Originally posted by Imperfect:
All these are the things that I am not sure... and will try to find out... but i guess 'how to' is the problem... sometimes thinking too much doesn't do anything good...
You ain't sure; even when the situation occurs and rise to the occasions, you wouldn't know as well. I always believe when a relationship is gone, there is often very little reason why you should get back together. For those rare occasions, there could be, but generally from the cases I encountered - no.

In the first place, if you desire to get back, why break and walk on separate path? Worst if she is the one who initiated the break - sure she is willing to get back on you?

Thinking too much isn't good? Well, for your mind and your body that is. No ample amount of thoughts towards matters of the heart is enough - there is always so much sh
it that your wandering mind always unconsciously ponders about.

Advice?

You may like to meet her. If possible, date her out and spend one entire day with her. From there, you can find 60% of your answer.
Don't expect anything, just keep an open mind.

Cheers [/i]