heartless freak....
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Originally posted by ^cereal^:
gd one .......
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Tough times never last, tough people do...
Cheerz to all... [/b]
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I think there is such a quote becoz when gals are complaining abt their bfs, they will focus on their bad points... and to the listeners, it will seem like why she is so attracted to such a guy who dont appreciate her. The truth is the listeners havent yet seen the whole picture...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Probably the 'Nan ren bu huai, nui ren bu ai' theory is at work again.
However, there are definitely some guys who never appreciate the gals they have... however, when there is bad, there is always good. Good and bad are the 2 ends of a continum. Normally there is no extremity, but all people just lies on somewhere on this continum... its just depends on which side he/she is nearer... -
Originally posted by Supr3me^^BeInG:gd one .......
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Originally posted by ^cereal^:
cool
I should say, the case above don't just apply to guys. There are also girls out there who're as heartless, isn't it?
Probably it's that when we chance upon people like that, then we start to sterotype a particular group of people. 'Yi Zhong Mi, Yang Bai Zhong Ren'
[b]MC:
It's always best to give people the benefits of the doubt. To err is human, we make mistakes ourselves as well, so when someone comes along and make mistakes, be it consciously or sub-consciously, probably we'll be better off if we put ourselves in their shoes and feel/think about what could have caused something like that to happen. Some repercussion perhaps? I don't know.
Everything starts off with a small issue, once accumulated becomes a big one. It's never good to keep any issues, big or small within yourself and hide it from your partner, bcoz you'll never know when the day will come where you'll just take the opportunity to throw it back at him... you can imagine the rest yourself....
Don't be playing mind games, get whatever off your chest. It will make the r.s stronger as both of you will know each other better during tough times.
Tough times never last, tough people do...
Cheerz to all... [/b]
well said~
i love this- tough times nv last, tough ppl do.
well get a good chat with ur bf and sees whats wrong. its always good to maintain good communication with ur partner. like cereal say, get things off ur chest.
if u keep it all up, it will make u hallucinate abt probabilies to a situation. like y he dun call u.
not all guys are like that. maybe there are times like that. maybe after a good chat with him and he might take note.
nothing in a relationship is ever smooth. u have enjoyed the happy times. bad times are there to strengthen the relationship.
if the guy continues this way, and u are feeling miserable, think its time u let go. this way both might learn how to cherish each other more.
after my breakup do i learn how to respect gers more and cherish them when we are together.
so all the best to all the couples in the world.
sorry that my points are abit messy. bad at expressing what i wanna say.
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ok...i tink some of u r actually thinkin dat im posting this cos of BGR...no lor...not only BGR lor...juz dat even my parents r hurting me...totally hate life...when 1 prob hasnt been solved...the other one comes...its like...u totally dun have the mood to do anything liaoz....hate this kind of feeling...
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hmmm...
try some counselling service that deals with family matters?
ya true that parents can be unsupportive and insensitive to their child's feelings sometimes. whats the prob with ur parents?
dun be so gloomy. cheer up abit. just remember in some part of the world, there is someone who wish the best for u~ -
ah ger dun think so much
sometimes even parents themselves also duno how to handle their own problems...and they are too 'proud' to seek help coz like they think marry for so long..den wan to seek help from external party..won't feel so goot..
best is to tell them how u feel and how it is affecting u...how u hope they would do and stuff..although it is hard..nobody likes to listen to 'reality' but u got to start somewhere... -
hmm
good advice~
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For me is theis case me 19 male arh for additional informaiton ...just that if i cannot get the girl i desirsse just wish the very best for her and not get another one until i have totally lolst feelins for the previous one to be fair
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For me is theis case me 19 male arh for additional informaiton ...just that if i cannot get the girl i desirsse just wish the very best for her and not get another one until i have totally lolst feelins for the previous one to be fair
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For me is theis case me 19 male arh for additional informaiton ...just that if i cannot get the girl i desirsssssse just wish the very best for her and not get another one until i have totally lolst feelins for the previous one to be fair
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make it x2....Originally posted by M©+square:I see this post lagi Cheng Sim....
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i worse.. to be.. girl are heartless...haiz i always got fool by them n play by them...but still...i keep quiet n walk away..what can i do ? scold them ?? nah.. not my cup of tea.. i dont scold girl...whack/hit them?? Nv do this in my entire life before..
REN...i REN...i REN....1 day i expolde n die.. -
i worse.. to me.. girl are heartless...haiz i always got fool by them n play by them...but still...i keep quiet n walk away..what can i do ? scold them ?? nah.. not my cup of tea.. i dont scold girl...whack/hit them?? Nv do this in my entire life before..
REN...i REN...i REN....1 day i expolde n die.. -
LOVe...Stress...Friends...Jealousy..ALl this always make PEOPLE FAn..
sob -
da ren de shi wo men shi guan bu liao de.......
my parents oso got problems..... i cant b bothered with them anymore..... when myself oso 'zhi sheng nan bao'
take good care of urself n cheer up gal -
Originally posted by NeonTetra:
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i am lost now....my parents dont have problem...havent see them... quarrel or really sit together n talk things before....maybe they go it at night when they are in the room.. haha i dontknow..but i dont think they got problems ba...Originally posted by thhong22:da ren de shi wo men shi guan bu liao de.......
my parents oso got problems..... i cant b bothered with them anymore..... when myself oso 'zhi sheng nan bao'
take good care of urself n cheer up gal
But for me yes...lotsa problem ..... LOST...SAD... -
But, "Nan ren tai huai, nu ren shou hai"Originally posted by Yunhaier:Probably the 'Nan ren bu huai, nui ren bu ai' theory is at work again.
Haizzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....................... -
y u sad???Originally posted by sh|nY_BoY:i am lost now....my parents dont have problem...havent see them... quarrel or really sit together n talk things before....maybe they go it at night when they are in the room.. haha i dontknow..but i dont think they got problems ba...
But for me yes...lotsa problem ..... LOST...SAD...
/me sayang
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don 'ren' too much bad for health n mindOriginally posted by sh|nY_BoY:i worse.. to me.. girl are heartless...haiz i always got fool by them n play by them...but still...i keep quiet n walk away..what can i do ? scold them ?? nah.. not my cup of tea.. i dont scold girl...whack/hit them?? Nv do this in my entire life before..
REN...i REN...i REN....1 day i expolde n die..
find soemone to talk to.... or try to get things solve -
Life's ordeals are meant to make one stronger and better.
The question we ask ourselves when we encounter problems will be, 'Will these problems break us or make us?' Ultimately everyone face problems every now, what sort of mentality do we have to overcome them will be the key factor.
Get your priorities right, settle your problems one by one, rather than accumulating them and one day you find it too much to handle. Having an optimistic attitude towards problems will ensure things go right at the end of the day. Start off today by telling yourself you do not cower in the face of problems. Find solutions to problems, instead of whinning over problems and procrastinating over what you can do or cannot do. Don't sit on them. Occassionally, some problems don't have solutions... then just throw them to the wind. Things will fall in place somehow.
We all live only once.. do not live a life of regrets.
For all who're troubled, take heart. Life goes on and it's you, yourself who can make the difference in your own life. The rest are bypassers.. -
*nod nod*Originally posted by jnifur:But, "Nan ren tai huai, nu ren shou hai"
Haizzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....................... -
Very well-said indeed... I bet this is precisely what Ah Ger needs for now.... From my own experience, the main points have been more or less highlighted in this reply....Originally posted by ^cereal^:Life's ordeals are meant to make one stronger and better.
The question we ask ourselves when we encounter problems will be, 'Will these problems break us or make us?' Ultimately everyone face problems every now, what sort of mentality do we have to overcome them will be the key factor.
Get your priorities right, settle your problems one by one, rather than accumulating them and one day you find it too much to handle. Having an optimistic attitude towards problems will ensure things go right at the end of the day. Start off today by telling yourself you do not cower in the face of problems. Find solutions to problems, instead of whinning over problems and procrastinating over what you can do or cannot do. Don't sit on them. Occassionally, some problems don't have solutions... then just throw them to the wind. Things will fall in place somehow.
We all live only once.. do not live a life of regrets.
For all who're troubled, take heart. Life goes on and it's you, yourself who can make the difference in your own life. The rest are bypassers..
WELL DONE....