Originally posted by WhosUrDaddy?:
Latest Update : Just last nite she confided in me regarding the problem and she herself came to realise the guy isnt serious abt the potential r/ship. Then later in the same nite, that guy himself in the end told the girl he feels 'its better to be just friends' ... lucky that guy told her all these now.. and frankly, I am very relieved she saw the light before even that guy confessed.
And for those interested to know .... [b]YES. I am interested in her. I didn't know what I should be feeling prior to all these, cos I am not sure if its just a crush or is she someone I like.. and after tat guy 'swooped' in, I got my answer.. and I tot it was over for me. But it seems, things have changed in an instant. And I forsee a chance for myself.
Issit Fated that all these happened ? or mabbe just some coincidence ? I dunno... the world really works in strange ways.
I've initiated a date with her, to meet up next week. Slowly and hopefully, things will blossom.[/b]
the main thing here is to be impartial and objective towards this whole issue..i know some guys who would backstab personally just to eliminate competition..no good ever comes out of it..but if the guy is really betraying her trust, she must know.