sorree angeline, i am just replying to the first post, becos i'm on modem and can't wait for the page to load ahhaa, so if there's any updates or repeated things here do forgive me.
I do not believe that "blood is thicker than water". yeap i said it. it USUALLY happens becos of the love and care given by family from a tender age, and family inevitably becomes a big part of us thru our lives, but no matter WHO u are, if u screw me, u are my enemy, doesn't matter wat surname u use.
sorree to start of so morbid, but that's the first thing that came to my head so thot i'd write it down first hehe. i not saying ur grandma is ur enemy, but yes she is family, and it's kinda hard to just bochap. do wat ur conscience tells u to. is she someone that u love? that u care for enuff to do wat u need to do? those are the questions u should answer and think about, NOT "no one care for her, so no choice lor", "we're the kind hearted ones, guess it's our turn to help again, wat's new"
i hope u know wat i'm trying to get at. it doesn't matter wat ur uncle, aunty all that are like. u (or ur parents) don't have to answer to them at all! u answer to urself, and to ur heart. and if ur heart tells u (or ur parents to) go and slap ur uncles and aunties and ask them to wake up.
hehe these are just my opinions. i'm just very "cut and dried" when it comes to family "problems".
take care see u soon~~
