Originally posted by DarrenWong:
hey man... dun worry you're still young..... it's not very advisable to get a gf before army...... juz get to know more girl friends and juz enjoy the beauty of single life.... it might get lonely at times but hey wat do you know... you still have your frens ard man....get to know more girls to build your confidence..... dun be like me man....me and my gf broke up recently and it's kinda diff to pick up the pieces.... i find dat i have very few girl friends.... and i've lost the confidence to know more girls.... cuz i've been in a relationship for a very long time.... it's kind of sad though.... juz enjoy your youth.... u dun need girls to move on man....
this case coz u are in a relationship for too long. well. i am very glad i got a bunch of good frens.
my social circle is really blooming now. but yet i do not have the money to even sit down for a cup of coffee with some of them. some ppl will say need not have money to have frens. but i am not those who call my frens to have a chat with them. too much things going and i simply dun have the time for this. the best i can do is try to save up some money for some fun on weekends. lol. better then zero~~~
getting to know more girls doesnt boost my confidence. my confidence is fluctuating now.... sometimes i feel i look good sometimes i feel i look bad.
though looking at physical appearance, but ultimately everybody just wishes for somebody to appreciate and love them. i got to get some charm myself. training my body up now. lol. trying to be a pleasant guy....