How many times?
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i've no right to comment on this topic..Originally posted by Bear:though there's no rule for you to follow how many times you should meet, but I think there should be period of how long you guys don't meet. (assuming that both of you are living in the same country). If not there's going to be trouble if you guys are not sparing to meet even once a month... BIG TROUBLE...
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CONFUSING leh....between the Bear and Bear.....
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hmm.. basically i partly agree with u. one's got each thinking.. btw i am a poly guy.Originally posted by yi xun:Actually its common for a couple to meet almost everyday in their "honeymoon" period... Perhaps the first 3 or 4 months.
But as time goes by, either one party (usually guys) will feel bored/tired or feel that there's not a need to meet everyday. Coz you've been meeting each other, doing some things at least more than once already (e.g., shopping, going to romantic places, etc)
Then perhaps meeting each other will be reduced to twice a week... unless there's any special occasion(s) or unexpected event(s), then the days of meeting each other will increased a bit...
Honestly speaking, try not to meet everyday at the beginning of the relationship... otherwise, as time goes by, the days of meeting up reduced, the gal might have a weird/uncomfortable feeling... She might not get use to it. Gals might even have the thinking that, why we don't meet up so often? Why you don't wanna meet me so often? (Sensitive ones --> You don't love me as much as before? Are you tired of seeing me?)
By right, there's no limit to the number of times for a couple to meet up every week. As long as they are comfortable with it, its ok even if a week didn't meet...
last time me and my ex gf, we usually mit everyday. meeting up mayb juz as simple as after class, meet up have a dinner and fetch her hm. its as simple as dat... we meet for almost everyday for 1 1/2 yrs in our r/s without fail. on fri or wkends we will hangout late like watch movie,shopping or chiong den go home.
but often meetup cause both party to understand each other so well dat often lead to quarrel(my case), and scarred the r/s thus casuing it to fail. haiz..
well, if ur gf is those sticky ones, no harm meeting everyday rite.. but try not to "hong" the gers too much.. they will climb onto ur head (my case).. -
Well, all depend on circumstances.. i agreed wif you, i guess.. meeting ard once or twice in a week will be nice.. As one saying goes, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"...
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LOl.. absence makes my mind wonder wad she is doing.. haix... den like no security in the heart sometimes..Originally posted by Prec|ous:Well, all depend on circumstances.. i agreed wif you, i guess.. meeting ard once or twice in a week will be nice.. As one saying goes, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"... -
u gonna trust her mah....Originally posted by WrX_STi:LOl.. absence makes my mind wonder wad she is doing.. haix... den like no security in the heart sometimes..