I just broke up with my boyfriend
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Is it that when guys dare to talk loud at you once in future he might beat you up? I have one in the past beat me in my previous working place cos i side with the other guy... and now this one he like don't even whether he can be together with me.....he keep rushing me for an answer whether i wanna stay together with him anymore......i din give him an answer....then he hang up, after not about 1 min.....he call and say then let it be before what we settled about........and break up......... I feel myself very stupid to torture myself to make me not remember those things.... whenever he's with me he like to rush the time, but when his friends are around he like to do things slowly....even when i ask him to go back home..... he'll find me irritated and will tell me off when his friends left.... Everything looks funny now when the day we started off.... i really don't wish to let go.... but i don't like to be shout at.... My heart is aching now..... What should i do? Should i let it go...or try to bring the relationship back? Please advice
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Advice... what should i do now.... really let it go.... and try to bring back the relationship....and if i will to bring back.....what do i have to do....i'm really confused
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why do u want him back when u only list the BAD things about him?
let's hear some good things about him? i dun get it when pple profess they love someone else (the whole reason for wanting to get back together rite?) but only list the bad things of the person?
i mean, bad points of that person are hardly gonna be able to convince u why he/she is worth it right?
of course maybe it's not about HIM at all. it's about the notion of being in love. love the person, not the concept of being in love.
u need a rational mind, which u dun have at the moment, to think about it. breathe for a few days, and realise there's a beautiful world around u. if u dun believe, take a look at my photos.
okok knn, out of point liow..
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And actually he's those type of guys who put their family in the first place..... and normally he respect his parents' decision........you see... i have some tattoo on me.....which he tell me before that if his parents found out i have that on me.... he don't think we can continue.... but i oredi change quite alot.... before i know him.... i have those tattoos before... and some piercing.... smoke....drink...etc.... but i change most of them... i remove my piercing....quit smoking and drinking.... isn't that enough... why is human beings always lidat...they will never be satisfied and will ask for me....want someone to be his 'perfert' ger in his mind.....
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Not that i wanna list all the bad things about him.... i just broke up with him 10 minutes ago...u can't expect me all of a sudden think about him good... his good...he bring me to places where i wanna go to ....fetch me off work and to work sometimes.... No....there's no third party in between us.... the thing that cause breaking up issue is a game.....just a online game.... he tell me that i control too much of him..... but what for.... i don't want him to keep playing this game... cos the game really know how to let ppl spend marnee in it... and other side he complain that he dun have enough marnee every month... as he's still in ns.... he keep saying i'm childish....... i remember the first time..... when i say he's childish...guess what he reply.... " then you go look for someone that's not childish to be together with lor "
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Hey people....can all of you out there give advice to me~~~
Please i need a conclusion -
oh geez.. wat have i gotten myself into...
well u need some time to quieten down. there is a choice to give him up if he's causing u so much pain. from wat u've told me (more bad points) it seems that his just taking u for a ride.
believe me, i've said sh[/i]it like that to girls too, along the lines of "if u not happee u go find someone else lor" type thing. i can tell u when i say such things, it really brings out the bastard in me. i may regret those extremely hurtful words later but NO ONE deserves that kind of sh[/i]it from me. definitely not someone i profess to love. needless to say, i didn't love those girls. thank god this is in the past. i will shoot myself if i were to say those words to anyone again.
now it's up to u to figure out whether he really loves u (seems pretty obvious that he doesn't - provided wat the details u've furnished here are true) and after u've ascertained that he doesn't love you, wat happens?
there are MANYYYYYYYYYYYYYY girls out there who will willingly be with a man they KNOW doesn't love them. i hope u aren't one of them. -
he did tell me before he love me alot...and even plan for our marriage maybe four to five years later.... but please who noes whether you are lying or is that the truth.....
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i did love him alot... not lesser then him i dare to say........
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we can't tell u wat to do young lady....Originally posted by Hiroyuki Takei:Hey people....can all of you out there give advice to me~~~
Please i need a conclusion
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I don't know whether to hate or to love him now....
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i think love is more accurately FELT than heard...Originally posted by Hiroyuki Takei:he did tell me before he love me alot...and even plan for our marriage maybe four to five years later.... but please who noes whether you are lying or is that the truth.....
u heard that he loves you. but u think he could be lying, so u obviously dun feel it. -
advice from you guys....so i can put up with a conclusion.... as you say i'm young.... so you guys as elders.... should have much more experienceOriginally posted by jOhO:we can't tell u wat to do young lady.... -
Then what to do now........ i still love him alot...... dun wish to let him go...but the other hand.........i hate what he tell me earlier on....... =~~~~~~
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kaoz elders leh.. i'm only 18Originally posted by Hiroyuki Takei:advice from you guys....so i can put up with a conclusion.... as you say i'm young.... so you guys as elders.... should have much more experience
okok no i'm not, but that's not the point.
i've already typed out wat i think... maybe u wanna wait till master yun and mistress (??) cereal to come and give their 2c worth... they are pretty wise...
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well i guess u have to decide once and for all. give him up, or chase him back.Originally posted by Hiroyuki Takei:Then what to do now........ i still love him alot...... dun wish to let him go...but the other hand.........i hate what he tell me earlier on....... =~~~~~~
better to make a wrong decision than to make none at all. of course u won't know whether the decision is wrong until u make it. -
then can you young guy advice me ..... i plan to settle all this by today.....tomolo i still work in the morning and till now not sleeping yet
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wah lau.. u sound like a guy
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i really need advice i don't wish to lie on the bed and cannot sleep.........and i don't wish to cry anymore
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i'm a girl lar!Originally posted by Master -_-:wah lau.. u sound like a guy -
sigh........ i need to know what guys actually is thinking.....
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u make it sound like this is a maths question where it can be worked out if u spend enuff time to do all the working, with the help of other maths professors around.Originally posted by Hiroyuki Takei:i really need advice i don't wish to lie on the bed and cannot sleep.........and i don't wish to cry anymore -
sigh........ i need to know what guys actually is thinking.....
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break break lor... sheeshOriginally posted by Hiroyuki Takei:i really need advice i don't wish to lie on the bed and cannot sleep.........and i don't wish to cry anymore