Anyone has godbrother or godsister?
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Sigh, I got this problems regarding godbrothers.... Just want to know, for those who believes in close friends and brother hood, stories about you and your godsiblings. What makes you guys close, and what positive outcome have you got? Most of all, how you guys want to be godsiblings in the first place? Cheers!
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Sigh, I know of a younger guy whom I wish to be my godbrother for many reasons. Problem is, when I told him that, I think he thought me of as psycho and brush me off. Thats ok. But he wont quit smoking. Hey, I know of many smoker friends, but why smoke when you are just putting the cigarettes in your mouth, but not puffing it.
Well, he is now having a friend who are giving him bad influence, even now inducting him into an MLM company, which I could see as those disguised pyramid or fly by night company. I tried persuading him, but how to talk to a person who has been brainwashed, becoming more stubborn and negative towards others? Of course when you enter those company earlier, you start to earn a lot in the beginning. He wont let go because he see the "results".
I forsee his weakness is money long time ago before this, considering his family background too. But as he is the only child, the more he cannot afford to take a wrong route in life. I cant wait for the company to collapse. You wouldnt know when the police will knock on door.
Even if the company collapse, he is still under bad influence, and might go merry-go-round trying other lousy companies. Many a times, I told myself, well he will learn the lessons somehow. But the impatience in me do not allow. Well, this is my story, although it is quite brief compared to the experience.
I just wish people would just shoot those arseholes, either the people who organise the scam or people who benefit from the effort or influencing their friends in the negative way. -
i aint quite into this godbro and godsis thing. over the years, i have found out the following (some might find it negative), as far as this sorta relationship is concerned:
girl wants to remain friends with a guy but doesnt wanna get involved with him, and vice versa. guys wanna get involved with the girls and use this type of relationship to bring down her defence, and vice versa too. girls see godbro as carrots. -
Ooo god Brothers~ for me, i used to have them during my sec sch... maybe its becozzz i'm a single child, so its just normal to want to have a brother or so... wat keeps it going u ask? its everyday, we tok bout hw our sch lives, then his problems, my problems, his crush sort of thing. But as he grew up, it will be different.. nt for all, but in my case, its liddis... soon, i start to feel lonely and such, coz he has his own gf etc etc. Then i always remember thier b'daes, however, a few of them make effort to remember. HAha, but all is past, tis sort of thing... in my case, i feel tat "bigger ppl" wants a god sibling is becoz they might feel lonely? duno leh.. haha, anyway i'm outta tat era... so much suffering yeah... took me 2 yrs to get outta tat sad stuffs. not going back there again~
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USED to have 2 in my secondary school dayz.
the elder godsister need more becoz her bf have many god sis. I need 1 becoz i m the youngest. Simply as tat.
the younger 1, she pop the qn so i agreed loh. But after tat kana scold by my elder god sis Y i din make her(younger god sis) my gf. nevermind mah... i respect my younger god sis decision. -
Never really thought that this god bro god sis thing makes any difference.
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haha...same thinking. but i don buy such things as god bro or sis la. In the case of my religion, any sound(i need to emphasis this word) christians will be my brothers and sisters..though there are a few i look up to for examples.Originally posted by w1nd:Ooo god Brothers~ for me, i used to have them during my sec sch... maybe its becozzz i'm a single child, so its just normal to want to have a brother or so... wat keeps it going u ask? its everyday, we tok bout hw our sch lives, then his problems, my problems, his crush sort of thing. But as he grew up, it will be different.. nt for all, but in my case, its liddis... soon, i start to feel lonely and such, coz he has his own gf etc etc. Then i always remember thier b'daes, however, a few of them make effort to remember. HAha, but all is past, tis sort of thing... in my case, i feel tat "bigger ppl" wants a god sibling is becoz they might feel lonely? duno leh.. haha, anyway i'm outta tat era... so much suffering yeah... took me 2 yrs to get outta tat sad stuffs. not going back there again~ -
Originally posted by laurence82:Sigh, I got this problems regarding godbrothers.... Just want to know, for those who believes in close friends and brother hood, stories about you and your godsiblings. What makes you guys close, and what positive outcome have you got? Most of all, how you guys want to be godsiblings in the first place? Cheers!
it's usually a front used by the initiator to start a bgr. -
Serious?
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Huh, serious which means if i am guy and i want to have godbrother, does that mean i am gay?
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No la....i dun think so.Originally posted by laurence82:Huh, serious which means if i am guy and i want to have godbrother, does that mean i am gay?
Muahahaha -
heard that people keep or take god brother and god sisters as reserves for gf and bf (i.e. for opp sex.. not sure if it applies for same sex)
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well people just want companion, whether for love, friends, or siblings
just hope people dont think me maniac trying to get godbro cos my elder bro went US and that I am using someone to replace...
btw I am not close to my real bro -
oic...i also have a god brother. he's younger than me. i have to say that i regard him as my own brother and love him very much as my own.Originally posted by laurence82:well people just want companion, whether for love, friends, or siblings
just hope people dont think me maniac trying to get godbro cos my elder bro went US and that I am using someone to replace...
btw I am not close to my real bro
haha....maybe its being stereotyped as gay. but all my frens know tha we are not lah. -
arh no wonder........Originally posted by NeonTetra:oic...i also have a god brother. he's younger than me. i have to say that i regard him as my own brother and love him very much as my own.
haha....maybe its being stereotyped as gay. but all my frens know tha we are not lah. -
no wonder wat?Originally posted by laurence82:arh no wonder........ -
hey wait a minute...contradictionsOriginally posted by NeonTetra:haha...same thinking. but i don buy such things as god bro or sis la. In the case of my religion, any sound(i need to emphasis this word) christians will be my brothers and sisters..though there are a few i look up to for examples. -
it seems that the term "god sibling" has taken on a entirely different form over time... you don't just make someone your god sibling just by saying it.
think "Oath at the Peach Garden" in Romance of the Three Kingdoms... -
i have a god-brother who is 9 years older than me, and he's chindian ....
we started out as good friends when i was back in high school. we are still the best of friends and he's still my god-brother till today.
i think it's one of the best friendships in my life so far -
but doesnt question our sincereity anything.........Originally posted by dead_clone:it seems that the term "god sibling" has taken on a entirely different form over time... you don't just make someone your god sibling just by saying it.
think "Oath at the Peach Garden" in Romance of the Three Kingdoms... -
ya...he's a christianOriginally posted by laurence82:hey wait a minute...contradictions -
maybe we have known each other for many years...then always stay together and after a long time brotherhood will just grow up....i can tell u that they were more close to me than my real brother...and i always treat them as my real brother....Originally posted by laurence82:What makes you guys close, and what positive outcome have you got? Most of all, how you guys want to be godsiblings in the first place? Cheers! -
hmm, a huggable godbrother?
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huggable???Originally posted by laurence82:hmm, a huggable godbrother?