Does anyone hate ur parents b4?
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I do hate my parents. My father almost killed me 2x with 'cai tao', 1x when I protected my mother when she fought with him, 1x when he quarreled with me. He deivorce my mum over her best friend. My mother slept with 1 of my friend and many guys when I was just in the nxt rm. She plays majong from Sunday to Sunday 6pm-2am on the average. Both of them admitted that they never want me. I'm their 2nd child but was a marriage misfire. My grandfather was the 1 who send my mother to the hospital and not my father. He never carried me in my whole entire life not even when I was a baby.
I don't c them anymore. I'm on my own. I fought hard in life so to have my own family the way I think best and not get involved with them anymore.
My advise is that if u can't stand your family, move out then. But eventually do have a family of your own and not make the same mistakes they did. That is if u dare and have a job 1st. Not impossible if u really try.
But if your parents are not violent and morally terrible like mine, just bear with it till u r ready to get married and start your own family. -
Hate is a very powerful word for me to use on my parent...
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I think no one should use HATe this word on his/her parents.. if they don love u or whatever wrong they've done to you, u should not hate them.. why?because u will not be what u r if not for them.. if they did not raise u up and abandon you, where will u be?
HATE is too strong, really..
Imagine urself as a parent and ur child say i hate you.. how would u feel? put urself in ur parents shoe.. when a child say i hate my parents, the feelings of a parent, none of us can understand until we are one ourselves..
though they might have done something wrong, but they might have a reason doing so.. u can't use one word and 'erase' off all the time and effort they've put to raise you up.
Next time when u r about to say i hate my parents, do think twice.. osme of them wants to appreciate thier parents, but it's too late so don wait till u've lost them and realise thier importance!
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I hate my MuM too!!!!!!
after my father pass away twenty year ago... -
I hated them both to the core. I was burnt, scalded, cut, beaten etc. anything that u can name. i thought i wasn't their own flesh and blood. even more so when they divorce, but when i come to think of it....... well what the hack?! i live my life, it's mine. i dun give a damn to them and eventually i felt more at ease. hating someone can be a chore and a very energy wasting chore. it's tiring.
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...... Anyway, it's OVER.Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:I hate my MuM too!!!!!! after my father pass away twenty year ago... -
I don like them.. But wat to do?? After all they r ur parents... Actually i don noe how to express the love for them..
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LOVE covers a multitude of sins....
Love and not hate...... -
i dont really like my parents.... cant say hate...
probably not talked to anyone of them for a week..
i am sure they do treat me as their son... giv me money.. and so on.
but thats not all i want... nvm ... i can learn to solve my own problems .. and hopefully 1 day they will come to know that i am their son... not a stranger.