have to... let sorrow go, and let happiness returns...
Pray for u -
thank u sgboy2004..Originally posted by sgboy2004:smile... dun worry too much...she will be alrite.
Sometimes, we have to let go when we have to... let sorrow go, and let happiness returns...
Pray for u -
ok lar...i sayang u ah....hope everything would be fine soon..Originally posted by IamAngeline:hmmm dunno lah cannot do it now at the moment... sorry........ -
thank u.......Originally posted by Inzaghi:ok lar...i sayang u ah....hope everything would be fine soon.. -
love.. does not matter if your granny does not know... that's unconditional love.. true love...
i'll remember her in my nightly prayers... i pray she'll be well..
take care yah? -
we have a similar family background.... my dad was n still is poor when compared to my other relatives.... my granny used to take extra care of us because of that .... pple tend to look down on u when u r poor.... that's y i am working to support myself thru school.... i have to prove them wrong.My granny passed away when i was 12...... or was it 11.... but point is i still miss her cos she was prehaps the nicest person in e world.... at least to me.... she taught me how to live my live..... i miss her even to this day.... so angeline.... go n see her at least one last time.... touch wood....i hope she will recover but my biggest regret of my live so far was not being there when my granny died.... dun make e same mistake..... i will be praying for ur granny....Originally posted by IamAngeline:Receive a call from my mama yesterday, that grandma is is hospital.. heard that her condition was quite critical... I dunno how I should react upon listening to this news.....
Ever heard from my daddy that my grandma wasn't good to him, even after my mummy and daddy married. Although Mummy and Daddy tried very hard to please her but she is kinda biased towards the other kids...
When I was young, I was kinda close to my grandma. She's a buddhist. She would go to temple to pray and chant and I too would go with her.... and everything was fine. Maybe becos I'm young, and I am not able to "see" anything from the adults.
Until when I grew up older, I began to find out that the relatives of my daddy's side wasn't that good at all.... they often despised us cos we were not of so wealthy~~ but when they are in need for help, my parents would help them...
I can remember my daddy help my uncle to pay debts from loan sharks, my house was sprayed with paint, my auntie need $$ my parents also borrowed her without a single word/ hesistation, my 1st uncle had a mistress, my parents also helped him...even we were poor and every penny that my parents saved are hard earned $$ In the end?????? We were often regard as the lowest.. They would often compared their kids results with us..(my brother and I). I admit my results may not be able to go up to those top schools., But I did tried my best..
Now grandma is in critical condition, seems like no one is willing to help... and started to push their responsibility away to us again... I haven;t been toking to grandma since sec sch.. and my feelings towards her is not that strong anymore... after many things she have done with my aunties and uncles to my parents... So i dunno how I should react upon hearing this..... Somehow I feel that she is very pitiful.... cos my aunties dun seems to want to care about her at all...
my uncles? i have 3 uncles, 1 busy with 2 mistress, 1 everyday mixed with uncle beng and seng.... one has only $$ in his mind.... I just hope grandma will be fine...... -
yesh thank u.......Originally posted by the Bear:love.. does not matter if your granny does not know... that's unconditional love.. true love...
i'll remember her in my nightly prayers... i pray she'll be well..
take care yah? -
thanks....Originally posted by harryryan:we have a similar family background.... my dad was n still is poor when compared to my other relatives.... my granny used to take extra care of us because of that .... pple tend to look down on u when u r poor.... that's y i am working to support myself thru school.... i have to prove them wrong.My granny passed away when i was 12...... or was it 11.... but point is i still miss her cos she was prehaps the nicest person in e world.... at least to me.... she taught me how to live my live..... i miss her even to this day.... so angeline.... go n see her at least one last time.... touch wood....i hope she will recover but my biggest regret of my live so far was not being there when my granny died.... dun make e same mistake..... i will be praying for ur granny....
I will go and see her... but I still have to wait for my parents call...
the closest to me is my grandpa and he died when I was 11.....
Even the day of his funeral that lasted for days... I was sleeping beside his coffin.... I nkow the pain of losing someone beloved...
thanks anyway -
sigh... i can only offer a prayer for her..Originally posted by IamAngeline:dunno... doc say her chance of survivial will be low...
She hurt her spine somehow and we still dunno if she should go for operatinon... if she goes for it... there will only be 10 percent or more.. but if she dun go, she might die if she was to fall down again....
Do try to spend more time with her, esp since her children are doing their bit. Do it for both you and your grandma's sake. If she goes, you wouldn't want her to go sadly and neither would you wanna regret not having shown her more love... Forget about her past mistakes. Who dun make mistakes? -
......Originally posted by harryryan:we have a similar family background.... my dad was n still is poor when compared to my other relatives.... my granny used to take extra care of us because of that .... pple tend to look down on u when u r poor.... that's y i am working to support myself thru school.... i have to prove them wrong.My granny passed away when i was 12...... or was it 11.... but point is i still miss her cos she was prehaps the nicest person in e world.... at least to me.... she taught me how to live my live..... i miss her even to this day.... so angeline.... go n see her at least one last time.... touch wood....i hope she will recover but my biggest regret of my live so far was not being there when my granny died.... dun make e same mistake..... i will be praying for ur granny....
People come, people go... Such is the natural way of life.... -
Do not totally blame your grandma... Though I do not know what kind of a person she is, humans are sometimes 'blinded' partially...Originally posted by IamAngeline:dunno... doc say her chance of survivial will be low...
She hurt her spine somehow and we still dunno if she should go for operatinon... if she goes for it... there will only be 10 percent or more.. but if she dun go, she might die if she was to fall down again....
Wealth would not be able to buy everything... Chained to a life of pain, sometimes death can be a form of relief....
Life ends anyway.... But as that day draws near... You can FREE her from the form of misery.... She's not young anymore... She knows what to expect in life... It's probably what she don't see which ties her down.... Speak time with her, and speaks well...?
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