Originally posted by yi xun:
hmmm... i did talk to him... well, we had an argument... he said that it's just my feeling... he can't do anything to it... but then when i tell him how i felt, he didn't "shoot" me back... so i just told him that i don't ask much from him... i only want him to inform me of his whereabouts. That's all... simple as that... hope he gets what i meant...

(i didn't even complain about him going out everyday till very late then come home... cos i feel that he has his own freedom... hope he'll appreciate that... as i know, guys don't like gals to 'control' or nag about them too much)
you are the one who can only make your own decision. but don't shut down reality and believe that relationship is one person's effort.
Your head says let go but your heart is not willing...so u want to try again. Give yourself substantial time to level your feelings so as be fair to yourself to see the reality and then decide.
He gets what you mean but guess maybe his heart is not there anymore when he actually say that he cannot do anything about your sadness. know it's really really really hurting....but wld u like to hear tt frm your husband in future?