I'm lost, she left me
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Hmm... Your story... Kinda reminds me of my 1st relationship...?Originally posted by M©+square:I'm trying very very hard. I can't believe this lesson is such a hard one.
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i know it's hard.. i went thru the same heartbroken feeling too.. take time to mourn.. but after put on a garment of happiness of praiseOriginally posted by M?square:I'm trying very very hard. I can't believe this lesson is such a hard one.
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now you've made me cry and i'm gonna waste a box of tissue......Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm... Your story... Kinda reminds me of my 1st relationship...? 
I just can't stop crying....and i'm in my office now! -
Dear Mcsquare Pal,
I have nothing against knowing girls at pub - its kinda fun and entertaining at times. However, when it comes to committment base relationship - I truely doubt the chances to find one there.
The kick about being single is simply being single - no burden of attachment. New year is a great day to fool around causally - however, you are probably blinded by the light airy atmosphere of that day with recent-lost relationship.
You dated her out and express your feelings towards her: infatuation is obvious - The liking for acceptable physical appearance and ambigious characteristic about her that seemed to be ok at that point of time.
She rejected you, yet gave you hope and went through series of hot-cold treatement. You fell and succumb. Maybe not because she is good at it, but rather you are unstable and unable to see through. She has weekly boyfriend and long history of her own love. She is not simple - like your friends suggested. While in the relationship, she was caught being unfaithful.
Seriously speaking, you do actually expect her to be faithful? When a woman give her contacts to you easily - this would also happen to others as well. No? There are bound to be one mountain taller than the other (Yi shan hai you yi shan gao) - people whom are better looking, richer, etc. And why not?
Relationship is like fire. The more powerful it burns, the quicker it dies. Kissing on second date - what makes you think she wouldn't do that to others? Passion dies quickly with haste.
First Law of Love states: People chose their partner, don't the other way around. Your mind screamed a warning about her - your heart heed its own blinded thoughts. Seriously speaking, I have many friends who have similiar fate like you - falling for a playgirl. Nothing of what I had said goes into their mind - well, its ok because that would be their cosmic lesson to undergo.
If so many guys have tried and failed - its not their problem; its with the girl herself.
She has weekly boyfriend, what makes you think you wouldn't be just the same? Yesh, love can change attitudes and characteristics - but based on my case studies, experience and personal opinion - never be the first to change that. Maybe the next relationship she has may be different/better - but the first who tried to change that will suffer the full impact of the invisible blow. (Karma to change her).
Quote of the day: A love easily gotten is easily lost - a person easily knew, its easily forgotten. I wish you well pal. If things are getting difficult and you need a listening ear - by all means PM or call me.
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Bro, i knew the consequences. That's why i took the gamble into this magic. Tot of fooling with her too....but i jumped into the well. I got hurt, but didn't expect it to be this way.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Dear Mcsquare Pal,
Quote of the day: A love easily gotten is easily lost - a person easily knew, its easily forgotten. I wish you well pal. If things are getting difficult and you need a listening ear - by all means PM or call me.
Cheers -
If I were to fall for a playgirl - I would see through her ways of doing and probably implement my own strategic plans on her. But then again, though it work - in the end, I would have discover that she isn't suitable for me.Originally posted by M©+square:Bro, i knew the consequences. That's why i took the gamble into this magic. Tot of fooling with her too....but i jumped into the well. I got hurt, but didn't expect it to be this way. All these lies within the your karma by taking a gamble. I don't like chance gamble - I only believe in calulated risk.
Thought of fooling with her? Pure fooling involves no committment - obviously, at subconscious level, you don't think/feel this way either. People can only stand one either side - either you play the field or you get serious. Nobody is in the middle - those who attempt, always have bad consequence.
Cheers -
remember how u console me in the past?
hang in there...things will get better with each passing day... -
Thank You....i remember ....and i still want to help console people.Originally posted by hopy:remember how u console me in the past?
hang in there...things will get better with each passing day... -
but in the mean time, if u need help to mend ur broken heart, feel free to say kOriginally posted by M©+square:Thank You....i remember ....and i still want to help console people.
when the going gets tough, only the tough gets going... -
Not sure how close is your situation to my 1st... But somehow... I'm gonna make it AWFULLY SIMPLE here... Because I feel that not much explaining needs to be done...Originally posted by M©+square:now you've made me cry and i'm gonna waste a box of tissue......
I just can't stop crying....and i'm in my office now!
Often, when a person fails in something his / her 1st reaction and question would be 'WHY?' If your case is quite as mine, you'll probably find the search for this direction almost redundant...
It's not a matter of WHY it is over... Nor is it what could have been done and how much I've put in... It's SIMPLY just a matter of REALISING that IT's OVER....
Something SO SIMPLE, yet so delucinating... It took me YEARS to realise.... Don't be a fool like I ONCE was and waste your time for NOTHING....?
~good luck.
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Yun, if you know me.
I am quite a serious person. And i do not condone to people who fools around. this time...i took it to myself and went into it.
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Just like what she said...it's OVER. No more...Originally posted by Devil1976:Not sure how close is your situation to my 1st... But somehow... I'm gonna make it AWFULLY SIMPLE here... Because I feel that not much explaining needs to be done...
Often, when a person fails in something his / her 1st reaction and question would be 'WHY?' If your case is quite as mine, you'll probably find the search for this direction almost redundant...
It's not a matter of WHY it is over... Nor is it what could have been done and how much I've put in... It's SIMPLY just a matter of REALISING that IT's OVER....
Something SO SIMPLE, yet so delucinating... It took me YEARS to realise.... Don't be a fool like I ONCE was and waste your time for NOTHING....?
~good luck.
PS. Life goes on. Got works to be done.
I'll take two days leave to sort it out though i don't think it's enough time. I hope my boss grants me the leave. -
Very nice...but made me so emotional.Originally posted by the Bear:for all who have had their hearts broken.. read this online comic called, A Heart Made of Glass.. it's good...
A Heart Made of Glass -
Calm your heart and just make your adjustments slowly... Remember. Sometimes it's not the matter of meanings. Just acceptance.Originally posted by M©+square:Just like what she said...it's OVER. No more...
I'll take two days leave to sort it out though i don't think it's enough time. I hope my boss grants me the leave. -
you have to ask yourself, what you need now..... and later...........
you are fortunate enough that after your mishap, there are a lot of people who care for you rush to your aid.
consider that it a blessing for the deeds you have merit for yourself........................ -
ur story is one of the few i believe in sgforums..
time will heel.. however memories were always be there...
look it in another angle-> it might be a new beginning for u.
life still goes on...earth ball still going round...
got time go scream scream will help!
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i read it and cried, and laughed and cried again...
just reminds you that you're not alone... just let it out... we'll listen..Originally posted by M©+square:Very nice...but made me so emotional. -
Sorry for late reply. If you need anything, please PM me your HP contact and I'll get back to you. I tried to PM you but it doesn't work. Think it's probably some technical fault which you've mentioned before?Originally posted by M©+square:Just like what she said...it's OVER. No more...
I'll take two days leave to sort it out though i don't think it's enough time. I hope my boss grants me the leave. -
/me put his arms around MC.Originally posted by M©+square:Yun, if you know me.
I am quite a serious person. And i do not condone to people who fools around. this time...i took it to myself and went into it.
I can't and don't want to be fake.....
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I will....i won't stay pity partying too long...got to do some work. Can't be a worm and let her see that i'm unless.Originally posted by Yunhaier:/me put his arms around MC.
Don't worry too much, I know you will be fine.
Do you know that my CO even came to me and gave me counsel!!!?? Talked about his own past r/s and stuff. Even volunteered to treat me drink! So comforted. Haha... -
Hmmm....mourning with fasting or without?Originally posted by sillyme:i know it's hard.. i went thru the same heartbroken feeling too.. take time to mourn.. but after put on a garment of happiness of praise
She's really very nice to me. -
Ah Ma!!!Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:ur story is one of the few i believe in sgforums..
time will heel.. however memories were always be there...
look it in another angle-> it might be a new beginning for u.
life still goes on...earth ball still going round...
got time go scream scream will help! Ah squall runs to Ah Maaaa and hugzzz....
Guys Thanks alot. I felt so much better. -
guys oni? no gers?Originally posted by M©+square:Ah Ma!!! Ah squall runs to Ah Maaaa and hugzzz....
Guys Thanks alot. I felt so much better.
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Help is always around, don't worry too much man.Originally posted by M©+square:I will....i won't stay pity partying too long...got to do some work. Can't be a worm and let her see that i'm unless.
Do you know that my CO even came to me and gave me counsel!!!?? Talked about his own past r/s and stuff. Even volunteered to treat me drink! So comforted. Haha... -
hmm...i noe wad u were going thru...i had suffered for months...and stil suffering...many ppl toked to me abt it..but it din get better for me...until recently i realised things got worst...anyway...i hope dey did help u alot...and it was really kind of ur CO...
take care MCsquare