need help in winning back my ex-gf heart
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mm.. in my case, she won't pick up my calls or reply my sms until i get over her. she wants me to do that, even though how hard i try to convince her to give me 1 last chance, tat i've learnt alot about my wrongs during these 3 weeks. she just kept saying no.. i can't force her cos she got a bf so quickly. she's so popular in sch.Originally posted by 97421:i dont think anyone is going to snatch frm me, cos she hardly got from in sg, only some of her polymates. which all i've seem b4. if i become persistent i'll loose her, if i dont catch up with her, i'll loose her too...... so i'm in a no-no situation. i'm struck!!!!!
go or not go........ sigh... argh....... i'm going to break down anytime liao......
the past 1 week, everyday i had dreams of her, nice and bad ones, and its so difficult to wake up to reality. can't sleep well for 1 week sigh. but in any case, if u need to cry to let out, do so. don't keep everything inside u. take good care.. -
yup she's from cancer.... is that a diff/??Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Is she a cancer? -
thanks bro...... i reali wish i can cry out loud..... sigh........Originally posted by AaLviNn:mm.. in my case, she won't pick up my calls or reply my sms until i get over her. she wants me to do that, even though how hard i try to convince her to give me 1 last chance, tat i've learnt alot about my wrongs during these 3 weeks. she just kept saying no.. i can't force her cos she got a bf so quickly. she's so popular in sch.
the past 1 week, everyday i had dreams of her, nice and bad ones, and its so difficult to wake up to reality. can't sleep well for 1 week sigh. but in any case, if u need to cry to let out, do so. don't keep everything inside u. take good care.. -
diff ppl haf diff ways of releasing their pent-up sadness.. find a way that works for u? crying helps, eating helps.. i wouldn't recommend the latter.. pretty unhealthy if eat alot.
anyway try n cheer up. i'm doing it, i believe u can too. keep ur mind totally occupied ok? tire urself out, at the end of the day, lie on ur bed and fall fast asleep. most importantly, take good care of ur health, show her tat u can live ur life still with or w/o her... -
orh okie...... will try to do my best.......Originally posted by AaLviNn:diff ppl haf diff ways of releasing their pent-up sadness.. find a way that works for u? crying helps, eating helps.. i wouldn't recommend the latter.. pretty unhealthy if eat alot.
anyway try n cheer up. i'm doing it, i believe u can too. keep ur mind totally occupied ok? tire urself out, at the end of the day, lie on ur bed and fall fast asleep. most importantly, take good care of ur health, show her tat u can live ur life still with or w/o her... -
i have a friend who love her bf so much and her bf broke and patched with her again. as for me, i think once your gf dun have feelings for u, even though she patched up with u in the future, it would not last long and u would be more hurted..Originally posted by 97421:HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i just broke off with my gf, her reason is she lost her feeling towards me. so how can i do to make her love me again
move on with ur life..
all the bez
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Let nature takes its course.
Sometimes the last thing a gal wants is to be overly possessed and perhaps she jus need some respect and personal space.
If u love someone, no matter she is with u or not, so long as she is happy, u wun mind anything. If she is with u and she is not happy, it is very hard to keep things going.
I hope u are not a taurus aint u?
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No one said recovering from a heartache is easy... yet no one said it's impossible as well.
Like what Alvin mentioned, if you have any pent up feelings, please go ahead and release them. There's no law stating that guys cant cry.
Cry if you have to, wipe your tears and life goes on. If you have to feel vulnerable, yes then it's what you have to feel for the time being. Then hibernate for a period, when you're done with that, you'll come out to be a better and stronger person.
You are not alone and it's a fact. Many people suffer from heartaches, and yes life has to go on no matter what happens becoz The world doesnt stop revolving becoz of one person.
Talk it out if you cannot handle. It's always better than keeping it within yourself. Having someone with you to listen through even though no solutions can be found will be better than you fighting that battle alone.
Know that once you start to get swallowed in self-pity, everything halts. You won't want her to call you a 'whim' and one who cannot survive without her. All the more you have to lead a life better without her, becoz before she made the entrance into your life, you did fine and well. So why should there be any difference now that she's gone? If everything has to be back at ground zero then please jolly well make it a better one than before.
Be positive, this mindset can last you through difficult times.
Of coz, not forgetting one of my fav quote Tough times don't last, Tough people do
You'll be well.... Help us by helping yourself.
Cheerz...