Why do we need to have a girlfriend/boyfriend ?

• nOoBs

  20 Jul 03, 22:39

  
  Why we need a girlfriend/boyfriend ?
• the Bear

  20 Jul 03, 22:39

  we don't need until we fall in love with them...
• nOoBs

  20 Jul 03, 22:43

  So when we're together, what is the chemistry tat keeps us so in love with each other ?
• jasmine17

  20 Jul 03, 22:52

  Originally posted by nOoBs:

  So when we're together, what is the chemistry tat keeps us so in love with each other ?

  true love and care, selflessness and faith
• the Bear

  20 Jul 03, 22:54

  does it matter?
  
  

  Originally posted by nOoBs:

  So when we're together, what is the chemistry tat keeps us so in love with each other ?

• nOoBs

  20 Jul 03, 22:56

  Originally posted by jasmine17:

  true love and care, selflessness and faith

  what is selflessness ?
• the Bear

  20 Jul 03, 22:58

  when you'd give your right arm just to make her happy...
  
  

  Originally posted by nOoBs:

  what is selflessness ?

• nOoBs

  20 Jul 03, 22:58

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  does it matter?
  
  

  Not really.. i dunno what im asking also.. sigh...i tired to think. jus now went swimming on my own. trying to give myself sometime to think better....
• nOoBs

  20 Jul 03, 23:02

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  when you'd give your right arm just to make her happy...
  
  

  hai... she's t0o independent. den she's going to soem appointment den i told her tat i accompany her go. den she told me she want to go herself, but its so far den thru the journey wont she be boring?
  What's wrong with me accompanying her ?
• the Bear

  20 Jul 03, 23:09

  you're crowding her?
  
  even together, it is vital that you both have your own lives and grow individually.. and that will help you grow together..
  
  maybe it is.. or maybe she just wants you to rest?
  
  

  Originally posted by nOoBs:

  hai... she's t0o independent. den she's going to soem appointment den i told her tat i accompany her go. den she told me she want to go herself, but its so far den thru the journey wont she be boring?
  What's wrong with me accompanying her ?

• f[a]erie

  20 Jul 03, 23:09

  need?!?
  i nvr c it as a need eh.. it juz come naturally.. someone special comes along.. den u juz fall in luv with them..
  isnt the same for everyone
• jasmine17

  20 Jul 03, 23:09

  Originally posted by nOoBs:

  hai... she's t0o independent. den she's going to soem appointment den i told her tat i accompany her go. den she told me she want to go herself, but its so far den thru the journey wont she be boring?
  What's wrong with me accompanying her ?

  I sense something wrong with your relationship........
• f[a]erie

  20 Jul 03, 23:14

  need?!?
  
  hmm.. i tink its natural eh.. u meet someone special n u fall 4 that person.. den u 2 get 2gether...
  
  i nvr eva tried lookin 4 one.. or rather nvr feel e need 4 one.. until that special someone comes along.. isnt e same 4 everyone?
• nOoBs

  20 Jul 03, 23:18

  Originally posted by jasmine17:

  I sense something wrong with your relationship........

  yup. sOmetHing wrong... hai... nvm... let's stop here =) thanks for all the replys
• the Bear

  20 Jul 03, 23:21

  good luck
• f[a]erie

  20 Jul 03, 23:21

  its not a need...
  
  its somethin natural...
  
  you fall.. jus fall.. no rhyme no reason... when that special someone comes along.. you jus fall...
  
  
• nOoBs

  20 Jul 03, 23:22

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  good luck

  tHanks alot
• nOoBs

  20 Jul 03, 23:33

  Originally posted by f[a]erie:

  its not a need...
  
  its somethin natural...
  
  you fall.. jus fall.. no rhyme no reason... when that special someone comes along.. you jus fall...
  
  

  =)
  
• Yunhaier

  21 Jul 03, 01:23

  Originally posted by nOoBs:

  
  Why we need a girlfriend/boyfriend ?

  No need. Who says we need them.
  
  However, you can't combat against your love cosmic lesson when is time for it to surface. The strongest man can battle the most dangerious enemy, yet succumb to his own heart and emotions.
  
  Think about your first love and TRY suppressing the urge to think about her during that point of your time. Chances are, you can't.
  
  Tell yourself that you no longer love her... deep down inside how true is it?
  
  The list of scenarios goes on.
  
  Basically, its not a must to get married, have a relationship, etc - its we who made the decision of having it. Anyone could be a monk - but rarely (even the most-heart broken ones) anyone does
  
  Cheers
• shandower

  21 Jul 03, 09:45

  It'll happen, when it's meant to happen.
• Devil1976

  21 Jul 03, 17:36

  Originally posted by nOoBs:

  
  Why we need a girlfriend/boyfriend ?

  It's usually for (a sense of) security.... To provide for or to be provided with.... Often we would be talking about emotional security as the main one, but not necessarily so...
  
  There is a BIGGER 'hypothesis' to this created by me... Can be used to explain this question too. What is being reflected above is more based on psychological aspects...
• Inzaghi

  21 Jul 03, 17:43

  so tat if u need someone, they're there for u..but when u no need them, ask them to disappear..
• Boo777

  25 Jul 03, 13:56

  so chim....
  so troublesome.....
• fugue

  25 Jul 03, 14:33

  Originally posted by nOoBs:

  
  Why we need a girlfriend/boyfriend ?

  Being able to love and being loved is a wonderful feeling, knowing that there are someone to care about you is so sweet.
• NeonTetra

  25 Jul 03, 14:34

  companionship