heartless freak....
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i dunnoe...but juz feel dat some times guys can be very heartless....one min...dey can be very good to u...but when the got u...dey can hurt u like ntng....
havnt guys heard of once bitten twice shy?
y isit dat guys can be lydat?
i dunnoe...but parents can be lydat too....damn hurt..
note: not referrin to all guys...but dat's juz wad's runnin in my mind now.... -
lost of feelings
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Probably the 'Nan ren bu huai, nui ren bu ai' theory is at work again.Originally posted by aHGer^83:i dunnoe...but juz feel dat some times guys can be very heartless....one min...dey can be very good to u...but when the got u...dey can hurt u like ntng....
havnt guys heard of once bitten twice shy?
y isit dat guys can be lydat?
i dunnoe...but parents can be lydat too....damn hurt..
note: not referrin to all guys...but dat's juz wad's runnin in my mind now.... -
i used to beleif in dat...not anymore now...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Probably the 'Nan ren bu huai, nui ren bu ai' theory is at work again.
dey r not huai...dey r really very nice guys....but....haiz....... -
cheer up ger
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Most of the time, girls don't really treasure nice guys. (My definition of nice guy = guys that treats girls VERY good, probably to the extend of self-sacrificial.)Originally posted by aHGer^83:i used to beleif in dat...not anymore now...
dey r not huai...dey r really very nice guys....but....haiz.......
When guys has a hint of evil/bad in them - its a different card altogether.
Aiyo... you ok anot? -
my mom and dad loves each other...both r good...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Most of the time, girls don't really treasure nice guys. (My definition of nice guy = guys that treats girls VERY good, probably to the extend of self-sacrificial.)
When guys has a hint of evil/bad in them - its a different card altogether. Aiyo... you ok anot?
and i loved "him"...juz dat...haiz..........
no im not ok...im not fine.... -
Hmmm.....i'm still waiting for my gf to go back home from MS....
I didn't even quarrel with her or things like that...and not a single phone call or sms....
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I see this post lagi Cheng Sim....Originally posted by Yunhaier:Most of the time, girls don't really treasure nice guys. (My definition of nice guy = guys that treats girls VERY good, probably to the extend of self-sacrificial.)
When guys has a hint of evil/bad in them - its a different card altogether. Aiyo... you ok anot? 
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Yo, maybe hard to catch fish is the precious to some guys. But they mostly give up on those that are really tough catch. Well, if ya say they are nice, they shouldn't be heartless. Unless they only fake it in front of ya. Mr. nice guys are hard to find
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My PM is always there - if you wish, you could pour it out.Originally posted by aHGer^83:my mom and dad loves each other...both r good...
and i loved "him"...juz dat...haiz..........
no im not ok...im not fine.... Meanwhile, hold yourself! -
Cheng Sim?Originally posted by M©+square:I see this post lagi Cheng Sim....
Aiyo! What's happening to everyone! You ok MC??!?! -
I'm ok. Placed my gf on ignore list.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Cheng Sim?
Aiyo! What's happening to everyone! You ok MC??!?! -
Haiz...Originally posted by M©+square:I'm ok. Placed my gf on ignore list. -
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suan le lah, suan le, mian qiang shi meh you xing fu de~~
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i guess it ain't fair to blame it all on the guys ....Originally posted by aHGer^83:i dunnoe...but juz feel dat some times guys can be very heartless....one min...dey can be very good to u...but when the got u...dey can hurt u like ntng....
havnt guys heard of once bitten twice shy?
y isit dat guys can be lydat?
i dunnoe...but parents can be lydat too....damn hurt..
note: not referrin to all guys...but dat's juz wad's runnin in my mind now....
give it a thought , if that guy hasn't been hurt be4 by a particular gal ... i dun think that he would have the heart to treat another gal in that heartless manner , and vice versa .
be it the guy who was heartless first or the gurl whom was heartless first , doesn;t everyone think that , the situation should be fair towards oneself ? doesn't that lead to being selfish ??
IMHO
Conculsion , human beings can be selfish and end up mindlessly hurting another person -
So sad posts...Hey people, cheer up okie?
It hurts because you love him/her ar..
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:Probably the 'Nan ren bu huai, nui ren bu ai' theory is at work again.
Cheer up boys and gers, bad or good, there is always someone in this life that is reserved for you Just depand on how you treat them when you have them, they come and go. -
Sometimes people are like that... they tend to forget something while being too involved in other activities.Originally posted by M©+square:Hmmm.....i'm still waiting for my gf to go back home from MS....
I didn't even quarrel with her or things like that...and not a single phone call or sms....
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I should say, the case above don't just apply to guys. There are also girls out there who're as heartless, isn't it?
Probably it's that when we chance upon people like that, then we start to sterotype a particular group of people. 'Yi Zhong Mi, Yang Bai Zhong Ren'
MC:
It's always best to give people the benefits of the doubt. To err is human, we make mistakes ourselves as well, so when someone comes along and make mistakes, be it consciously or sub-consciously, probably we'll be better off if we put ourselves in their shoes and feel/think about what could have caused something like that to happen. Some repercussion perhaps? I don't know.
Everything starts off with a small issue, once accumulated becomes a big one. It's never good to keep any issues, big or small within yourself and hide it from your partner, bcoz you'll never know when the day will come where you'll just take the opportunity to throw it back at him... you can imagine the rest yourself....
Don't be playing mind games, get whatever off your chest. It will make the r.s stronger as both of you will know each other better during tough times.
Tough times never last, tough people do...
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Hmmmmmmmmmm... hope i dun fall in that category...
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hi jie mei......Originally posted by aHGer^83:i dunnoe...but juz feel dat some times guys can be very heartless....one min...dey can be very good to u...but when the got u...dey can hurt u like ntng....
havnt guys heard of once bitten twice shy?
y isit dat guys can be lydat?
i dunnoe...but parents can be lydat too....damn hurt..
note: not referrin to all guys...but dat's juz wad's runnin in my mind now....
nt all guys /gers/parent r bad
that person being heartless sure gt his reason 1 loh...............
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Cheer up gal...Originally posted by aHGer^83:my mom and dad loves each other...both r good...
and i loved "him"...juz dat...haiz..........
no im not ok...im not fine....
no matter what has happened, its best to talk it out with him
find out from him why he did somethings and not to think of it yourself coz you will normally think in a negative way and resentment will set in. Then it will be more troublesome... -
some are... just because you meet them and get taken for a ride by them does not mean you should tar everyone with the same brush...
learn from this time.. and never make the same mistakes...
as for folks, i dunno.. some folks try, and do things "for their children's good" but their actions are utterly destructive... parents must learn to let go... and on the other side, the children must be responsible for themselves....
most of all, never behave the way you say you say you hate...
it would hurt those around you...
good luck.. i wish you peace, serenity, and happiness... may you find them all soon