Getting Tired of NS...
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wat is actualli making him so depressed? wat hes doing? wat hes not doing? his boss? his unit? side effects from ns? .....??
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[quote]Originally posted by ricky82:
Always remind urself feeling upset or doing 'silly' things will never solve the problem. look 4 other ways like talking to other officers/ frenz/ and find out the reasons. (calmly think carefully could it be *urself or some one trying to 'sabo' u?)
I kanna all kind of 'sshit' long ago. (can never 4get till now)
When economy vs social tiz sort of things happen all the time...
since history tiz simple strategy of ruling "Divided & conquer" have been used worldwide.
If common ppl were 2 b united, there will be protests, strike and unrest... -
refer him to IMH...not saying he is mad. its mentality, d doc there can help himOriginally posted by charmmm:I have a friend who is in NS now.. he was so depressed that he became a alcholic!!!! Anyway ways to help hiM?
he is seeing a doc now but it seems like it didnt help much....
he hate NS life.... anyway ways to help him???
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yup, trainees there stay out during thier course.Originally posted by wuming78:oeti stay out one?
and something happened there recently???
heard diz type of things happen often in OETI...d place haunted
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tot is O E C BOriginally posted by erijazz:You are from OETI?
tats wat some pple call it -
i duno wat's the prob with him also.. everyday .. every hour .. every min he will say sian... he is not in the combat side.. he is in the medic.. can say quite lobo.. but still he very depress very sick of his life.. i think he feels kinda restricted... i duno.. he started drinking when he starts to serve NS.. not becos anyone influence him but he took it up himself..Originally posted by wuming78:y is he so depressed? help him find out exactly wats wrong. and try to solve the problem at the root. is it really ns itself, or is it a side effect of ns e.g. less time wif gf lead to relation problem lead to depression?
mus solve the root of the prob... o cos get him away from alcohol too... -
well .. i think something else is bothering him and not his ns life directly.Originally posted by charmmm:i duno wat's the prob with him also.. everyday .. every hour .. every min he will say sian... he is not in the combat side.. he is in the medic.. can say quite lobo.. but still he very depress very sick of his life.. i think he feels kinda restricted... i duno.. he started drinking when he starts to serve NS.. not becos anyone influence him but he took it up himself.. -
Yeah agreed NS indeed damn boring.. Have to follow so many rules and regulations.. By the way which unit are you from?Originally posted by ricky82:Hi people. I have less than a year to go before I ORD but cannot take it any longer. To top it up my boss is this Huge meanie whos all out to get me.
He is always finding faults with me and my minor uncalled for mistakes. He makes me feel so inferior in front of others too. I am quite upset. I also suspect that is probably a racist too.
Anyway, guys please advice me what to do as this is really getting up to me and I am feeling that this remaining less than a year will pass so slowly. -
ya the place quite haunted.. got quite a number of ppl die there b4... whenever i go guard duty there damn scared man...Originally posted by greyskymorning:yup, trainees there stay out during thier course.
heard diz type of things happen often in OETI...d place haunted -
hey take it easy man!Originally posted by ricky82:Hi people. I have less than a year to go before I ORD but cannot take it any longer. To top it up my boss is this Huge meanie whos all out to get me.
He is always finding faults with me and my minor uncalled for mistakes. He makes me feel so inferior in front of others too. I am quite upset. I also suspect that is probably a racist too.
Anyway, guys please advice me what to do as this is really getting up to me and I am feeling that this remaining less than a year will pass so slowly.
there are many ppl going thru the same shit as you! just tahan loh.. anyway u one more year to ord rite? very fast over one... same as me i also one more yr to ord.. hehe.. n\by now u should be used to army life already so just hang in there... rem SAF = Serve And F*** off..